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Creating our Deepest Desires

Life and Creating it with Spirit

Universal Law into Form

Higher Self

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The "Creative Principle" in metaphysical philosophy refers to the underlying spiritual mechanics through which thoughts, energy, and intent are transformed into physical reality. Within the 12 Universal Laws (derived heavily from the ancient Hermetic principles of The Kybalion), creation isn't a random event; it is a structured process governed by specific, unyielding laws.

While all universal laws overlap, a select few are explicitly known as the Laws of Creation. They dictate how you actively co-create your life: [1]

The Universal Law of Gender dictates that everything has masculine and feminine principles. This is not about biological sex, but about energetic dynamics:

  • Masculine Energy: Directive, logical, and conscious. It is the thought or seed.
  • Feminine Energy: Creative, intuitive, and subconscious. It is the womb or the life force that nurtures the seed into physical form.
  • The Creative Process: True creation requires balancing both. If you have only masculine energy, you end up in relentless, exhausting action without inspiration. If you have only feminine energy, you end up with endless ideas but zero execution.

2. The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy✨

This law states that energy is constantly moving, flowing, and changing forms. It cannot be created or destroyed, but it is always transitioning from the non-physical to the physical. [1]

  • Because thoughts are a form of high-frequency energy, holding an image consistently in your mind forces that energy to eventually manifest into its physical counterpart. This is the foundational science behind how a thought becomes a physical reality.

3. The Law of Mentalism

The absolute baseline of the creative principle is that the Universe is mental. Everything we see around us—from technology to architecture—began as a single thought. Your mind is the mechanism that shapes the formless energy of the universe into distinct experiences.

4. The Law of Inspired Action

Often forgotten in pop-culture manifestation, this law states that creation requires a physical conduit. Mental energy must be met with movement. Unlike frantic, forced hustle, "inspired action" refers to the internal nudges or intuitive leaps you take when you are energetically aligned with your goals

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If you found yourself here, there may be some messages for our healing journey. Souls, evolution, transformation or simply information. So I'm here for our beautiful awakening. We have the Universal Law of Creation focusing our mind to create our deepest desires. This weekend would be a great weekend to delve into and think about it or simply love somebody that you indeed do desire. As many forms of love and action based intentions or validations, you will know what's best for you and your relationship, not situations.

For those never last. The Law of Creation. focusing your mind to create your deepest desires. Now when I said that a second or third time, it's sunk in, right? Sometimes we have to hear things a few different times or ways, a different voice. As life is being created from spirit. That's in the light. That's your higher self. And right now this axiom is the first cause of mode and mode of operation in how to create the process of the universe and how the universe actually works. It is the unfoldment of thoughts through Universal Law into form.

This Law is based upon primary axiom of spirituality. The reality of life and that life is creating from spirit and your higher self. It is a creation which involves you and your higher self. Spirit manifests itself in and through all creations but is not absorbed by its creations. The manifest universe is the body of spirit. This create a principle works for everything and everyone equally. Directing the Universal Law of Manifestation. That outpicturing of your life with zero effort whatsoever.

Take inventory of your beliefs. You have about yourself, people in life. What beliefs do you choose to keep? Which ones do you know for certain? And which ones no longer serve? A lot of people are realizing that when they uplift the truth and get rid of the illusion, whether you pray it out or for, find faith and realize who you were following. Maybe that was a whole illusion based form, platform group, community. Whatever it is, you realize you weren't in alignment and you felt misaligned, misled, which leads you to misfortune. You know, connecting with creation to your higher self, what is best for you?

You therefore must invest in that creation with divine, with universe. It is always on time or you will see a quicker karma return. Maybe we have a light bulb moment today. That's why some of them light fixtures maybe always stay dark in certain areas. There is no light bulb. People use other vices, literally devices. Monitor you for your light. Pose as you are pretend to be you or just make fun of you because they don't like your light, but they like what you produce with divine. That's why there's a massive wrath happening all the time. They take from then find it funny. I have a whole program about that narcissistic empath.

The reality is they will always take and use an abuse. If you allow it, and even when you don't, they do it behind the scenes. So so allow a cause and effect. What causes you pain if it's your own doing, you are directed and uplifted when you're ready to get out of those lessons. Or you can call 911, report every day. Judicial system, IP, is very easy to figure out what these folks are doing. And of course behind the scenes it takes a different type of crew to figure out what they're doing. Universal Law of Relativity. You are divinely perfect.

Live your truth. You live in your truth. Other people like to either project your truth or protect it. Maybe they don't know their own truth or because we all do. Well, they're hiding behind the scenes or maybe our lights, cloaking, illusions. If they've done something we requested to uplift the truth, so we can move our lives. They go then behind the scenes trying to hide everything they do. Well, the easy things are smearing your self online. They do that to everyone. But in reality, it's more of a jealous revenge. They can't have it and if you don't conform to what I want you to do, I will make fun of you.

I will hurt you intentionally. With revenge and vengeance and I will collaborate with anybody else who will do the same thing. Therefore, accessory to crimes or witnessing crimes or all the above. Crimes to humanity. They will reap what they sow. Universal Law of Relativity. You are divinely perfect. We are perfect because the creator made us this way. We also call judgment and justice on all people stealing our work, acting like there are good citizens, and harming innocent people. Not just the law of cause and effects I've played here. It is a law. You can't do that.

There's lots of laws you can Google. We can talk about it later. But let's get to the good stuff. Love. What makes the world go around. What sustains life. Sustainable living. None of what they're doing is sustainable unless they achieve their goals with sacrificing and doing rituals every day. They wouldn't tell anybody they do it though. But we can because we have to rebuke it and renounce it. Dis-Mantelet. With God's help. Of course. Because we are divinely perfect in God's eye and the creator. That's why we do have sustainable living. Sometimes this is stopped their madness and uplift the truth. The truth shall set us all free. What occurs in the micro level?

Well, the macro level and the micro level. Spiritual truth and universal law are absolute truth. However, they can be individually used for a relative perspective and experience. Experience, not experiment. People are in doubt with the individual use of the one mind in the exact portion. And distortion they choose at a soul level. Furthermore, your individual reality is indirect relation to the whole awaken. Or, oracle within. Any situation where you are experiencing suffering? Well, now we know it can be a blessing of disguise because we uplift the truth to all this.

