James & Fuhad Get REAL About Relationships ft. Shxtsngigs | EP.159

0:00I'm so turned off by my boyfriend. I'm using breaking up with him as my weight loss reward. Damn, somebody will just have a cheat there. What? Okay. Oh, when I drop a stone, I'm leaving him as a treat. That's my cheapness. That's motivation. She's tapped into a difference. I can't leave him unless I get to my goal weight. Hi guys, my loves. I'm sure this set looks familiar. This is what you call taking things into your own hands. Do you can see there's a picture that might fall on my head at any given moment? If it does, we laugh and we run. Exactly. And this is why you don't even know our DMs. Because we will force our way in. As you can see, we've taken over A set. James, who had hello. Hi, hi, hi. Yeah, you better say hi. I'm joking. I don't know if we didn't actually get nothing, but we do have shit and gigs on guys. Hey, thanks for having us. I just thought I should get out of the way because the set looks so different.

1:00Yeah, you can't get away playing off cool. So I wanted to pretend that I kidnapped them, that we kidnapped them. So yeah, it didn't work out. So this is it, guys. Hi, we've got friends. We have friends. They're big friends. They're big friends. These are big orgasms. This is like the kings of podcasts. And this is like up there, up there. This is the most famous. They'll probably get on here. So please enjoy. Because we're about to ask next week. Thank you for grace and asking your presence. So close. Thank you. Thank you for grace and asking your presence. Thank you. The kings of the podcast. Please stop. Please, please. Thank you very much. We're very happy to be here. Please stop. You can be here. Please. That's rock and roll. My goodness. I've been making people feel awkward all morning, guys. Do you want to get into why that's been happening? What? How you've been acting today? Yeah, why not? Since you're putting me on a spot. I wasn't planning to, but here we are. I feel like this is a very full circle moment. One day, guys, I was working on a podcast. And I saw a shits and gigs had a lot to do with the podcast.

2:04And I was like, maybe one day, hopefully, they will see my shine. Obviously, I call my best friend at the time. I was like, oh, you won't believe it. Steph, Steph, anyway, I was like, hopefully one day they'll see how talented and great I am. And then they never spoke to me again. That's absolutely not true. We just check on you new every week. Literally. Every week is a huge exhibition. Every other week. You and I, that's a lie. You are there. You are there. I was basically there for everything. It's spirit. It was a no time. Okay, physically. You was with one of the people that are part of that podcast. A lot. Yeah, when we said hello to you. Right. And the other person I was in the room. Yeah. It was fine. Not every week, not every two weeks. Maybe once a month. No. I just had to have at least five. I just... Anyway, they were big and scary. And yeah, and then one day, one day, someone that works

3:05on their pod contacted me and I was like, Hey, there's stuff going on here. You might be good at it. And I came into the world of shits and gigs. And so now then, and at the same time, me and my bestie was starting a pod, hugely inspired by the kings that were shits and gigs since you wanted to go there. I asked why you've been at a weird today. Oh, sorry. That was my original question, but I'm getting there. This is a story. Okay, okay. This is a story. This is the origin story. Okay, cool, but it's fine. So then we started off what we... Well, we were starting off what and inspired by the kings that were shits and gigs. And this is world's colliding. But away from that, my nervousness... You know I've been acting off this week. I've known it. I've only known it today. I've known it today more than you. Yeah, I had a conversation with my big boss this morning. And change. You're talking about, but obviously...

4:07Next to you, sorry. But... Oh, I died. I'm just my father. I know this is due to see you though. I know so well. But change rattles me. And I think I hadn't vocalised that. And so my chicken in on you and how you were doing was my way of like, you know, you know when a parent upsets you and then they come in like, have you eaten? Yeah. That was what I was doing to them this morning. Did you eat them before? No, no. I was just... You were just checking that door, so I could have... No, no, no, no. I was... You know when I'm in a mood and I radiate mood. Yeah? Yeah, I've been like that this week, in general. I've been on the Esmeral week. Every time you call me, I thought you were going to say they can't see me. I was too scared to iron my trousers off just in case. You man are pissing me off. Sorry! Sorry! I'm about to go through the room. Anyway, that's the origin story. We appreciate the apparent gravity of the situation.

5:10But thank you for having us. Honestly, it's a pleasure to be here. It's a long-awaited situation of us a year ago. Hmm. That's great. My head is rocks. My head is rock. Because sponge rock in there. Any whom? So yeah, welcome to... We just got here, shits and gigs. I'm so excited to have you. Let's go into Elton with another week. Should I go first? Years looking at you. My wind of the week. OK. I finally cleared out my shoe covers. And it's actually a massive deal. Cool. Because that thing was placard. Every time we used to get to have visitors over, I would make them give me their shoes. Just like a video. So you don't have to go over everything that spills out. So it was full of bags or clothes that I especially saw invented that I never did. Old shoes. There's a deep freezer in there because I'm not doing... Deep freezer. There's a shoe cover. Yeah. It's not a shoe cover. It's like, it's a cupboard. But I use it as a shoe cover. But there's a deep freezer in there to keep my needs. I've been used to cover.

6:12It's quite big. It's like a little room. I could turn into a office. Oh. OK. You'll be uncomfortable. But there'll be a desk. But yeah, all sorts in there. And I've been avoiding clearing it out with a busy, broken walk and pad in there. That's how much of a bump it is. And every time a visitor came over, I would actually have to get them to handle the shoes just so that I could open the door and throw them in the wall. I've seen this cupboard, didn't I? Yeah. So all the coats are. Yeah, yeah. But then I was watching... I've been watching a lot of home tours, etc. Just to get some kind of info to decorate my mini flat. A very small flat. And I came across a lot of people that had like pantries. I mean, probably it was like an eight bedroom mansion in LA. But I was like, you know what? Remanticise your life. So I was like, you know what? I've got a shoe cupboard. I, this is going to sound so anti-like. I have a lot of club tomatoes, a lot of tins in general in my house, because again, cooking, I believe in buying a bulb. I don't want to go to a shop every week. You really cost me so much. So I don't want to go to a shop every week. So I need somewhere to store the stuff.

7:12I was like, oh, I can build shelves in there. I was like, no problem. I have all this shit that I need to get rid of. But I say I cleared that cupboard. As we did. But he raised to clear up the cupboard. He defrosted the freezer and everything. So now I actually have space to build this pantry, which you'll be doing. But, yeah. So you didn't do anything. I didn't do anything. This is going to be my decision. This is your win in the week. This is your win in the week. Doing nothing. Nothing. OK, cool. I love this thing. I won the week to be fair. All right. I know you read that with joy or something. I know. I can't wait to tell his mum why they're here. I keep walking into the cupboard just standing there and be like, wow, space. But, yeah, now I can actually build the pantry, which, again, like I said, probably won't be my problem. But I'm happy at least I have space. I'm trying to find new ways to create space in the flat. Because it's just so small that there is no space to be. So I'm trying to create new ways to build different spaces where stuff can be about the flat feeling too cluttered. Yeah, OK. So I can actually find and try and paint.

