The Responsive Universe Part 2

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1:02The Attuned Guidance Show starts now. Hey everybody, I want to thank you. You're listening to The Attuned Guidance Show with me, Dr. Pat and Brenda Lee. We're here. We're talking about the responsive universe. Let's get into part two. You just heard us talk a little bit about in the previous segments in episode. We talked about like, okay, why is the universe talking to us? What does it look like when it does? How do we co-create? Can we co-create? And part of this is, are you getting signs all over the place and you're just not feeling them? Now we're going to talk about why you may not be feeling them. Why when you're walking around saying, oh, no, the universe is not talking to me, is talking to Brenda Lee and Dr. Pat. Oh, wait a minute. Brenda Lee is going to help us out with this. Brenda Lee, look, here we are and what I want to talk about is there are things that

2:02may get in the way, right? For example, I'm really not, we don't say this, but we feel it. I'm really not worthy of all of that. I'm not worthy of that thing I'm asking for. Maybe I'm just going to play it down a little bit. I'm not worthy. I don't know what I want. I think I want a white car, but maybe a black car. I don't know what I want. Maybe I don't know what I want. Maybe because I don't think the credit check will go good and I'm not going to be able to get my car. Is that what's going on? Yeah. Yeah, right. There's many things that kick it at the way. So I tell people, don't get overwhelmed and make the list too long. Just pick one thing that I want today in this present moment. One thing. Don't get too over-exilient about what I could have in the future. Start with one thing and start testing your belief system. When you're hearing, I'm not worthy. Know that that's not you. That's not your heart talking. That's the mind. Somebody programmed that in you.

3:03It's time to dismantle that. The only way to dismantle is to test it. Go against it, right? Start asking smaller questions in the beginning. Start with, can I get First Row parking? Can I hit every green light? Start small to you can work up the momentum of you actually believing that when you're speaking the universe is responding. That's called co-creating. So you're not supposed to know how to do it. I had to start somewhere. You had to start somewhere. We start small and then as we go with a little engine, gets going and then we start asking for bigger things and it builds our new belief system. That's what attracts what is already meant for you. You don't have to work for it. You just have to ask for it. I love this. I think this is one of those insidious things. What do I mean by that? There are things that are obvious in life. There are things for a lot of people, not everybody, but a lot of us can see color. There are some people that can't.

4:03When we see something green, we're like, that's green. Without any abstract conversation about it. We're talking about how to open our heart, how to really take things in and what cuts those things off. Sometimes we don't know we are even doing it. Right? So true. You see what I mean? Yes. So let me, so look, everything that we're talking about here is happening all day long with every conversation you have. What we're inviting you to do is to bring your awareness to everything that you're saying, doing and who you're doing it with. So let me give you a little, can I give you a little example? Yeah. Please. Last week, a couple, three or four days ago, I did a podcast and the whole podcast was about how to get in the flow, being in the flow. And it was so fun and I was in this flow and I just thought, oh my gosh, I just need to go out. I want to be amongst people. I'm just in this amazing flow.

5:04And I went to my favorite restaurant and I sat at the bar and this couple came in and I just turned to them and I said, oh, how are you two today? And they said, oh my God, we're totally in the flow. And I went, being, being, being, and that, and I said, I just literally an hour ago finished taping a podcast about this. And they started talking about how they've learned to be in the flow. They talked about everything that I talked about on that show. They were doing it. And I was a vibrational match for it and we spoke for an entire hour. It was so magical. And we were just sharing all of our experiences. And they were, you know, they live in California. He wished for a new job. He didn't, he wasn't attached to where, what state it was going to be and it happened to be here in Florida. They were here. They're enjoying it. They're thinking about relocating. And he said, I know when I asked because I wasn't specific that there's a good change for me and my wife and that we're supposed to be here now. And we can feel it. The energy when we go to restaurants, when we go to coffee shops, we just feel so welcome.

6:08So that's the flow of not knowing but trusting and feeling your way through, right? Yeah. It was so magical. Yeah. And I mean, some new friends, it's lovely. I love that. And you made some new friends to be, to, to, to, to, because they're moving in your neighborhood. So now you have to move in. Well, they're, they're like moving in the neighborhood, right? They're moving in the area eventually. Wow. They're still going back and forth. But yeah, so it was, because the universe kind of collided, I wasn't planning on going out that night. They weren't planning on going out that night. And because I was in this flow and they were feeling really good about their day, we kind of collided in this place. And the bartender couldn't get a word in eduase to see if we needed more food because we were just literally engulfed in this beautiful flow frequency of sharing how magical the universe was. And the whole conversation was about how incredible it is to co create and speak your truth. Absolutely. And I want to talk about something I call a time gap and for those of you out there, we're going to talk about two things right now, because remember we said to you in this part,