Diabolic and painful magic and our surroundings wherever we go. They follow. And they do the same thing, not ironically, but obviously. There is a difference. It is your soul's way of communicating. That you are not living an absolute truth of who you are also. Divine experience for you is to realize what works for you, what does not work. And to live an alignment with your relative truth. We know the truth. People want to tap into your life or tap you out of yours to take it. That is the truth. But it's not our aligned journey. So therefore, they'll be dealt with not just karma, whatever they have done is weighted. It won't be sustainable.

It can't be. The cries, the voices, they're heard. Anybody knows that? You can ask highly regarded prophets, prophets, prophecies, mediums. People have been talking about it for years. The Pope? Anybody talks about it? There's words written in books talking about people who hurt people. Unjust. Law has very straightforward legal. Not just advice, but following the law. It here to the law or there's consequences. But people tested, they know people. The law of emergence and evolution. Making new decoration for your life. I decide. My husband and I are going to have a beautiful life.

Whatever we decide to do together individually and make sure we comfort and also heal and have time. You can choose whatever you want to. We'll make these kind of things. It'll be a surprise. You will like it or not. We probably will be kind, not for me. We have discernment with what you know. Sometimes it's an exploration. Why would you give a book to somebody and say, hear it, follow it. Then you have no free will. You won't have any fun. This day we must do this. It's not how life works. At work, it might. You have to follow Procedure and Protocol. You have to. If you want to get paid and keep that job. Make a new declaration of your life. While we commit to our life, our purpose, our path, or commit to bringing our family up.

Homemade meals when we can or you prep for the week. So children are fed the things that are better. Everybody feels better. Or you decide what works for the family. You have a plan when there's an emergency. Call these numbers. They used to be on the refrigerator by the phone. Call the neighbor. I think sometimes we get so far away from things and we believe people should just Google it. Not everybody's great in emergency situations or can handle the heat that people put upon us. They want to make it look a different way. Well, behind the scenes. Actually, just desiring your attention. They'll get it any which way they can. It's easy to see that in a classroom. So sometimes you can pull out a task that would help them feel really good about what they've achieved.

It doesn't mean everybody else is on the same literally paid in the book. But in order to help them achieve their goals, you see and meet them where they are. Later on, they might not need that chapter, but they still have to take a test or quiz on it to pass the course. Sometimes life is like that too. Sometimes people are always in kindergarten because they didn't learn some things. But the excel in many other things. They're still not kind or have compassion or empathy with regards to anything or anyone. Some are older than me. So we have boundaries, discernment, different life skills, depending upon what they need for their career, for their life, for their livelihood, maybe for their lemonade stand, teach them lessons in life.

They might have a friend that stole their money at that stand. They learn valuable things. Now they have greater discernment. If that then bully keeps doing the same thing through life, well, they'll meet the law. Somewhere down the road, maybe that kid will end up being their boss, their neighbor, maybe a police officer, maybe an attorney, nail them to the cross or in the court of law. Universal cause and effects. It always comes back sometimes when you least expect it. During evolution, upon demand for life to prevail. The energies and new possibilities, new properties, we will be achieving our goals. New everything but some older and familiar. New.

Some people always want everything new. It doesn't make it better. Maybe it just looks better. But is it better? Behind closed doors, everybody can see what's happening. Some people like to surveillance and stock and mirror your phone to see what's going on or ask for trouble. Let's go on cycles. Invasive. Some people fabricate so many things so they can keep tabs on you. They want to see you in always shapes and forms. Like fatal attraction. They'll say anything to achieve their goals. For example, the fifth finger emerges out of the necessary force of Ivo. From transforms upon the incense and the insistent consciousness.

Transform or simply walk along your journey and explore your life. What comes up might be lessons or it might be at the light. The whole way, not everybody has trauma or a jacked up journey. It depends on what you contracted in for your soul's journey. It does not mean the painful magic follows you forever. Nor the order of course of balance because somebody fabricated something because they wanted to really see you in every which way shape or form. While making everybody else jealous of you, but they are with those people, it's a twisted moment in time or decades or two.

Individual demands and commands subconscious and subjective mind, universal law set in motion. Creative process begins with a belief in mind. Sets polarity in motion. Evolution. The result of this polarity in this physical form. Involution, internal impressions. Informs a universal law. The outcome of law in motion. Well, hallelujah. I used to love listening to great lectures. Being in some rooms, it just, you take it in. Nothing else is there. Reminds me of that fairest bewery jumped in the water. He didn't want to take anything in. He just wanted to think about his own thoughts, process, what's going on, dad's car, what the hell just happened.

Oh, there's a story there. But what is the truth? A law of correlation. Witness the boomerang effect of your beliefs and actions. This came up the other day. Why do you think that is? Synchronisties are objectivity or obvious. Obviously, this what happened. We coach people who talk about it with teachers. We might have been partners to some of these people lingering on with their chaos. They have goals. They were promised things. We laughed and moved on. It didn't work out for many various reasons. Obviously, some written down in records, some known by communities, some fabricated now. Did they lose their mind or are they under an illusion thinking that's not how it went down?

No. But it might be spell work. Or it's so damn bad. We have to tell stories to the people that do believe. We have a pact now. We're going to be just fine. We'll get this any which way we can. It is possible, but not for long. Universal law of correlation. Witness the boomerang effect of your beliefs and actions. Well, is this statement true? Not, I believe it to be true. I know it to be true. This is my truth and my belief. I know I've been wronged. And what I told you is true. I need help not from emergency services, ways of antiven counties, money or right or anywhere else in between.

No. That's for the people who actually have an emergency. And for the police, well, now you know what they have happened. The truth that we spoke when you're in an emergency situation is the truth. A fabricated story to elongate the not interrogation but investigation. Well, there's a lot of fabrication and packs that have been made. And I suppose not as close. But the thrilling point for some of these people is that they love your suffering. I heard the term again the other day, Narkon steroids, well, whatever works for you or maybe it's pun intended. Some would wonder where the thought process is, where their mind went, old school dates tell the sit to hell down.