8:14But yeah, that was my win in the week. It's a very adult one. But hey, I like it. That's cool. My L of the week, engineer Quake has been going through it, guys. Go on. I have been having a met with these hard drives. So for those who have been going, explain it to me. I'm going to create a trick. I edit the podcast. So yes, every time there's a glitch or something, it's happened. It's me. It's probably because my laptop has lags in the end and the map will air to you. So guys, I'm using everything that I've got. But when we haven't recorded, when it's not recorded, it's usually as well. Yeah. It's not you. Yeah, that's all heard. Anything that's lost, wherever it's, I'm joking. So this engineer Quakey between us. But yeah, I have been having the mayor of our footage as of late. Because now my, I didn't realize that one SD cost can die, but also hard drives. There's different type of hard drives. So different type of purposes, basically. I was using a different hard drive that basically wasn't good video editing, which means that the footage each file, I mean, I'm about eight different, like six, was taking about eight

9:19hours to transfer, which meant that from Monday to Wednesday, I wasn't sleeping. Because when it transfers, and this was anyone that wants to start a pod, or is doing the pod or whatever, at the transfer of files, and then I have to compress them and send them to our editor who makes kits for us. And that takes additional probably eight hours in total. So basically, like I'm saying, from Monday to Wednesday, I'm not sleeping. So this, like I'll say, this Monday, it got to point out, I was like, no, there has to be a better way. Because one file was taken about 72 hours to transfer, it took three days. My laptop was hot. The hard drive was hot. Everything was hot. My eyes were red. I was like, there has to be a way. I started chatting to Claude. Claude told me, basically, that I was using the hard and wrong hard drive. And the one that was taking 72 fucking hours of idiot, that's not meant for videos. So I said, okay, fuck it. I'm going to buy a new hard drive. Hard drives didn't realize, with that expensive story. Sorry. Yeah, that's pretty weird.

10:19Sorry. Hold onto your hard drives tight. I, when I used to work, when I used to work at a label, they had used to have hard drives around all the time, the lacy ones, the orange ones. I always used to think there were like 20 pounds of whether you used to leave them lying around. Now I see how much they are. Hold them tight. I've been holding that hard drive. But anyway, it's changed my life. That hard drive. It went from 72 hours to 50 minutes, which I would take. But before that, I was having a mess. Everything was failing. They were maybe having pissed me on me. Literally. And on top of that, I have to edit three episodes a week. So imagine the mail having to now get the patron episode out. And it's where sometimes it comes out. It's late and which you see. There you go. You know what I mean? Or like the main episode on Thursday, and they're in Reddit, we're on this set trial. So I was going through it. Literally, I was on the, I think I was on like the verge of a breakdown. And that really happens to me because I can take a lot of work. But that was just, it felt, how would I say, I was just straight because it was out of my control. Like no matter what I did, I just couldn't get the time down.

11:22So I had to just sit there and accept it. Like you're literally watching this one file had, and the father to 62 hours was the one that, the one file that I knew that left that was remaining that I needed to start editing. So I'm just sitting there, waiting. It's a Wednesday. The episode is supposed to be out tomorrow. The patron episodes on there. I was losing my mind. I literally had them melt down. I think I even called you and was like, yeah, he does. Because I was like, I took the laptop everywhere. I was driving with my laptop open. That's how bad it was. It's been there. My laptop open was on the train with my laptop open. Cross the road with my laptop open. Got to work, set up on my desk. Everyone's so used to seeing my laptop on my desk now because I'm just constantly transferring files. No one even asked me questions anymore because it's just there. Hot. And roaring and transferring a file. Everything's hot. So yeah, that is my L of the week because I was on the verge. Thank God that you could see me today because I was, I was ready to end it all. I was tired. Wow.

12:22Good to see you. I'm glad you made it. Thank you. That sounds more like a W. Yeah. It is, but no, the way I felt this week and it takes a lot of me to be like, oh my God, fuck it. I will literally at the point of, oh my God, fuck it. Because that was like the third week in a row where I hadn't slept for a Monday to Wednesday because of these bloody files. It was just like getting longer, longer. It's all right. It's just. It's all custom-ed charged. Charged. Sorry, you're just not getting an episode this week. Sorry. Wow. It's all complaining. You don't know what I'm going through. Educated Quake, who was up the edge. I'm sorry. Damn. Damn, more played. Well, yeah. Good resilience. That's the week. I'm still recovering. Um, tea. Mine, what has mine been? Um, let's start off with L. Yeah, I'm going to start off with L. Um, so I attempted to watch the solo clips last week because the BBC told me that I could watch if you

13:49were to watch the video. You see, if they were, yeah, I would have never known, you know, you see I was there because of my head. Corrinor. Yeah, Celeste. Too good. Anyway, I didn't mean to interrupt. Um, so we didn't, I didn't get glasses. Um, and I saw too much propaganda on the internet about how I would burn, burn out my eyeballs. I don't know why you're playing games because you can't afford to play games. Of course. The eyes are finished anyway. It's for people that want to possess like mine or mine. Look, I just looked up. I was in the test go car park. I was like, okay, do you know how hard it was for me to not, you know me, do you know how the self-discipline it took to not look up and burn my eyes? I'd eat with it twice. I wear, okay. I was so annoyed. I was so annoyed. I was so annoyed. And then there was a lovely guy and I really wished the best for him. I have thought about him almost every day since I saw him. All right, really? No, let me tell you something. Right. Let me tell you something. We were sitting, it was me and my partner. We were sitting on. Yeah.

14:49You made it awkward. No one made it awkward about you. Thanks. Okay. So he was there during this. Okay, yeah, yeah. Okay, cool, cool, cool, cool. That's right there. That's right. That's right. Otherwise, I'd just be thinking about, yeah. Yeah, cool. Adam came up to us and he was like, guys, do you give a shit about this clip stuff? And we were like, obviously, we were trying to watch it through an iPhone. And we were like, actually, no, we do. He was like, oh, I have the thing. Look at it. What we saw was so different to what we're seeing on that stupid iPhone. And I was like, he, him, my partner was great looking at me wrong. But Adam, Adam made my day. Adam with his little, just really, I hope, like his family treats him well. I hope he slept good that night. I hope just everything, because that moment was, he didn't have to do that. I hate Adam. What? My partner was all right, but Adam. No, no, no. I couldn't listen to this episode. Yeah, yeah. I'm a support with my brain. I'm not listening to this episode.

15:50No, but I told him, Adam was so, Adam didn't have to do that. He didn't have to do that. Cool. But he changed our whole experience. How old are you? Don't speak for me for starters. Richie is going to fall. Richie is going to let him fall. When he falls, as long as it doesn't fall in your heads. I thought I was going crazy seeing it. Is it? It's all good. That's all good. Where it happened. So anyway, another man made your die. You don't have to do all that. You didn't have to do that. I'm just far less than what you didn't. Another man made you do it. Your partner was all right, but Adam, wow. I thought about him since. I thought about him every day since. I hope his family treated him well. Yeah, because he gave me some glasses, look at the sound. Gabe asked. I saw you in it. Gabe asked. Can I say, it was a joint thing. Stamson thing. Anyway. Um, can I just say my partner did make my night because we went to see the shooting stars at 1 a.m. Cool.