7:10this segment that we were going to talk about like, not only just what comes up, but you, you just heard from Brenda Lee, a demonstration of how it happens. I want to talk about two things. One, you aligned your thoughts and actions that was a perfect. There's something I want to talk about that I think we don't talk about it. No, they're two things. One I call it the time gap and the other one I did a talk on on this and I always got booed out of the place until I explained myself, but the topic was ignorance is the key to true manifestation. And so when the speaker group got that title, they're like, no, no, we're not bringing you in here to talk about ignorance. So I had to write the outline. What did that mean to me? One example, I'm 17. I'm like Bell Labs scientists impacted by them dearly, right? I didn't even understand that. I don't come from that family.

8:12You kid, my, I don't know what my family graduated like, what do you call it grade school, let alone high school. And I'm around these changes people, but that's not it. They were happy people. They taught me how to play ping pong. And I've shared the story before, but I was walking down the hall one day and I looked at Linda and said, I'm going to get a PhD. And I felt it and I knew it. And of course, you heard the story. I immediately said, what is a PhD, but that's not my point of this story. What didn't I know? And I said this before, had I known the process of actually applying and getting a PhD and I'm talking old school traditions, not now where we have this online. Yeah. Had I known that, I wonder if I'd have even tried GRE scores, love, love, love scores. But I held on to that with pure trust.

9:15I didn't talk about it every day, but it was in my heart. I held on to that for 22 years, the time gap. The time gap is it's a flow. I don't want to talk about this. There's a flow to things and there's trust before the flow. I don't think you can have trust before the flow. But I never second guest myself. And honestly with Linda, she never, and Linda knows she knew her family's well educated. Never second guest myself. But that has been a key to me my entire life for almost everything. Now ignorance is a bit, it's kind of a strange term, but ignorance is different than stupidity. Ignorance means you just don't know any better. You're open to a world of possibilities in my context. But what I would like you to talk about is this notion of trust energy.

10:21See trust is an energy. And what does it mean for those that are listening today and wondering, I don't manifest nothing. I don't know what you did, Bessilli, to manifest that or Brenda Lee. I don't know what you did to manifest those two friends. But you and I do talk about the power of building trust. Yeah, so that language, you know, I don't know how you did it. It can't happen for me. Your word is your wand. So you just brought it into existence. You're the magician. You literally dropped it into existence. And so you have to change your language. And trust is built by practicing. So once you change your belief system and you change your questions, you get a little curious. Get a little curious. Ask a question you didn't ever ask before out of the blue. Believe that it's possible that it's going to come in without being attached. And pretty soon it'll happen so much you'll just know that you're the one doing it.

11:24And that's when the trust comes. So don't try to put trust before believing it's possible, right? And don't believe that you're stupid and ignorant. And all that language get rid of that. I don't use any of that language, right? Just ask for a sign. Be open to receive it. Take time throughout your day to be aware who am I speaking to? What are they saying? I'm in nature. What's my favorite animal? Do I keep seeing this? When you start doing that, you're just in the flow. You know, I asked a question yesterday and I walked out to my backyard and there was a medium-sized white albino frog in my pool swimming. Just like, and I thought, how did it even get in here? Where did it come from? Then I went, oh, there's a message, right? So I looked it up and I got a beautiful message from that spirit animal, that little white frog, right? This is what we do is we know that everything that we're witnessing is purposeful.

12:28It's purposeful in our journey, in our life. And we can't miss anything. We can't get it wrong. When we're thinking about this and I want to get back to it and I want to get back to something you and I talked about a little bit ago, and that is the influence of other people for a minute. This is the place where we have to help people in this segment, right? This is part two is we're helping people. And I want to jump to being in the flow because we have some notion sometimes where, look, there are some things in life, that we've got to get somebody's approval for. There's no question. You want a bank loan? You got to go to bank, right? But don't you have to listen to when you go to the bank? You don't have to listen to some banker telling you a story and eventually he's going to give you the long, but you got to sit there and listen to the with the bankers telling you you're not. That's one example. Go to school, right? So you got to look at your application. You go for a job interview. You want the job. So there are things, right?

13:30So I want to ask you this, how does the influence of other people, places, and things that we take in our mind impact? Whether or not we get a flow. It's everything, right? And even with that, with those, with that couple I was speaking to, I said, so what do you do to get in the flow? And they said, we don't tell anybody what we're doing. And I said, being go, being go, being go, that's what I do too. So, you know, I have a best friend. I might give her a little bit, but I don't give her everything, right? Because there's things that I'm creating that no one will hear about until I've manifested it until I've decided I'm at a point where I've reached. And so when you're practicing, don't tell anybody, right? Just keep it to yourself until you get to a place where you know you're the magician. And you're the one doing it. The universe is co-creating back and rearranging everything for you to get the answer at the right time.