Think about it. What were you thinking? Why would you do that? But if those elderly's are indeed on the other side, they might be trying to give them messages, but they're so dark inside. They don't want to listen. They want to control all outcomes. And everybody's alive. Make some feel better. Getting young kids, putting them under an illusion, waving things that they wouldn't love in front of them. Never be able to afford, probably not even in their life path, to have a $50,000 truck or vehicle. But as soon as they don't do what these groups and packs told them they would provide, kids won't be able to afford the gas or the insurance. They'll probably have it towed in the least perfect time.

Important job, maybe your new person has an emergency or your wife is having a child that car won't work. They will know it because it's perfect timing for them to make you suffer and you are in pain. You're in a panic. You don't know what to do. For that I can tell you 911 works, the emergency will come. And if you don't have insurance because they canceled your policy, you'll be paying for the rest of your life. That's how they work. Maybe you have a church group that would help, maybe you can retro. Policies or get government help. But telling them a story, I would you know what to tell them in the facts? I would take somebody special to produce the facts for you. These aren't stories or any fabrication, it's what they do. So for you young kids,

they join groups with hopes of high dreams and lives, living out your dreams, and maybe they put some into your dreams. This is what your dreams or your Akashic records has for you instead. Well you need to work a little harder. Go to school, maybe, or work up the chain to achieve that vehicle when you're older. You can't afford it. You don't need that vehicle now much less, or maybe you never will. When you have a family, things change. You might need to put food on the table. The shoes and glasses or dishware or something special for your wife or flowers might be more important. Or maybe saving or a weekend away or a little vacation.

Or maybe even daycare so you can get away. Think about long term, short term, and what really matters. Write it down when you start your family or have a relationship with matters. What would affect things? Well you would never put this into the factoring of what could go wrong. What could go wrong? Universal law, correlation, witness the boomerang effect of your beliefs and actions. We have to be mindful of other people's actions, not visible, not just visible, but behind the scenes. All of life is a relationship in mutual exchange of energy with a perfect reflection. This law is the boomerang effect of the mental universe. This interdependence, unified kinship, is a dynamic and instantaneous in its exchange.

Those doing painful magic we are affected. We get on it immediately. It is a massive return to sender. Then we cannot lift the truth, other people actually explore the same thing. The same theme is going online. So we validate, not just our own word, but everybody else because they also are throwing things online. The energy is there. Good breeders will pick up the energy. False ones, stillers, copy our information, our intellectual property, spin it as if it's theirs. They may have a live stream, we heard of Tango. Well they might be on Tinder too. They've gotten invited, so some people in their person places or thing or situation shift, they invite you in. That obviously went to spam and junk, maybe you are deleting it and you see it. Don't open it. Sometimes that has to belework on it too.

For their calls, they rewrite calls. Re-wrote calls. Re-write your story. No. No. That's not true. Interdependent. Unified kinship. Dynamic and instantaneous in its exchange. There's always a mental equivalent. And a divine reverberation that echoes through the cosmos. What's going on? Listen, God, we have a situation here. God might even be funny and show you your dog. I was thinking of Jack yesterday. Well, he wouldn't be the K9, he's not trained. I don't think he would behave that well, but he could sniff it out. He always knew when danger was coming about. Sometimes he explored a lot of things.

Sadie, very refined, he would think people that have a lot of money would be refined, respectful, courteous. But sometimes online, people capture the darnedest thing. Is it really true or is it AI? Nowadays it takes a professional. And in the court, a lot of boy do they take? They are taking it seriously, but these other folks, well, some would say they're having a great shitshow. They're having a lot of problems. Or those of us living normal lives. Or want to. Interesting, isn't it? What we've created. The awakening. The awakening that Oracle within. Things, desires, coming up or not. Well, the weeds are always there. And if you keep pulling them, it's kind of like a return to center. Where you are then, or you just shred them. Let them dry out. Mult, who knows.

There are reasons for everything. Are you giving in life to somebody not wanting to have your life? Life is an exchange of energy, a flow of giving and receiving. It is the current of consciousness. Your higher self desires for you to be of service and be in contact with your own self today. Maybe you can give yourself a compliment if you always give them away or somebody else will. It is the exchange. Some people don't like for you to have a compliment. What do you think they would do class, slander, defamation, steal your property? Your intellectual property? Maybe steal your gifts. But it's not sustainable. It wasn't meant for you.

Now some of us can say, listen. You have to put ten solid years in. The first five might be a little difficult, but after that it's lose sailing. You can achieve that goal, but you might want something different why. Because we see maybe in addition to your family. You might need a different vehicle. But maybe in your retirement, you might not even want that anyway. You might want something different. For you, kids are in school. You have more time and energy. You might have a business. You might have something else in you. You will achieve all your goals and you'll be happy. As I'll get out, they used to say. Or in small town, tap you shit. Or maybe they call you shit. Because they told you you would never amount to shit. Guess what? You are the shit now. See? It works for everything. That's what small towns use. Simplicity, right?

Makes sense. Box it in. You're higher self in your desires. You don't have to be in service to everyone like some of us. But sometimes you like to. It feels good. Take time to journal. Reflect upon your showing. What is showing up in your life? Or we can feel who's showing up every day, slithering around. They don't like it. They want to shut you up and shut you down. But they enjoy it. Remember. Don't ever engage with that pact. Because it hurts people. Then your Akashic records what we saw, you'll never get any of that. Guaranteed. It'll be taken from you. It shows the wrong team and you heard other people. Therefore, what they told you would come into fruition. Well, they're in jail. There's no pact or maybe you have to lead the pact, but you don't want to. You don't know how to. You're not aligned to it.

Then you realize, now you got to go back to square one. Pick up the paces and pick up the pieces. Realign your wife will probably say something or your husband. It tells you so. Look, okay, I'll fix it. Figure it out. Or you can call. What can I do? Help me. Well, let's clear your energy. Unquote from all this shit. See? Let's get you back online. It's all right. Bring a family in. Or I'll come over. Clear your house. Clear each kid. They get it to all of you. That's why they're acting out in school. You're all in trouble. Next week, next month, next year. Things are going to look different. Nobody's going to remember all those things I said about you. Kids don't have to change schools. You don't have to move towns. You'll be the leader of something good.