16:50That was really beautiful. However, props to Adam. So, I love the week. Obviously, the clips were shit. Um, and it's because the BBC told us to look through our iPhones and that was a fucking eye. When they say look through your iPhones, what did they specifically say to do? So you're supposed to selfie. So put your hammer towards you and the sun and you should be able to see it through your selfie lens. Oh. It didn't work. I can imagine. Yeah. Just, just, just glare. Just glare. It's never done work. Yeah. I don't know why they, I, it's a lie. Maybe just, they probably should have told you to, I'll tell you what I think about as well, your exposure. Maybe. That's the only thing I can think of. Do you want us to fix it? No, I don't mind. You can fool me, I don't care. I don't know why it should be fine. It just slowly dissend as the cost goes on. As we, it's very on brand for us. It's just going to just look top. Um, I, well, I'm not going to do that stuff because what, what's even that right? She never would have met Adam. Yeah. She wouldn't have had such a win of the week.

17:52Adam was great. I don't, I'm just saying Adam was fantastic. Wow. It just, he made both of that. But my partner would agree. We were really grateful for Adam. I'm going to ask him how much he cares about Adam. Yeah. Oh, it is. Yeah, I'll message him off to this team. Welcome for Adam. You know, I'm going to get back to the fuckers Adam. He made a post about Adam. Thank you. So we're equally as grateful. How about that? I'll take it back. Yeah, take it back. Yeah. Both of you are. Yeah. Any who. Um, ultimate win of the week. Um, carnival's coming up guys. Uh-huh. And I'm sorry. I've been training for that. I have been training for it. So badly. Training. Yeah, it's been hitting the gymnasium. I've actually. For the moods, for the stamina for the body. For the body. Yeah. Oh, okay. Do we not know who I am? No, I'm saying because he said you've been training for that. Oh, yeah. No, I don't, endurance. I have that already for carnival anyway.

18:52For. Um, but no body. I'm in pieces string as I've showed everybody. As usual. What color is the jaw this year? It is red. Ready, greeny. I'm not seeing my girl in a piece of string. I'm kind of a dog. I'm. How have you turned it into? It's a song back as well. It's actually a song back on the roads of Notting Hill. I'm so proud. I'm so glad for my crew. I enjoy yourself. I'm so glad for my growth. Um, be it. My partner will be with me. Yeah. So. What's he wearing? Um, he's wearing costume. For not like not the not the feathers. Yeah, yeah. What's what what is that man? Where? It's like a chest piece in a belt. Short. Okay. Topless. Of course he's topless. I'm not going to have a day. Yeah, you are. You're not going to have a day. I don't know. I'm the next day. Yeah. But I'm very excited. I'm starting to do prep for. So, um, there's a.

19:53The two days coming up. I'm not. I'm not. Um, so. Rebels obviously coming up. Um, so we're prepping for that. Which is why when you called me yesterday, you heard noises in the background. It was very noisy. Yeah. I was prepping for rebel. Um, so that's really fun. That's this weekend. Um, I'm going to have a time. I'm also in a piece of string for that also. But yeah, I'm just really exciting. Because of all the good things that are going to happen in the next two weeks. Nice. Gang. That's good. And I'm going to. Okay. I'm not, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. That's, um, I'm not. I'm not, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I've never seen a guy like this before. I'm not. Like, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. I just want to know what you're doing. What's going on? I'm not. I'm not. I'm going to be happy now when we're in by the way. I mean, do you have one that comes to head?

20:54Hmm. This is my win. Oh. Being here with you guys is my win. Cute. Oh, you're okay. You take it. If we want to believe my truth, don't fight me on my truth. Please. I adore you. Thank you, I adore you. Thank you. Stuff I've just met you, but you seem lovely. Thanks. Thanks. I adore you. Thanks. Oh my god, you're letting me touch you today. That's crazy. You're being nervous. Yeah. I can tell, right? I've gone on to touch. That's mad. She doesn't let me touch her. You're a non-tack type person. Why? Don't like it. Fair enough. What? I just don't like it. I just, I don't grow up in the, the prayers, but I'll do it. I have. I can't laugh. That's cute. Yeah. It's, anyway, welcome in. Yeah, you're not so good. You're so good. You're not so good. You're not having a nap, bro. Yeah, you're not going to take it over. I'm on cloud nine. Yeah. Cool. I don't have an L on. I'm not the same. I don't have it. I can't think of an L. My double the weed.

21:56It's a bit successful. Pardon me. So it's a bit successful. Is an L? No. It's not. Oh, you have the other side of the live. Yeah, yeah. Oh, okay. Cool. That's what she's doing. Oh, I see. I see. Ignore. Yeah. So, I was lost. My job of the week is I am sub-95 kg from 755. Sick! 94.2. Can I say you were both glowing from 755? Thank you. Thank you. I'm sure the babies were noticin' it too. Actually, the team noticed it. They did? Yeah, yeah. It's true to me. So, yeah. It's about what you're doing all the night. It's actually true to me. Yeah. No, I haven't heard it much. Yeah, we speak about it. For real? Yeah. Yeah. That is cute. Thank you. It's okay. I think your training is paying off also. Thank you. I hope so. Yeah, I was actually thinking that yesterday.

22:58I do so much. I run. You do do so much. You can do it like that. It's kind of awkward, isn't it? Yeah, it's a little bit. Yeah, that's this. Yeah, it's just next agenda. Yeah, yeah. What's next on the docket? What I want to say, there's loads of stuff that I want to talk to you about. Okay, first thing to say. So, I was looking online recently just because I'd be online. And did you know there's a lot of ends of relationships in August? Do you know that's a thing? I don't know. What do you have in this conversation yesterday? Yeah. No, I don't know that. But yeah, why is that the thing? I was pre-union, though, right? Oh. That's shit. Is it? What? I don't know. Yeah, everyone breaks up pre-union. Yeah, bro, you got to long distance fight that. Yeah, now, bro. Me, team. Yeah, everyone breaks up trying to go to university. As a go, I wouldn't do that. If your man was going, if you were on other sides of the country,

24:00you're going to Bournemouth, who's going to Manchester? Why am I breaking up with you? I love you. But I'm going to see you once a month. If that. If that. I'm parier. Yeah, I'm having a time. I can't afford to be going down to Bournemouth for a time. Literally, I can't afford it. But your brain is not working properly. So you think you're in love? Yeah, but with proximity, you do. Yeah, also granted. We never seen someone in three weeks in the 18. Who's that? Yeah. Outside our mind. You literally have all the things not like BBM. You actually have FaceTime. We did have BBM. We did. For FaceTime, ain't shit. What? It's not the same. I'm not in a real, that's parasocial to me. Like, it's a bandaid in between. Like, if we're away from each other for a couple of weeks, FaceTime is the best we've got. Cool. That's not, I'm not having that as my relationship with it. Also, can I just say, then man be traveling. You know, like, okay, so for us a lot, we went down to, like, Leicester would go down to Luton, go down to Coventry, go down to Notin'Em. So that. Come see me then.