14:30Then you can kind of share a little bit here, but my personal creations, I don't share that with anybody. Because then I don't have any outside opinion or energy because opinion is energy, right? We're spelling these opinions onto people and it's changing the energetic force of what I want to create, right? And so, yeah, what you're trying to do is become compatible for that, which is already yours, which means if you have a desire for something, your soul actually wants you to know that you could experience it. And if you try to control how you get there, it's going to be really hard. But if you're in the flow, things are just going to open up and you're going to get the signs and, you know, you'll hear, you'll ask a question and you'll hear a song. And the lyrics will speak to you and answer that question. And then you'll get in your car and an hour later you're driving down the road and there's a billboard. And the billboard echoes what the lyrics were singing to you.

15:33And now you've gotten it twice. Look, here's the thing. Let's go to a thing. Let's go to another thing example. I like thing examples. I go to a school, right? And I want people to think about this in the smallest way in the biggest way they can. Brenner Lee goes out, goes getting dinner, boom, a thing happens. See, I call that a thing. Sometimes I'm not scientific at all. Because I want people to understand it's a thing that happens. It's an energy. It's an energy. And so here we are. I want to talk about flow. What would be the odds? OK, let's just play the, what do you call them? Devil's advocate people that are listening to this show and saying, yeah, whatever they're saying. I don't even know what they're saying, but you understand Devil's advocate people.

16:33What would be the odds that I go to, consider to conservative school, Claremont? Get in on a program because the Dean's not there and Dr. Cherlyn Grandbrose is there and she's taken in people with working experiences for one year. Hello, then this same school, they got this gentleman over here that reminded me of the Bell Labs people. That gentleman is the founder of flow theory. See, when you go to the odds maker and you put stuff on paper and here I am in school, am I really going to school or is the universe put me in situations? What was the name of his company again? This is Mahali creative flow theory. He has just like a ridiculous long name. It's called me high, she sent me high. Me and I took sent me on flow theory. Flow theory. He developed flow theory.

17:34Right. Flow theory. He created his own. He created, I'm not enough time to talk about this. I'm actually going to do a show about it. But this is to your point though. How did I pick Claremont or did I? I was rejected by 37 schools. Claremont put me on a waiting list for one year and if it wasn't for Linda signed in the paper and sending it in, I wouldn't have done. Yeah, I mean, when you have people around you, that energetic field is working, right? And look, when we get disappointed, it builds character. It's just that people lose the courage to keep going, right? And being in the flow is a practice. I promise you, it's so magical. So recently I had like a, I wasn't feeling well and I, I, I never get sick and I just, my tummy or something was off and I, and I just said, I don't take medicine. I don't, I hardly take any vitamins and I just said universe. What could I take to make this feeling go away?

18:34And I just threw it up. I didn't feel good enough to go to the grocery store. So I decided to do an online grocery order and I got my order and it came to the door and I'm unloading my groceries and there's these two little shots that you take from sprouts and they're ginger and pineapple and there's two single little shots. And I look at it and I pull the receipt and I'm like, I didn't order that. It's not on the receipt. I didn't pay for it and I went. Oh my gosh. So I usually get things twice from the universe. I get things twice so that I know that it's really for me and I went, you put these shots in my grocery order and I took them, you know, one in an hour later and I felt perfectly fine. That's trust. That's faith. That's belief. That's knowing that if I put a question up, it's just going to show up. I didn't pay for it. I didn't ask for it. It literally appeared in my grocery order. Now my mind said, oh no, somebody probably didn't get their order because I have it and

19:35then I said, no, that's not true. I'm co-creating with the universe and I don't have to worry about what anybody else is getting or not. I told my mind, no, no, no, I'm not taking anything from anybody. This answered my wish. And that's how I flow, right? When you remove guilt and shame or what if and all this control, it just happens. It's so magical. So just another example of being in the flow. It's just happening all day every day and you know, you're not going to get a million signs in an hour but you can practice to where you're open to receive them. They're happening all around us. The people that you think are getting everything, they're in the flow. They believe they're worthy of it. They don't worry about it and it just comes in, right? And that's contrast for you to see that it's even possible for you. If you didn't see anybody else getting anything, you'd never believe it was possible for you. Yeah. I love that we're talking about this and that would kind of probably get no tip off to

20:36what we're probably our next show is going to be about. But you know, one of the things I loved when I looked at that scenario, not in the moment of it, not, you know, not in the moment of it. I looked, you know, I didn't even understand what a weightless was. And I get a letter because I wasn't living in New Jersey. None of this, you know, I packed my stuff up and I moved because, you know, I had enough. And Linda gets on my mail and she says, oh, you got a letter you've been accepting now. I said, Linda, it's a year later. She said, wow, I got the letter. Dr. Sheryl and Grandrose want you to show up? Okay. You understand? How do you and Seattle riding the Harley just chilling, chilling? You were in the flow. You were doing it. How are you waiting? You had no expectation. But here's the key to staying in the flow. And we're probably going to capture this because what I really want is, you know, for people to hear you when you say cultivating trust in a room is.

