
Vabbing, Neighbour Scandals & Dating Is In The Bin 😭💀 | EP.104
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Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀
Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal).
The girls also get into:
- The internet’s obsession with vabbing
- Why the dating scene feels completely cooked
- The rise (and menace) of AI videos
- Hyper-femininity, dressing for yourself, and rejecting the male gaze
- Tia’s emotional vulnerability, Steph’s maid-of-honour dreams, and classic oversharing
Things take a turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks how to recover after her boyfriend gave her a serious case of the ick 💔
As always, the episode wraps with Adult Finds of the Week and peak We Just Got Here banter.
⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
08:28 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
10:04 – Neighbour Group Chat Update: ShtGate Edition*
26:03 – Let’s talk about vabbing
35:31 – The state of the dating scene
43:04 – The rise of AI videos
46:58 – Hyper-femininity & not dressing for the male gaze
50:45 – Is Tia scared of emotional vulnerability?
53:33 – Steph as the toxic maid of honour
01:08:23 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend gave me a serious case of the ick”
01:29:50 – Adult Finds of the Week
Adult Finds of the Week:
Tia: https://shorturl.at/hsesP
Steph: Available at your nearest Starbucks
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