25:00For Shubbs. Yes. Right. Yeah, but that's like, one time. That's one time, and that's like, 15 pan, because you're going on a coach. Yeah. So do it for your girlfriend, then. So if I, do you know how much, how much is a train from Manchester to Bournemouth? Let's see. Let's see. At least, 100. Two Bournemouth train. If you're in love as a teenager. Retire, what do you mean? There's love literally cost more than a thing. Yeah, it does. That's not what the thing is. That's not what the thing is. Say hello and vote. Like, we have to tap in. If I'm 18, fresh into uni, and need all the money I've got. 30 pound one way. That's pretty cheap. That's very cheap. Fuck it now. I know, to be fair, I could have the young person's roll card. Off peak, anytime ticket day. Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on. That's a bad day of all flexible tickets. For Manchester to Bournemouth 120 pounds. But what happened to coachies? Uni students, use coaches. We're not training. I don't think you understand. It's five hours on the train. God knows how long that's going to be in the coach. It's a day on the coach.

26:00All right. What do you mean, all right? Are you giving that journey? If I, do you know how? Every week. Every week. I'm not going to be in the coach. All right. Twice a month. That's not a relationship I want to be in. I'm 18. But you're in love. Yeah, I can be in love again. Yeah, I'll find love again. Like you said, I'm 18. I've only just experienced love. Okay, my point is, when I was 18, I believed my love was real. I didn't think this was real. Where is he now? I hate you now. I hate you now. I hate you now. So what are you talking about? Actually, being really unsuccessful, I'm assuming. What? Who? Come on, man. I'm 18 year old, boy. And I'm assuming you know something. Oh, yeah, no, he is. He's very answer to the big shit. He's very answer. He went to my best friend for internship. Yeah. I didn't know she was my best friend. Yeah. That was the thing. Yeah, no, but I was. At least he's trying. Uh, uh, uh, that age of who? For the internship he was asked before it went. Also, don't piss off the wrong one and laugh. That's your best, like, you pissed off the wrong one. And you're still sworn by that? Oh, yeah, 100%. I hold grudges.

27:00Yeah, for like, she has a right. She has a right. You know what? Fair. He came to uni and lied that they had cut off the electricity. Oh, yes. And water in just his room in a shared accommodation. He had stuck with her. Had her cooking or our resources. Yeah. Our resources. I went broke off. I was going to speak. Yeah, wow. And I'm there shouting, T.R. He's literally lying to you. He's not even possible to cut off the electricity. I want one room. I was just like, no, he just need to help until one day. I walked past that boy's room and his lights were all shining. I screamed in the middle of the film, but village. I screamed. I literally had to run to see him like look outside. His lights are on. His lights are on. His lights are on. His lights are on. His lights are said that he was part of the illuminati. The illuminati tried to recruit him because he was such a talented singer. He told you that. Yeah. And you believe him. No, I didn't believe him. You didn't say you didn't believe him. And that was my issue.

28:00Because you are. Do you hold a grudge against him because you were juved? Because I said you're you're playing a fool. Yeah. All right. No, do you know why I hold a grudge against him? As we know in the safeties of art. I'm pride for as we know delicately pride for what I would say. Not massively, but just smidge a pride. Mm-hmm. So when I got into this relationship in uni, I kind of knew. I thought I knew what men wanted in uni. So I had no interest in being in a relationship. I was like, yeah, this is what we're doing. Because don't put me not put my hopes up. Because I like you. Yeah, cool. Yeah, I like you. Yeah, I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. I like you. Yeah. Cool. But I know what people are here for. Yeah. And this man was like me, my girlfriend, be my girlfriend, tell people. Oh, tell her to be my girlfriend. Be my girlfriend. Be my girlfriend. Okay. Cool.

29:00Eventually became his girlfriend. I was like, all right. Well, it's on the deep now. You must actually just want to just like me. Okay. Experience. Experience him. Throughout it all. There were there were bare-red flag moments, actually. There's times where like I've tried to fight him a couple times. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Because I used to, when I was younger, I had a temper. So, over back. I had a temper. And when you tried to disrespect me, especially when I didn't want to be here in the first place, you're taking the piss out of me. So instinctively, if you touch me, like he would try to hold me and I'll try fight it. So that happened a couple of times. Are you worried about your brother? Yeah. I said, I didn't want to be here, but I'm here anyway. He wore you down. It was that. It was that. And then like, yeah, he'd like, when we weren't together, he'd be like, yes, she's not my girl. Oh. Cool. So I found out I was like, okay, then situations happen and he was just horrible, unsupportive, whatever, have you.

30:04And then that wasn't my issue. I said, okay, cool. First year's charge. That's fine. When I was in second year, he then continued the narrative that I'm mad and I really wanted to be with him. Me. Me. So he just told people that he would that didn't know me. So obviously he was now, he was praying on the first years now. Oh, God. So, yeah, but that's what he did. He was older than us. Yeah, he was. Oh, he just had it on lock. Remind me of someone. Yeah. And I just want to go on out. Yeah. You're running two people out. You need wow. Yes, bro. But he was in our year. So like he was going back. Yeah. Yeah. Same thing. Same story, bro. Yeah, man. Same things. Wow. So the first years came, I know he's making me look mad to people that I don't know. Crazy. Now luckily enough, I have great friends. So when he tried his narrative, my girls would be like, he was the one that was always after her. She looked crazy. I was like, I'm not going to be a bit.

31:04So yeah, that's what I have an issue with. Don't badmouth my name to people. I don't know because I'm not there to defend myself because I'm not not. So yeah, after that, I will never have a man call me crazy again, which is why I moved the way I mean. Ever since. I don't know how we got here. I don't remember. Yeah. You said you asked about the boyfriend. Yeah. You asked have I held a grudge. Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. Cool. Cool. Foundation of my pride. Yeah. And now he's asking for interns. Internship. Yeah. Cool. Yeah. Yeah. Anyway, to have a try to ask him for internships. Oh, because he's a singer. Yeah. No, no. You just want to be in the industry. You gave up on the singing. You gave up on the singing. But I need to be in the industry. Yeah. Also, can I just say at the same time, because I was working in events. I was working amongst media at the time. So he told me he's part of collective and when I collectives and then when I'd ask the people, Oh, yeah, you know, they're like, I don't know who that person is. So general success. He's struggling. Yeah. Yeah.

32:04So when we say unsuccessful, we mean it. But don't be a bad person. I have a black heart. I have a dark heart. Okay. I'll be. Oh, my. I don't know. I'm trying to remember what you guys were talking about. August. Universities. Wow. You need breakups. Yes. Wow. Yeah. So what's the best thing about this? You need breakups. Yes. Wow. Yeah. So what's the reason? Or I'm assuming you've delved into it. Yeah. So apparently it's because August, similarly to school year, people find that adult people is actually find that August is time for a new start and they want more serious relationships, post-Algues. So I guess. It's like hearing our talks Christmas. Yeah. And it's just they just come back from the beach. Yeah. They're like, I'm trying to like, I need, I need sign in December. Because I think you've also had your summer fling. You've just had summer. You've been outside. You've had a hot boy summer, hot girl summer. You've seen what's out there. Yeah. You've really seen what's available. You've really seen what's out there. And you think, nah, I deserve that. Yeah. Wow.