Beneficial. Benefit for home. You can turn it around. I know it to be true. The love, perfect health. Listen to the divine guidance within your body. Your body is yours. It was given to you perfectly made just as we are. Uniquely for what we need. For what somebody would love. And you would love yourself. If you don't, you'll learn to love it. Maybe figure it out. Do something that you would love. Maybe take the time to learn something that you love. Listen to divine guidance within your body. The universal is the axiomum. At whatever is going on within your health. Maybe it's the mentally equivalent of what is going on within your conscience. Maybe you didn't know subconsciously. You had some things that needed to be resolved.

Or people are projecting into you. You never felt that way. What's going on with you? Not just narc concern. For chaos and elongation. No. Individually, collectively, and cosmically. When we get out of alignment with our truth. Mother nature and universal law. We experience ill health. Within you is a born intelligence. And in a innate capability. Or you are capable. Of restoring harmony. Well-being and vibrant vitality. When the body is bogged down with toxins. Spellwork. Negative people places in things that emotions, projections. They cannot function properly from a spiritual perspective. Die cast. Or maybe we will just say maybe need one.

A pan. Around the house or some cell or some cleansing. Disease of spirit. Or they protect that into you. Disease is spirit over your high self. Communicating that we are out of harmony. With life. With life itself. Symptoms within the body. Poor health illness. Are the relative and inverted experiences of our use of universal energy. Therefore it is an exchange. And that is logical and obvious. And if you want to analyze it and test it out. You will find out. Universal energy. From an absolute perspective. The truth is that you are eternal, immortal, spiritual beings.

You are not your body. You have a body. From a spiritual perspective. The only true disease is amnesia. However, if we choose to experience wellness we must align with nature's way. You can go into meditation. Communicate with your body. Ask your body. What do you need for me to assist in rejuvenation? Ask. What do you like to communicate? What do you need to communicate with me? And send gratitude for your body for the miracle that it is. So there are lots of interesting folks doing dark, packed things. They know how to pack a punch and pack a story. They will receive the wrath of God.

Sometimes they achieve their goals. Short-term or maybe now they are full of disease. Universal cause of an effect. Now when I started my program, I studied a lot of things to understand why people do. The damnedest things. When you find out terminology, words that align with the truth, more than you explore, you study it. And you want to heal the cause and effect. No, you are not crazy. But people can make you look anyway. They need you to look to divert from what they have done to you. Maybe even your healing journey. But getting away from those people, you clear your body, mind and soul to therefore. They don't want you to go sit by a tree.

Maybe they will conjure up a snowstorm, weatherstorm or anything else. Or take from you something you love. That's their pact and that's their attempt to harm you. Rune your life. So it doesn't matter how many readings you get if you do or look into your casha if you ever have. It wouldn't matter. They alter. The universe always has your back. If you are in alignment to your true destiny and your partner, everything is possible. Rewrouting. Yep. We host up. That's what some people say. Some people say we fucked up. I heard Elon must say that, whether it's true or not. Come on, fuck yourself. I had to listen to it three to four times. I think it was going to interview on Acts, of course. It was funny. I've said that quite a few times. Interesting to hear somebody say it. But it's true.

It comes from your core. And it's an exchange of the energy. It's perfect. That's why people ask. Well-known people, what's your favorite swear word? And they have one. They always have one. They ask them the same questions. Everyone has the same questions. It's funny. But it comes from within. Nobody has this script or cue you in. It is what it is. You asked. And I told you. I have the same energy as you. I can show you. Same principle. What is the classic, dark behavior, narcissistic behavior? Well, when they act with concern, care mode, they're in care mode. Well, behind the scenes causing problems.

It is true. You can go, but, in fact, find yourself. Everything might come up a little different, but same or similar. What does that you need? Appearing caring or concern while secretly contributing to a problem can be described as a manipulative interpersonal pattern. Sometimes associated with narcissistic behavior. What the behavior itself does not establish that someone is a narcissist or has narcissistic personality disorder. Like I said, I don't think it's coded. It's just under mental health or some other thing, so it can be paid under most health insurance. Unless it's changed, I don't know. I don't do coding. But I have had to figure out what code would go with what. I worked with claims departments sometimes. That's my favorite journey. I like to do.

I enjoy people to help them. I've solved their problems if I know how to solve it within five minutes on hold. I can still do other things while somebody might be on the line for an hour. I know the right number. And I like to help people that way. Why would they have to suffer? They're already in pain after surgery, pre-imposed. I can do it. I can still get my job done while I have three or four phones going. I've got a lot. Even my personal phone. You have a medical call number. Why not? Somebody will pick it up. I'll keep their lines busy till I get it done. Okay, secret, inner secret. But I was helping the clients, patients. Common patterns that can look like this include. Performative concerns. Acting deeply worried about you while their actions are inconsistent with that concern. Two-faced behavior. Sometimes you do see that at work too, not just the neighbors.

Presenting one version of themselves to you. And another to another to others. Problem, rescuer, cycle. Contributing to conflict. And then positioning themselves as the person who will save or comfort you. Oh dear, she's going to hurt herself. Well, maybe you have a headache from crown chakra magic. Or maybe they just talk your ear off. Or maybe they kept you up all night. Maybe with a drunken stupor. You never know. Maybe they just do loud things outside. All the time. Colvert, undermining, quietly interfering with relationships, work reputation, or opportunities while maintaining plausible deniability. Information gathering, asking caring questions that also give them information they can later use against you.

Gaslighting, denying, minimizing, or reframing events. So you question what actually happened. Triangulation. Bringing other people into conflict, the conflict. Carrying messages between people. Or creating division. Victim, reputation, management. Making sure others see them as compassionate or innocent. While portraying the other person as unstable, difficult, or responsible for the conflict. Oh dear, we might as well get one of those little birdies to hang it around our neck or self. I've fallen, I can't get up. Beep, 911. What is your emergency, Kimberly? I see you're calling from this location. What can I help you with? Well, I have an asshole outside. Everyday doing spell work. No, we'll be right there.