21:39Yeah. This is so important. I got on a plane. No money. Claremont, expensive school. Yeah. No money to pay for tuition. No house to stay in. La la la. Where is it in California? OMG. Got on a plane. Paid for my tuition through my credit cards. Went down there. Somehow found somebody that had an apartment for rent. They became my besties for 10 years pretty much. And it all happened in a day. And when I walked into Dr. Michelin's grand rose office, I'm not going to say she's a little edgy. And I walked in and I said, OK, I'm here for an interview. She said there is no interview. What are you? Who are you? I said, well, I'm pathocly. Oh, OK. Well, you're in the program. And she put her head down, continue to work. And I said, OK.

22:40What now? Come back when school starts. Yeah, you're already in. Right? You're already in. I already know. I already did. No, because you weren't attached. So I tell people, don't second guess what you desire. Believe that you can have it. Don't have regrets if you made a wrong turn. Get back. Course Korea. Correct. Make a new decision. Just be OK with no matter what the outcome is. Because there's something that you're learning along the journey. Right? And when you shift internally, what you believe, what you trust, your faith levels, the outer world shifts around you. You are creating all of it, right? And if you try to do too much too fast, you won't be in the flow. Start with real small things. And if you need help, I have a great course

23:41called Science and Synchronicities. It's the funnest course that I have on my website, at attunedguidance.com. It's really fun. And it gives you all these different practices to watch and see how the universal language is playing out through people, places, and things. Right? It's just magical. And so learn it, be patient with yourself, allow it to unfold and surprise you because you're worthy of it. And everything around your house, the art you have, everything that you pick out, there's a message in all of it. There's a reason you were attracted to that statue or to that artwork. There's a reason that you bought that painting. There's a reason that you have those colors in your house. It's your soul's essence. It's your soul's expression. And any of those things can change at any time because we're evolutionary beings. And the soul just wants to try everything on. And the soul wants you to be the conductor

24:43and change around your life so that you can experience new things. But people get stuck because they don't believe they can do it. That somebody's lucky. And I'm telling you, everybody can do it. It's your birthright to figure it out in your way on your terms. And really, have fun with it. I play all day. I have fun. I don't take any of it serious. I just know that when I ask for something, the answer's going to come in. I just know it. Oh, bingo. We didn't talk about it a lot today, but we did. Intuition. We didn't call it out, but we talked about it. It is the key to everything. It is the reason that out of the blue, after using one particular AI for years, I switched. Yes. And people said, why? And I said, I just heard I should switch. Thank you for today.

25:43Thank you for everything we're doing. And part of this is looking at and answering for people what can we do next. And you addressed it. Look for signs. There is wonderful. Like our intuition is what we want to tap into, not the outer opinion. That's why we don't tell anybody what we're creating. And after you've already succeeded. And then if they want to know how you did it, give them a few tips and let them practice it and figure out their way. Because it's not a one-size-fits-all, right? We're each unique. And we each communicate in our own way. You can't get it wrong. I promise you. And I got to tell you, Brenda Lee has helped me see that, upside down and sideways. Don't forget signs and synchronicities. Decoding the language of the universe, attuned guidance is, did I get that right for the website? And last thing I'm going to comment on, I had a lot of help getting here today to be who I am.

26:45And I will continue to get the help to become the person that I want to become. And you and I acknowledge that I want to invite people, not to be afraid to get help. Thank you, Brenda Lee, for everything. Thank you. Thank you so much. All right. Thank you, Bill. And I'm hoping we do do a show next week. We really, I want to peel that flow on you back, right? And I want to do it without crying. But chances are I'm going to cry. We'll see you next time. Thank you for listening to the attuned guidance show with Brenda Lee Matage. Tune in every first Thursday at 11 a.m. Pacific 2 p.m. Eastern on ttrnetwork.com for more soul, online guidance, and powerful conversations. If today's episode resonated with you, take a moment to reflect on what's being awakened within you. You are the creator of your reality. And every step you take is guiding you closer to your highest expression.

27:45We invite you to awaken, create, and rise together. Be sure to like, share, and spread the message. And remember to visit attunedguidance.com to explore more ways to deepen your journey. Until next time, trust yourself. Trust the process and keep stepping into the life you're here to create. We'll see you next time. [? Yeah ?]