33:04So yeah, that's apparently a thing which I didn't know. And I was like, oh, you're so quick. But following that, I want to know what does romanticism feel like for men? Like, what is it when, how does a woman behave romantically towards you? Like, what do you like? I like, that's a great question. Personally, I like acts of service. I think anything, it could be bigger, it could be small, preferably small paws. And like, it's just anything that can make my day easier without me having to ask for me not even noticing is just a doubt for me. I think that that's probably one of the best things. Look at that look like cooking. Like, it doesn't, cooking is more, is it? Cooking, yes, that obviously does help. But it's not things like cooking. It's probably things like getting your car clean for you. That'll be dope. That's what I'm having to be before. That'll be dope. Get my car clean for me or like, let's say I've had a long day, but I know in the back of my mind, I've got launches to run, I get in and I've got to change my bedroom.

34:06And by the time I come home, these things are all done. Like, little things like that. That's so interesting. So I think that, and it is, it literally doesn't cost you anything. These deep, I've always said, not always said. I think because of how we kind of live our lives now, when I say we end up having that. That's awful James. Sorry. Not us, not the lights. Sorry. I just want to be specific. I just want to be specific. I just want to be specific to say. I'm about to be back. We're in the big red room. I, to know I hate. Well, so it's pretty well. Is that, to your season of three days. And she's playing a role today, as if she's step. She's playing like these two have the same information about us. She seasons every day. She doesn't act like this. But people are going to view this. And they're going to be like, raw. That actually, how must be how they present themselves. Because she's supposed to all day, every day with them. And she's acting like this towards them. Wow, they think they're really big. Stop it.

35:06It's a behave. No, no, it's fine, it's fine. I was talking to the most humble people ever. So let's not do that. You are terribly humble. It's a time to know down when that case is a criminal. Yeah, but that's just because you're Nigerian. I just thought that's what you wanted to do. Exactly. Just in a, wow. In a, not even a quick double or nothing. I was just like, I said, good evening. You were like, give evening. Yeah. So this is no done and greet me properly. So that's not the thing. Maybe back to sitting this share. I've lost my child. Oh, my God. I should have, okay. Why, why, why wouldn't, why didn't you want to beg, though? I thought since you guys are humble. You would just treat me like a normal human being. I didn't realize that this whole like state is being followed us into this studio where we're sharing the space. Sharing the space is a bit. Yeah. Now, now. Now. Yeah. The next thing we're going to speak. This is an accomplishment. You occupied our space. And you should be grateful and beg. And beg and beg.

36:06And I'll be expecting insane gratitude afterwards as well. You know what, I forgot my name. I forgot my name. I forgot my name. Yeah. Yeah. Goat at my yard today. Back's broke. You get a box of rice. I forgot my stuff there. Yeah. You know what, it sounded like to me. A half joke. A half joke. Yeah. It sounded like a half joke. A real half joke. You guys have something to get off your chair. I've got it off my chair. Yeah. You said what we need to say. It's been mad icons. I don't know where that confidence came from. Yeah. In fact, you were looking down at it. Yeah. I'm joking. I'm joking. I'm joking. I can listen. Where's the answer? There's the answer. Wow. Fuck. That's like... Why don't you put it aside and set it everywhere? That's not it. Set it everywhere. No! That's fine. Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. Where are we? I like the service. I accept service. So, there's a... I quote this quite a bit. There's a bar that Dave has in a truck called Mercury who's going to provide for the people

37:08that are providing. that to myself a lot and when someone can provide me with something that I don't necessarily think about or want to do myself, I think that's the best feeling in the world because there isn't something someone can buy me that I probably can't buy myself. So that for me doesn't do much for me. It's the stuff that I don't think about that does everything for me. Does that make sense? Yeah. So yeah, things like that. I love that answer. I've never really thought... I think romanticism when men is quite hard. I struggle with it. I don't think it's that hard. I think you overthink things. We've had this discussion outside of obviously this podcasting world about why you struggle with things or that specifically and it's not that hard. Do you find it hard? No. There we go. What do you find difficult about it? Sorry. As a resident, people please have that I am. I want to make sure that the people around me feel really, really appreciate it. Really, really appreciate it to the highest extent.

38:09And I want to wow them. And that's quite hard to do for people like yourselves who are... You wow yourselves all the time. Not wow yourselves all the time. But do you get me? Okay. So this for me boils into occasions. I think people that care about me struggle with occasions. Whereas I appreciate more micro-dosing over a long period of time. I don't need like a big agenda. You're going to... Yeah. Someone who cares about me is really going to struggle to wow me on my birthday or Christmas or whatever. And I can imagine they might be in a similar situation to yourself of being like, I don't know what to do. That's going to like blow this guy's mind. But probably because there is nothing. However, the little things throughout the year, I could be brought to tears to make all the difference. By I've opened the fridge and there's fresh monster in there.

39:10Wow. And I especially like I haven't said anything. I've opened it this morning, seen there's one monster left and I've been all right. I need to remember to buy some. I've come home, forgotten to buy some. And all this stress is going in my head. I've opened the fridge and there's a fresh pack of 12 in there, cold ready. I've got to buy, what cost? Costs two pound or 50. But it's made my week. And it's like just seeing things that might cause me trouble. And then just like clearing the way before I get there. That means way more to me than like a trip on my birthday that I didn't ask for. But it's... But then what do people do on those days? Like what do you... Because it's okay, cool. We can do that every day. But what then do you do for those days? I really appreciate when people ask me what I want out of my birthday as opposed to what I want for my birthday. What do I want to do on my birthday? Oh, I see. So like a lot of the time it would just be like what does your perfect day look like?

40:13And sometimes it might be like there's different chapters in my life. There was a time where it was just like I want to be left alone to be called a do-e for nine hours. That's you. I want to play cool and do you for nine hours? It's not me time. Yeah. You said cool and do you for nine hours? No, no, no. I mean, I want to be... I want to be peace and quiet for nine hours. And then if I wake them on my birthday and you're like cool, it's nine a.m. now. I've headed... I'm heading out. I've stacked the fridge with this. I've got all this. There's this. I'm going to leave you alone for the day. And you've got all this time to yourself. That is difficult for you to do, which means you sacrifice something for me for my day. You're just going to say you obviously saying you hate me, but all right. Exactly. You have to make sure it's causing you discomfort, which means it's more of an offering for me. Because you know what I want. And you'll put your feelings aside. When it's the case of I booked us a trip to Turkey. Because I want to do this. So you can tan.