Or nothing. I just wanted to call and see if it worked. Okay, I might have to call the police. Now you wasted our time. I don't know. Intermittent kindness. Kindness. Alternating warmth and support with honesty. Or hostility. Withdrawal punishment or manipulation. Darval. When confronted. Responding by. Denying. Attacking. And reversing victim. And offender. Classic. What? She left me? I wanted to torture and traumatize her. Or I was promised her inheritance. What in the hell are we going to do? I need a pact. We made a pact. You promised. Or why didn't you deliver then? We would have given you the money. Why didn't you take care of that soul? Or will you told me what to do to trigger that aggression?

And I monitored it, recorded it, gave it to the police, and... Maybe I was able to get something. Power of attorney conservatorship. All behind the scenes I got paid from the government. As a caretaker. Maybe even got her to live somewhere where I could monitor her. Take her money. All behind the scenes, low and behold, they're the shitsters. Well that's an old school would say. Shitsters. You know what my dad would say? You are basically not just an asshole, but you are the prick. Prick with a cane. Ask my cousin Tidey, said it perfectly. They lived and worked together for a while. Learn some mad skills, right? Literally. The important distinction. The strongest evidence isn't how caring someone appears. It's whether there is a consistent document table, documentable,

or you have lots of documents mismatched between what they say and what they do. Of course, they would have to perfect their craft. You, however, at any given time could ask. Be asked by any agency, private investigator, who's following you, stacking you for years, surveilencing. Well that's what she's doing. She's boring. It's actually not at all what this report says. Now I'm bored. But I'm getting paid, so I guess I have to sit here. I wish I was with my wife. We're doing something special. I'm hungry. This is so diabolically ridiculous. But I'm casc to the damn job. All while we might know they're out there, that the coffee shop, they're sitting out in their vehicle. We wave, we get in their car, we schlep out through the snow, we shovel the snow. We do all things. I'm worried about your safety. If you were so worried, you would have gone to our favorite stores and gathered all of our things

and presented us to it, us while we're working, long hours, or there would be hot food at our door like old school. Here, oh my god, I haven't heard from you and seen from you in such a long time. I thought it would just show up. I'm sorry. I brought your favorite things. This is okay. You have a moment here. Let me put it in the house or can I help you get this in your house? There's a lot of it I went to casco. I know you love all these things. I showed up unannounced. Your neighbors are wondering what the hell I was doing. They wouldn't let me in. But I already saw you, you know, ask the... I got in, I'm sorry. I've been on your house already. I left some other things around. I won't tell you where I hid the cameras. I already coded. I saw you, I watched you, a profile. I saw you punch it in or... I stole your keys. Nope, I didn't do that. I just know the management team. I know they're realiter. I know everybody.

I've been watching you. They won't tell you that. If you... Well, separately, there's a documented conduct showing that the same person deliberately created or escalated the danger. I'm going back to... I'm worried about your safety. Are you? Are you so worried? When I'm worried about somebody, it doesn't matter how tired I am. They call it knuckle dragon on the ground. 812 hours. I would go to the store. I'm that one. Sure, the blazer, no. I would go to the store and I would get some more in food. The things you like, and if I can't get that, I'll do the best I can. I will not only deliver it all, stand outside in the cold in the rain, freezing my ass off. I will knock on your door, ring the doorbell. If it's open, I might leave it just in the doorway. Close the door, text you, call you, email, and let you know it's there.

Go over to the neighbors. I dropped food off. I'm not a stalker. I just was worried. I haven't heard from her. I heard she was sick. I'm a sister. Here's my ID. Here's my car. Here's my number. Please. If you need anything. If she needs anything, if you hear anything, let me know. I'm a trusted friend. Here's my ID. I work here. Hey, actually, I know you weren't you in the clinic last week. Oh, my God. See? All right. I'll let you go. Let's get my... I'm tired. You mean something who presents themselves extremely well in court to a new romantic social interest while behaving very differently behind the scenes. Of course they do. They want to court you. They already profiled you. They want something from you. Well, that type of group. The other people were just, I'm curious to get to know you. I've seen you around. Maybe the jammer in town.

Maybe at work, I ran into somewhere. Now, I'm interested. Very differently behind the scenes. That can be described more neutrally as impression management or image management. Charming public cost daily name private, polished presentation, calm, reasonable, compassionate cooperation, selective storytelling, emphasizing facts and making them look favorable while leaving out contradictory information, new interest charms, intense attention, concerned, generosity, affection towards someone new, figuring out everything you love, want to explore, come over, get in a relationship, and get married next week. I just met you. New interest charm, intense intention, reputation protection, cultivating people who will vouch for their character.

Let me see your rap sheet. I have to do some research myself, but nothing's there. It's all nondesclosed, expunge. You'll never see it. Undeniable. Let me see your birth certificate. Well, that's fake too. Plausible deniability, keeping harmful conduct, indirect or difficult to attribute private public discrepancy, document a behavior doesn't match the person presented publicly. Sometimes it takes a while. They're going to do some spell work over you. Cast an illusion or take your, your energy. You might love yourself. You might enjoy your own company. They wouldn't like that. They don't like people that like you. So these type of people might, you know, figure out a way to take that off from you. Looking good is an evidence of wrongdoing or innocence in the court or context. No.

What matters is, corroborated evidence. Communication records, timelines, witnesses, financial records, photographs. Oh, they love photographs. Oh, yes, they do, especially when they can go before you take a vacation to the hotel. They saw your itinerary, your Airbnb, wherever you stay, they make sure they put cameras in. She's dangerous. Here. I want to protect you. Or we're, we're in a pact together. Financial records, photographs, reports, they can create anything. And other independently verifiable information. Now you can timeline back to when you stay places. Oh, oh, okay. I don't see that.

I don't see that. I hear you. Yeah, no, none of that. What was said about me? Why don't you assess me on your own terms? In your own way. Here I am. There's what I'm doing for work. Here's who I am. If you want to know something, ask me. There appears to be a significant discrepancy between the individual's public presentation and their documented private conduct. Well, that would always be what the narc would do. They're the best person alive, godly, and you're the piece of shit that they told everybody you were. Right? The shit word. Small town. Keep it simple. It works for everything. Keeps to focus on evidence and behavior rather than a psychological diagnosis. I don't need an ambulance, an emergency crew.

