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- (05:59) - Misconceptions About Negotiation
- (11:46) - How to Negotiate in BDSM
- (15:14) - Goal of the Scene
- (18:03) - Needs & Boundaries
- (21:09) - Desires & Limits
- (26:55) - Safety & Risks
- (32:01) - Relevant Disclosures
- (35:12) - Aftercare
- (36:13) - Re-Negotiation
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