41:13Yeah, so you can tan. And what we're going to do in Turkey, oh, well, I thought we'd go to the beach and I hate all of these things. I hate this is not for me. This is for you. I'm a naughty guy as of the other guys. The guys is first for my birthday. That shit pisses me off so much. I hate it. I absolutely hate it. But this again, everyone is different. Everyone is very different, but I fully understand James. You know what I mean? I understand it. It's running to the stage for the birthday. You took so much of your birthday. Where did you go? I just went out to the land. Nice. I did that in the morning and the next day. So I made sure I came back to celebrate that. But I needed that time. Because especially when you're with me, my brain doesn't special. So I have to actively be intentional about taking time off to actually try and switch off. And I was like, I know if I try and do something here or if I try and do something in my partner, I have to one consider someone. Which it really really give me a gift. Give me a day where I don't have to consider any of these.

42:13Yeah. Two, I'm going to end up having to accommodate or do something like he also wants to do rather than something I want to do. So I was just like, I rather actually just go to Islam. Even if I just end up sleeping in the hotel. So you're choice. I don't mind. I just don't want to carry a laptop with me everywhere. I don't want to think about anything. I don't want to be stirred by what I just want to switch off. And if it means me just watching movies in the hotel bed all day. Calm. And I really did have the best birthday. I went out, but I did everything that I wanted to do on my schedule. I didn't have to worry about, oh, this person getting bored of you. They want to walk around or the, don't get wrong. I'm loving a partner. But it was just nice to have that time where I could just fully just do stuff for myself. And I don't have to consider anyone. And he got it because obviously sees me every day. You know that if you leave me, I can just keep going and keep going and keep going until I burn out. And then I will hide for six months. But I told you get it because you need a day where you don't have to consider anyone. And there was no people selling for you where you don't have to consider anyone. And in terms of what they want to do to you, etc.

43:14And obviously it was the best birthday. Now probably we'll try and do it every birthday that I can. Just have a day, which is a day where I'm going somewhere where I can adjust to your job. And you know, so. That was, do you remember when I said to you when we went to Miami Field birthday? No, it wasn't Miami. It was the last time we were in LA. It was me. I can't remember. It was me and that was your birthday. My birthday. I think I was your birthday. Well there's a time. Anyway, I can't remember where we were. But we were in America somewhere. And there was a day, maybe it was Miami Field birthday. The pool. The actual pool table. Pool table. Yeah, that was your birthday. That was my birthday. Sorry. Where was it? LA. No, no, no. It was just us three though. That was my birthday. My birthday was the one with all five of us. Oh, you know, that was the first time. Oh, before. This back a day. Sorry, this is. You can cut this out. Anyway, I'm sure it was my I'm a few birthday. I'm positive. If it was. You're right. You're right. You're right. Anyway, there was, we were there.

44:14And I remember there was my favorite day of that trip was a day where I had a really, really, really, really, really bad sleep the night before. And I woke up exhausted. And I remember feeling, I remember saying to you, I'm knackered today. And I'm so happy about it because no one, it doesn't matter that I'm tired today. I don't have to care how my tiredness affects anyone else today. If I want to be moody for the whole day, it doesn't matter. And I can actually enjoy being tired. And it was a weird feeling of being like waking up feeling naked and not thinking like, oh my god. Yeah, now I have to deal with this on top of all this shit that has to do today. I remember that was just like an incredible feeling. Random, weird time to be happy. But yeah, do you struggle to put your feelings aside to accommodate for your partners emotions? Because when James gave the example, you're like Roger, I said, I was so you hate it. Obviously, I know that's a joke you go to, but like, do you actually feel that way deep down?

45:16No, yes and no. I think you've got to know the person you're dealing with. And I think previously I would have felt a certain type of way. The more you understand somebody, the more you're kind of like, I can't take this as a personal thing. Because this is just you, it's not towards me, it's just how you deal with people, yourself, decompression time. That sort of thing. Yeah, so I think on an ignorant basis, generally yes. So whenever I give advice, normally I'm like, it sounds like that person doesn't like you. But I think when you know the pattern of behavior from certain people, it's like, I've seen enough of this to know it's not a dislike of me. But that's taken a lot of growth and I've been in therapy for three years. So it's, it's doing so nice. What was that smile? I don't know, therapy.

46:17You don't agree with therapy? I'm in therapy. Oh, so what was it like? I recently joined therapy and this light has been so long. Oh, I see, I see, I see. She still feels like everyone that she's read at the scene with that person. You know that every day, then. So I don't know what Judith is doing. Judith? Is that an ignorant? Yes, the next year. Do you think she's helped you with this thing? That doesn't seem to think so. She's been through years. Yeah, she's been through years and wisdom. Can I just say Judith has helped me a lot. There were so many transitions that I was going through before. No, there were transitions that I was going through whilst with Judith. That I sorted whilst with Judith. And there's other stuff that has been brought up. No, historically are things that just I. I've been through for 6, a while longer. It's what I'd say. I definitely, yeah, she is helpful to some regard. There's other things that I'm like, she could be more helpful.

47:20But I come, I do come to different issues every time. Oh, that's obviously going to be long. Yeah, but I have this different issues every time. There's some random life. I said, wait, does she, what's the word I'm looking for? Does she like guide the session, or do you bring something to the session every day? I bring something to the session every time. So what is she trying to accomplish long term? Yeah, I don't know if she's got a long term solution. I don't think it's not structured. It's actually not structured. I've started to implement structure myself. So again, when I go through stuff in the week, sometimes I fall on it, but I will be like, this is an issue that I want to work on, this is an issue you want to give me a worksheet and whatever have you will talk about things. And it will even never come up again. Or she'll like, go back to that worksheet. I talked to you about, she get me? Interesting. So putting your thoughts on trial is something she kind of has stuck with me a bit more. So I'm really good at understanding that I feel things,

48:23but my feelings aren't always real. They're just feelings that doesn't really pertain to what is actually happening. So I have conversations with like, I'm like, I'm not a partying, whereas I know I feel like this, but I know it's a transitionary thing. And I just feel like that. And I'll get over it. Or I'll say to her, I feel like this, because of this, this, this, this, this. Just need to feed it and then keep it stepping. Did you get what I mean? Yeah. So yeah. Nice. Guys, let's get into Reddit real this. I'm so turned off by my boyfriend. I'm using breaking up with him as my weight loss reward. Done. Somebody will just have a cheat list. What? Okay. When I drop a stone, I'm leaving him as a, as a, a treat. That's my cheap. That's my cheap. That's motivation. She's tapped into a difference. I can't leave him unless I get to my goal weight. That's because then outside we looked tempting. Oh, very enough, man. I know it's cruel. I know it's me, but it's given me more motivation than I've ever had in years.

49:23After a year together, I'm nearly at my goal weight. I knew you got to be joking. I knew I've sought to be interested in him after the first four months. I know I'm not a good person. My boyfriend isn't a bad person. He's sweet, gently, unkind. I'm bored. He's probably, like, unkind. Wait, wait. Did he say gently or did he say gentle? She said gently. I know what she said. I'm asking what it said. It said gently. Okay, cool. Stop checking. It's just, it said gently. I'm asking because it doesn't make sense. By the way, it's not me. Okay. No, no, no, I'm just clarifying. I'm not pointing the fingers. I'm just saying. All right, gently. He's gently. He's probably the most handsome man I've dated. He's rich and in shape. Oh, wow. He likes me a lot. He likes me a lot. Everything should be good on paper. But I don't think I've ever been as turned up in a relationship as I am right now. I've tried working on it, taking time to myself, et cetera, but nothing really works. Every time I even attempt to bring off a breakup, he just cries. Oh. Oh. He cries.