Know it's Friday. You might have plenty of places to go. A lot of full moons. Babies are born. Sometimes the holidays come up. There's more domestic assault. Sometimes people conjure up so much drama. That it does result in that. People might punch somebody out for hurting a woman. That was falsely accused. You're going to get checked. Somebody should. Old school they would. Listen here. Grabby by the next sit. Your ass down. What did you say? That is not true. That's my mother, sister, cousin. Isn't that somebody you used to date? You told us. What did she say she did? That is not true. The good old boys. Or maybe somebody who would put you in your place.

To respect a feminine that you assaulted yourself. You defamated her character. You pushed it around town. Now we find out from somebody because we don't deal in the dark. Dabble, we found out somebody who actually knows what else you did. You made sure she would never have anybody else. You would put her in a position to take her job. Are you a secret boner or do you know the owners? Do you know people, places and things that would ruin her life with you? By your word alone? Why would you do that? Because she doesn't want you. And so therefore you don't want her to have anybody else. Did you want to live out your own fatal attraction? Sleeping with the enemy moments, a good fame? Or what would you do that for?

Something else. To steal her fame? But she seems very humble and loyal. And she would have given back to everybody. I don't know why you would do that. Oh, you wanted her life. You wanted the inheritance. You didn't like that she earned the vehicle. Or she bought herself a pair of earrings that she enjoyed. Her mother's day. That single mother who works hard raises her kids. We've seen her around painfully so. Had to investigate her every day for a decade or so. I don't think she's living the life that she wants to, but she's doing the best she can with what you put her to. Sounds like you're the dark asshole. Yeah. Sounds like it.

And you have a pact and a crew. Matter of fact, you do a lot of things to her. We don't take kind to your kind. Or we don't favor your kind. Or we don't like your kind around here. Isn't that what you hear in the Western? We don't like your kind around here. What is your kind? Dark and miserable. Doing painful magic and necromancy. Altering everybody's life. For your schemes and scams. Now you've ruined a lot of people's life. We don't like that. The court of law says no. Stop it. Now they actually hurt people in the court of law. Yeah, exactly. So now changes occurring happening at Haster. Their intention was merely and purely to harm.

Intentional harm. Now we can spew and speak a lot of legalities and legal terms. Assault and battery. Intentional harm. Intentional manslaughter. Murder via spiritual assassination. Dark divination. Spiritual assault. 3D assault. You battered somebody and you harmed them. You slaughtered them. You smear campaigned. You slaughtered and put death to every aspect of their life. And there of sound mind still. After what you've done. Yes. We've seen that too. She's a leader. She works hard. She loves hard. You took advantage of her. Our analysis of you and ballistics.

Is that you are the ultimate assholes. Polls assholes. There's many of you now. We've had to investigate a lot of people. And it's getting cold coffee sucks. Following people around every day figuring out who else is involved now. Who else they've conjured up to achieve their goals. And who are they getting now? Young kids who don't know better. And she's coaching them. Just tell the truth. Get out of those dark packs. I want you to have your best life. Even if I've missed my opportunities at that age, I don't want you to. I can help you. But just shadow band her work. Because she's telling the truth. And you steal her intellectual property. And her proceeds. Her business proceeds. That classifies you all as insufficient to live your own lives.

You coat, chase. And you elongate and triangulate trauma. And dismember and dislodge, dislocate. And we all disagree with what you're doing. All of us. It's logical, analytical, of sound body-minded soul. You are the problem. Public presentation versus documented conduct. There appears to be a significant discrepancy between an individual public presentation and their documented private conduct. Well, we can see what you're doing, not just flock cameras. Eyes by. You spy on me. People watching me are watching you.

Obviously. Hello. You don't have everybody in your pocket. You may just think so. Although the individual may present themselves as concerned, supportive, cooperative, or otherwise well-intentioned to third parties. The available documentation should be evaluated against their actual conduct, communications, and actions. Like somebody said the other day, your merit is that we value you. They're copying or in alignment maybe. But are they truthful? I'm not quite sure, but good, good effort. The relevant evidence includes dates, statements, communications, witnesses, records, and other independently verifiable information that may demonstrate whether the public presentation is consistent with the conduct occurring outside the presence of the third parties. Well, amen.

Conduct. Conduct. Public private discrepancy. Manipulative conduct, undermining, provocation, triangulation, deception, retaliatory, reputation, documentation. Observed conduct. Or. How about condemnation? Condemnation of harmful conduct. Condemnation of harmful conduct.

Family and friends. They've done this to the judicial people too. Black male, stone wall. Pollution, illusions, spells, polluting, people's minds. No, thank God to brilliant people in this world that also have intuitive, analogical assessments. And they use their intuition. They analyze the information, the documents, and the fabrication and the bullshit. Condemnation of harmful conduct. Conduct. Then evolves deception, intimidation, harassment, humiliation, manipulation, retaliation, deliberate interference, or exploitation of another person's vulnerability, should be clearly identified,

and condemned when supported by credible evidence. I always wanted to be an attorney, no wonder. I was deferred and told you're too stupid. Well, they didn't like me being a hairdresser or an educator, advanced educator, senior educator, either. They said you would just be a stupid beauty operator. However, everybody needs their hair cut, even the doggies like it, they get a treat. I think it was just their problem that I had gifts. I wanted to be popular, go to Hollywood and do hair, skin hair, makeup, matter of fact. I like to sing and dance and do everything. Sometimes I remember shit from past lives. See, shit. So, their words are mirrored back to them. You know, if, let's say my dad's sister went to be a nurse, well, that's my mom's aspiration.

And why didn't you do that? Did you get yourself pregnant instead? Did you hold somebody back or lock somebody down or that's your problem? Don't take your shit out on me. And then be jealous of me my whole life. And try and ruin my life. You made a pact with people. See, they align. It's beautiful. I'll be find out these things or we already know it. Maybe we talked about it at a young age. You're not a good teacher or that's fine. I'll figure it out. And I do. I did. I have. We figure out a lot of people and a lot of things. If they don't like it, it does not mean they can condemn you. It doesn't mean they can take from you what is yours, your gifts, your voice, your words. We are independently intelligent. So if they don't like that and they always knew that, it doesn't go along with their plan and that pact.

Well, I have to gain more momentum, more people. They want to be mobile and have people places and things everywhere to achieve their goals. Lo and behold, thank God, literally and good people. They see through their bullshit and their scams and schemes and plots and we're still alive. And magically the miracles of God or universal law, boomerangs karma is hitting all people that harm people if you didn't turn it over. Of course, we've been hit too. Everybody has karma past life. If you've done some things, you've got to work it out. Work it out. Do good things. What can I do to fix this? Figure it out. Okay. You figured out we figured out family. We figured out and we do right.

We do not only write, we do better than our parents. We achieve our goals. We saw what didn't work. We didn't like. We valued the things that we liked and worked for us. And then we want to do better. I want to do better. You also can make amends to the people that you did hurt. I've heard people say to me, I fucked up. It doesn't mean we always have to say, I know you can say nothing or just say, thank you. I appreciate that. I also have fucked up. No, they don't want to hear it. They just let them have that moment. And maybe if it inspires you to tell somebody else, you've fucked up. And you can say, I fucked up. It's another word people use in small towns all the time. Free speech. Everybody says it online now. Just like what you see online. Good. Lower it back in the day. Put your clothes on. How do you?

You can't dress like that. People will see you. Okay. Now we let kids go to school in the laundry. Didn't you know they did that parents know they had to switch it on when they left? Well, it's not what I saw at the bus stop. They took it off before they entered the school, but they let them in anyway. Apparently a part of dress code. Not just clubbing. No. Anything goes. A person's public appearance of kindness, concern or respect does not excuse harm conduct occurring privately. Accountability should be based on documented actions, evidence and the impact of those actions. Not simply on appearances or claims made by any. Any party. That's why people call the pity party something special.

Pity party old term. You having a pity party aren't you? Or I heard at work one day. The queen is having a pity party. It's a good to win into go get cupcakes. She likes them. No. Or okay, just fresh air. Going to burn a heater. Just go work. Get busy. We'll figure it out. Okay. So now the two of you are okay. Whatever. I'll just work harder. Figure it out. Go ahead. Have your. Go on. Later on it will be funny. I know. I know. Just you just get to know people. Pity party. Is an informal phrase for behavior where someone repeatedly emphasizes their own suffering victimhood or hardships. Sometimes in a way that shifts attention away from their own conduct or responsibility.

In the pattern we are describing today, family and friends could look like. Victim positioning portraying themselves as a person who was wronged. Deflection redirecting attention away from specific questions about their conduct. Sympathy seeking emphasizing how hurt mistreated or misunderstood they supposedly are. Responsibility shifting. Suggesting someone else caused the situation. Emotional diversion creating an emotional response that makes objective discussions more difficult. Public private contrast appearing sympathetic or vulnerable to outsiders while the underlying conduct remains disputed or documented differently. For formal documentation instead of writing they threw a pity party you could write.

The individual repeatedly redirected attention towards their own alleged victimization rather than addressing the specific conduct or evidence at issue. That describes the observable communication pattern without assuming their motives. Motives. Possible motives. That people sometimes attribute to this type of behavior could include avoiding accountability, shifting attention away from their own intentions or actions, controlling the narrative, influencing how others interpret events, protecting their reputation, maintaining a favorable public image, gaining sympathy and encouraging others to view them primarily as victim.

Shut up spells return to sender. Retaliation. Responding negativity or negativity to perceived rejection, criticism or loss of control. If someone says she left me with the kids and left me home again she's throwing me in the room. No actually officer. If you look at the records and the reports and the victim statement, any order of protection, I said what is said. I left because I was harmed. Besides they were unfaithful, had 10 million parties, never where where their phones says they were. Now we know the whole damn thing was a shit show all because they were suitors sent in to steal steal from me. So you can tell your fancy legal teams, dozens of them.

Well they are. And even the email you stole everything. What did I steal? Here's pictures of what they stole from me. Crickets. Retaliation responding negatively to perceived rejection, perceived, perceived rejection, then they project criticism or loss of control. Boy some of this goes way back. Now if you're married to somebody and they're still angry, whether they're first suit or inserted in your life, did somebody introduce you like Sylvia? You know I don't know. Or doing. And then that didn't work even after going on vacation. I guess they could take you out. They were supposed to. So maybe I think we went on a couple side little cruise events. Some used to call them booze cruise or fishing. Or maybe they had a boat. You know Minotalk is really nice.

Sleeping boats. Sleeper. Then you have some that live by islands or like them. Cabins, lake homes, vacation rentals or vacation properties. Or maybe those time shares. Maintaining influence, keeping other person's attention, dependence or uncertainty, discrediting another person, causing others to question that person's credibility. They flip the script on the judicial system too. Casting illusions. Is that probable cause or cause an effect obtaining an advantage socially, financially, professionally or legally? For a formal record, avoid stating an unproven motive as fact potential motive.

The individual's motive cannot be established solely by appearances or assumption. However, the documented sequence of events may be relevant to evaluation. Whether the conduct had the effect of shifting responsibility, controlling the narrative, seeking sympathy, protecting reputation, retaliation against another person, or influencing third party perception. Any conclusion regarding motive should be based on documented statements, actions, timing, communications and other independently verifiable evidence rather than speculation. That it x is a factual allegation that can potentially be documented. They did x because they wanted y. Is it claim about motive that generally requires additional evidence? That's what I say allegedly. Communication. That's what I like. Facetime. I can gather your face and do some time or if I hold your face enough in face time, I can do some spell work on you too.

Especially when you're on vacation and I can do spell work on you, maybe I was able to cause you an accident or a fall. Some devastation goes in alignment with years later with what they can achieve. Their task to achieve a goal with their packs that they made the suitors that were sent in new suitor, the other one didn't work out. Still trying to do things revenge. Communicate conduct. The communication patterns should be evaluated based on the context timing, context, content and consistency of the individual statement doesn't change if it's a fax. What'd you say? Oh, that's an addition to that makes sense actually. You were quite traumatized when you first came in. Now your brain is able to relax and I'm coming back to ask you.