50:23He asked me one of the dumbest people I've ever met. He's in his mid-twenties, and I'm in my mid-twenties. We went to a trivia thing at a bar of two weekends ago. He rolls the easiest question. He was the first black president of the United States, completely sober, by the way. His arts are Andrew Jackson. Who the hell is that? Sounds black, though. He does sound black. When asked by the host, why he answered that way, he said, because it sounds black. Oh. Oh. What are the odds? What are the odds? No. Well, well. It doesn't. No. So, oh, I deserve to be like. I love being like. Wow. This man would have fully been an adult while Obama was in office, both of us are mixed with black. I'm Mexican and black, and he's one fourth black. We have some of the worst bedroom life I've ever had in my life. No. In their tent to meet him.

51:24Just kidding, bro. Oh, wait, Tim. In their tent to mediate it, I filmed it to see the issue. This man is fully trying to wrap into black. She is a black person. She's a black person. She's a black person. She's a black person. Like he's Roger Rabbit running into a tunnel. Literally swinging his hips and poking me absolutely nowhere and complaining. He's very weird about money. I don't usually care about money much in relationships. I've got a good job. I'm fine with going 50-50. It's whatever. But he started a trend of, you get this, I'll get this. Early on in the relationship, that favors him. I don't know. I didn't notice it at first until a concert. I'll tell you how state he paid. It was parking at a zoo that's free in our city. The next day, I paid. I didn't say it was somewhere he really wanted to go. It was one of those VR cafes that are $40 a person. The day after that, he paid $5 for a nice free. Then for the next day, I had to pay for the book's reservations at a newly opened place in town that $60 a year. I put a stock to it, but it still needs an odd taste in my mouth

52:24that he doesn't do that. While we make around the same amount, he lives in the house, his parents built, and his car is fully paid off, and he's always digging into his trust fund. I'll end it here because I could run all night. I'm 11 pounds away from my goal weight. This is, this is how she. I'm not mad at her recording to see what was wrong. Of course. That's just getting analytics to be fair. Stock it, Tia. What? She's not enjoying sex with him. So I'm going to record it. So let me record it by the way. Okay, behind his back is mean, but to try and figure out where it can be worked on or what is actually happening. I'm not really, would you mean I'm over? She's leaving him regardless. Yeah, she had no intention of using that to better this exercise. She's leaving him regardless. But then why would she record it? To make sure it was worth leaving. To prove there is his issue and that she wanted to joke about this red rabbit thing. There was no way she took that and thought, oh, okay, cool. Maybe, okay, maybe I could get, she would have known that. She was doing it, but she would have known that from experience here.

53:26You don't have to record it. You don't have to view it back. You don't need a bird to hide. But you're in the moment. So sometimes you're getting lost in a moment. But you're like, she's not lost because she doesn't like it. Said the sex is dead. She's the worst. That's the worst sex life she's had. She did say that. She did say that. So I just, I just, I do believe that it was with the intent of trying to figure out what was going on. No, I think she told him that was a sex tape and she used the footage to analyze what you're doing. Okay. What do you think she was just self-significant? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. My point is she told him is a sex tape. So cool, he's good to be recorded. I don't think there's anything wrong with her analyzing it to find out. This is also just one small smidge of this whole dialogue. That alone is fucking better. So much more. There is so much more. And it is so much more that makes me skeptical about this one. Yeah, exactly. Let's not hyper focus on this video too. She wants to leave in period. Yeah, I would say this cheapy to see he will do it

54:29because you can't date a stupid guy. Andrew Jackson. You can't date a stupid guy. That sound black, bro. It does. It does sound black, but it does. Obama was right there. Right there. So funny. Obama was so big, he felt like our president. How did you miss that? Yeah, maybe it was the moment was too big. I don't know. Maybe the lights were too bright. I don't know. And they're also black. OK, first of all, we don't know about his, he's a core of it. He's a core of it. And she's a core of it. So we don't know what he looks like. He could be very white presenting, have grown up very white, very out of touch with his black. But if he made that a point that he's black, then I'm assuming there must be something there. She's also going to make it a point that she's in the right. He's in the right. Yeah, she's making a point that he's black because of the Obama question. Yeah. That doesn't mean anything. If he didn't grow up black, of course, he should know Obama. I'm not saying he's not stupid. I'm just saying, he's a core of black. Let's not dive into this. He's black. He's black.

55:30He's not. Yeah. The base of his core of black. Yeah, he's a core of black. So he might not experience blackness at all in his life. I know bare core black people that look white. Yeah. Cold former is core of black. Yeah, that's why he's white. His granddad is black. You wouldn't think he has any. But when you look at him, you can see there's a sometimes. No, when you know, when you know, and when you look at him with his grandfather, yeah, if you drag the white man in here said, what racist core of Obama, he'll tell you why. Wait, now that we're on this, please, I'm six, your men, and I know you watch what more. You will still know this person, Harland. Yeah. Do you think he looks black? No. He looks like an Iberman to me. And I've been saying this. He looks like his name's a mechard. If you make that man dark, that's an Iberman. Because of his nose. It's not because of his nose. His nose and his lips. He's got Iberfeatures. And my lion, please, please. I understand what you're coming from. Yeah. I do understand what you're coming from. I know you're saying I see it, but I wouldn't.

56:30I wouldn't be the first. No, come on, man. Don't want to be the first one. We'll just let this man roam around. Look at him. We've blonde hair. I did. Why does no one see it? I was. I understand what you're coming from. Do you know how bad it was to me? I had to go find his family's photos, like every single family member to try and compare. Come on. He's the only one that looks like that of his family. They'll have their teachers. What I'm saying is he needs to do a test. He's white as a ghost of blonde blonde hair. No, no, no, no, there's something in there. It can't just be white. I'm fair. OK, I know. Maybe. Listen, there's something in there. You don't ever see his pops to be fair. I don't know what to miss the next one. I've found the mom. That's how people are. I found the mom. She don't look like that either. And his brother doesn't look like that. He's got not like that. Not that as in he said that, but. But like the features. Yeah. OK. OK. OK. No, no, no. I said I see what you're coming from. No, I think someone's a hard degree. I think someone's going to be like, oh my god, you're right. And no one's doing it. It's pissing me off. It's pissing me off. He's not known.