I'm coming back to ask if you have anything further to say. Actually, I remember something driving this way, this road. Actually, in addition to this vehicle, the tailgate flew open. Really? That big rig? Well, it's a beautiful Cadillac. It just somehow flew open. I don't know. Do you think it was actually a defect? No. Now I don't know. Well, that could have been really dangerous. Exactly. Officer. Right. You don't have to tell me that. I know. I was petrified. Also had the kids in the car, including our dog. But I'm a good driver. I would never heard anybody on the road or anything in between. Are you going to write that down? Add it to the report or did I also call the Lewis, their family therapist and let them know how damn scary that was. Of course I did. Maybe they should see their therapist more often talk about truths, not fabrication.

Relevant conduct may include contradictory statements made to different people. Statements that differ from documented action. Repeated shifting of responsibility and blame or blame selected disclosure of information attempts to redirect conversations away from specific questions or evidence. Representing oneself as a concerned or supportive while making conflicting statements elsewhere repeatedly portraying oneself as victim, the victim, the only victim in the world, so dramatic. The worst events happen to that victim said victim, alleged victim, not even the victim. When concerns about their conduct are raised. Well, when concerns of about their conduct are raised, they retaliate in ways that you can't even believe dark magic, being full magic, voodoo, who to which crack, illusion spells. Well, heart attacks, spells, any kind of spell they need to achieve their goals.

Using third parties to communicate, relay information or influence perceptions, denying statements or events that are supported by contemporaneous records. I love that word. Changing explanations after contradictory, contradictory evidence is presented. I would have been a great attorney. Family law, well, quite boring. I've heard too many stories. In the end, I can actually solve it quicker. Maybe I'd be a good one. Listen here. I see. I already talked about that many times. If you need help, I probably could help you solve it quickly. Just a couple hours will figure it out. Again, I know somebody who could file a good paper for you could do it yourself, but I wouldn't trust the parties. The mail might not get delivered, depends on who's got revenge, but we could figure it out. File it, e-file it, pay the fine. You're good to go. Heal yourself before you get involved with somebody else. Make sure nobody's stocking. Maybe you need an order protection. We can figure it all out. You can send you somewhere. Good people can hunker down and get the job done. One and done. Perfect. Get her done.

Changing explanations after contradictory evidence is presented. Communications that appear intended to provoke, intimidate, embarrass, isolate, discredit, discredit, other person. Another person. Who would do that? Lots of people. Packs. Documentation standards. Preserve the original messages, emails, voice mail, screenshots, dates, timestamps, or recipients, and surrounding contexts. That's what they hack into your counts and uplift everything. They can mix it up and make it the monster match look really good. They can make it look really good. Really good. With AI technology, it's brilliancy. Causing lots of harm, though, if it's fabricated, timestamps or recipients, receipts, and surrounding contexts, separate what is actually said from interpretation of what the speaker may have intended. Exactly. You don't always know what happened. They wait till they're on the road and say something nice to you and you're still mad about what they did to you. Nobody knew you're trying to soak in the bath and maybe make the bruises not so purple or blue. Nobody knows what you were doing, right?

Or do they pens and what time frame we're talking about? Did they have digital surveillance and flawed cameras and where there's surveillance? You inside, I don't think there are smart TVs quite then, but you know, they can always put it in the vents of the lights or anywhere else in between, even a Kleenex box or your bra, you know, convenience for them. Harmony and balance and closing can be useful framework for describing the goal of healthy communication and conduct, especially when dealing with conflict. Harmony and balance. Hallelujah. Can't wait. I'm going to be so happy. That's my intention today. My relationship is going to be so beautifully beautifully blessed. Wonderful and harmonious laughter, fun, balanced laughter that I say. Good health and well, prosperity, a loving relationship where you never have to worry about people swaying or thinking the grass is greener.

It might be though that neighbor might have better grass. I can't. I don't know. I guess, yeah, grass is good. I mean, healthy grass. If you want to have the best grass, you probably would invest in that. Healthy communication seeks harmony without sacrificing truth and balance without sacrificing accountability. Harmony means creating space for respect. Communication, peace, dignity, compassion and understanding balance means allowing each person to be heard while discussing facts from assumptions, protecting appropriate boundaries and addressing harmful conduct when supported by evidence. Peace does not require silence about wrongdoing. Compassion does not require accepting mistreatment. Forgiveness does not eliminate accountability and seeking truth does not require abandoning humanity.

Forgiveness does not allow the family and friends in all actuality and with the law of pure potential, open your minds to all possibilities and allow yourself to receive everything. The law of divinity says within you is the same source that created the entire universe. The law of secondary, causation, stop reacting and start being the person you've always desired to be. And the law of non-appachment, let go, release and allow the miracles. That's what I am going to do. I intend to do and I will be doing. As no weapon formed against me shall prosper. God promises a life full of love to live it with prosperity, laugh, live and love.

We all came here to give and receive and learn our lessons. Build your Dharma and if you do have karma, it's okay. Just figure it out. Ask somebody what can I do? We can help you, those that know how to look into your life and if you are suffering, why? How can I fix it this lifetime? Because I have so many dreams and I want to manifest them. Well, here's what you can do, these simple steps. We'll get you there and realistically it might take you four months or five depending upon the time you can allocate or if you have a whole family or your family, maybe you all have karma to burn through. Resolve. Here's what you can do. Maybe you actually build a park for the kids to play in. Maybe you coach. Maybe you give your time, volunteer, you pick up the community. There's value and weight to everything.

Maybe you coach kids, maybe you become a mentor, maybe you take a foster puppy or child in, maybe you fix people's homes, maybe you are the gardener to the elderly. It all matters. Everything matters. And in the end, you will value what mattered. And you will remember the memories. You will know what love is, you will give and receive it and you will leave the world a better place. That's with great attention because you paid attention. May truth bring clarity, may justice restore balance, may wisdom guide communication and may peace prevail without compromising truth and amen.

Go and peace find your peace at peace fully. Find love. If you're not able to find love right now, what is the pain inside that is chasing you around and trying to get your attention? Release it and let it go. And you'll help great abundance here as above so below. And that's what we have to say to you. My ancestors and guides, universe, source, greater all that is. This is a life to be lived. And your journey is not only so you succeed, but so you can achieve all of your hopes and dreams. And that's divine. And we will say namaste ashe ahul, amen and own shantai. And so it is.

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