57:32He needs to be a test. But yeah, advice, guys. For her. Advice for who? For him or for her? For her. She's evil. She approached me. There's not being evil. There's no advice to give her. She, I don't think she wants advice. I stopped liking him four months in. It's one year in now. And I've got 11 pounds to go. And then I'm going to leave. I'm using him as a motivation to lose weight so I can leave him and go to the streets. I can't stand to hear so much that the pain of losing weight is lesser than the pain staying in the hip. I hate fucking him. It's the worst ex ever had. I tried to record him and he's a fucking idiot. He just outrodgered it. He's an idiot. Doesn't know who for a bomber is. That's on him. The poor sex is on him, by the way. You can't blame her for that. I'm not blaming her. I'm blaming her for staying. OK. So you're using him. She should go now. She's gone before she wrote this. There's no advice. Pure evil. I've never heard of anything more. I'm hoping she waited about. I think she was just telling us that plan. Yeah, she said it now. No, I'm not a nice person. Exactly, bro. I just have 11 pounds to go. I hope she never hits her goal weight. That's what I was.

58:32I hope she never hits it. Yeah. I hope she never hits it. Yeah, I hope she puts on weight. I hope she puts on weight, no, so she can't. Yeah. I hope she leaves us. Yeah. I hope she puts on weight. And he's like, no, I don't want this. It's not what I said. I'm leaving. I'm gone. I'm gone. That's evil. That's evil. How is that evil? That's so evil. But she's not evil. I'm not saying she's not in the wrong. Go ahead, evil. Don't be a serious. She's more evil right now. She's mean. She's mean. That is mean. You don't string somebody along. Because he's probably in love with her. Of course he is. So that is mean. That I would dance. Yeah, it's mean. I don't think everything she did was mean. But her overall, she falls on the side of me. Yeah. It's not about everything she did. It's everything she's doing. She's an evil person. Staying every day is evil. Every day. Where if I say, she should, she should gain weight. I'm evil. Do you think she, okay, I get, I have this question. Since the day she fell out of love with him for four months, to a year now, do you think she's been able to fake it

59:34to be the perfect girlfriend for him? Or do you think there is that, do you think he's so, how do you say, emotionally blind that he can't feel underlying resentment and he's thinking things? Because you know when someone doesn't like you. You can't hide it. So this is someone that he's with constantly all the time. Do you not think that there is an air of, she's not happy, what can I do wrong? Paranoia, is everything okay? I wonder if she's cheating on me. She doesn't want to have sex. Like all of these things will be bleeding into the race. I don't think, I don't think, I don't think, most men think like that. No, I think they do. But I think this one's so dumb that he might not know it. I'm sorry. But this one, I don't know. Just because of the abominating? No, that was, that's dumb. I know it's dumb, but that's trivia. Yeah, no, that's dumb. That was an easy one. Come on now, who else was America than the mate? So because he doesn't know who abominate is, he can't understand what someone doesn't like him. She said that she's so dumb. If he's so dumb, I'm assuming he probably doesn't even know it.

1:00:35Well, he's smart enough to have a job that pays the same as her. No, he has a trust fund. No, he has a job that pays the same. Yes, but he also has come from a trust fund. I think he's an epi, but he's got a bullet in that drop. Alright, I'm asking. But I'm asking, yeah, she is a bit mean. She is a bitch. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You got to be precise. She's mean. She is mean. She is evil, but like, she's dumb. She's evil. She's evil. I can't. She's evil. Evil is so hard. It's a mean thing to do. It's a very mean thing to do. She's not being nice. She's not being kind. But she has a point. Like, I wouldn't say that. Also, on top of that, you need to understand that because she's so adamant and leaving, she will not be giving him opportunities to better himself. She will not be giving him opportunities to stay in this relationship. I think the sex was an opportunity to better himself. Did she tell him that? Yeah. Has she helped him improve the sex? No. I'm leaving back in them, but has she? I would assume she would have. Why? You can only go after the information we're giving.

1:01:35Because what are you going to do with the sex tape? You've got to show it back to him. You have to. I'm a girl. What's ammo though? That's very mean. If that is the case, I would say that's really evil. That's also easy. So I doubt it's for that. But I do feel like she did not tell him about. I don't think she wants sin to improve. Fact. This whole thing is pointless. If he improves into the perfect boyfriend, just whole thing is pointless. This is pointless. Yeah, but then wouldn't she like him? Hmm? If he improves, she would like him. No. No, because once you fall out of love, someone you're not falling back in love with them. It's not happening. It's not happening, bro. It's not happening. It's not happening. It's not happening. It's still dumb. I just want you to know that. There's been due money. Yeah, that's a thing. But there are people that get divorced and end up back together. So it's possible. It's different. Yeah, that's usually different. Most times, we know who committed the fence. That's anyway, it can work. But if it's the other side, it's not happening.

1:02:37Fair. Okay, yeah. She's a bad person. She's a bad person. Yeah. I thought fans of the week, yeah. I will say, I thought, oh, my adult fan of the week is headspace. I've been using it to get to sleep of recent, because my mind has been very busy. I'm sure I touched on this earlier. No, who knows? Anyway, my mind's been very busy. So I've been using headspace to get to sleep. Great. I love it. My, I thought, fan of the week is actually my garbage watch. I got a garbage watch. As you guys know, I'm doing a hatch of 5k. Let me not even downplay it, because I'm actually running through that bitch. I'm making content to me. So I got this because I was sick of charging my Apple watch every eight hours. The thing you die in the gym. And I'm trying to track my heart rate, et cetera, just to get an accurate reading pound, but hard on pushing myself. So I was doing some reading, and other um, decent room pace. I saw in a know-how fast I'm running or not running. And so I was reading a lot about the Garmin watch. And he was saying that like, because wait, if we can not charge it,

1:03:37and Apple, they were lying. But I've legit had this on my wrist since. Someday, and I haven't charged it, and it's on 50%. So if you're looking for something that one can track a seat without dying, or even in the new gym, and you know Apple watch guys, et cetera. And you want something that will cost you out, because this doesn't, it doesn't break you up like that after watch, by the way. It will tell you that you're dying. It will tell you that what have you been doing with your life, it will tell you that you've got the fitness of like a smell, et cetera. But it is moving, because you can see all the stats, et cetera. If you're looking for something like that, highly recommend that I've got the Garmin Road one or something. It's currently on sale in August. So if you are looking to invest in one and you've been looking for a smart watch, sports watch, highly recommend. Do you have anything that you have liked this week? That would be your adult fight in the week. Or something that's helped your life. Um... Fair. To be honest, I can't think of anything. TVH, yeah, yeah.

1:04:37Sorry. Because your life is just great. No, we just haven't found cool things. We're on the suffering side. You live in cool things. This is a segment for you, so you pre-planted to use this for an happen. It's on fair. It's on the spot. Yeah, let's not delve into this. The other side now. Well, guys, that brings us to the end of the show. And obviously the end of a special episode, which is exciting. The love of our lives. You're... You're... You're on that. So what? I'm not with my feet, sorry. So do you. I do, also. Yes, okay. Okay. Okay. But yeah, that brings us to the end of this show, guys. If you are watching on YouTube, and you enjoyed this episode, make sure you like, comment, and subscribe. We'll be to comment on it. All the things that we've discussed from... Where's it, August? Love. August Breakups. August Breakups. August Breakups. The romantic Yorodudu Romance is, to, how to do your man. Let us know in the comments. Give us your thoughts. Saying for our Spotify gang, if you're watching this, I mean, join this episode. Not usually give us a five-star rating, but please, please comment.

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