Men Are Refusing to Get Married!

0:00About 4,000 years maybe six Me and told their sons find yourself a nice chased woman Get married Have children Raise a family Be the best thing you ever did and when man did that other man celebrated them and held them up on their shoulders and For 6,000 years Every man told his son the same thing. There's a son got older son when you're gonna get married When you're gonna sell them down son family It's the best thing you could ever do And now for the first time there's a generation of men telling their sons don't do it Would you ever get married? Absolutely not not with the current marriage laws not with the current state of how men are treated in divorce court We all assets and stuff like that. I believe in having a family I do think you know if you want to have a family raised children you can do that But if you are a seven figure eight figure earner the odds are stacked against you that one day your partner can leave

1:04Take half your stuff even if you protect your assets. It's not the best decision I think keeping yourself protected is a much better decision than getting married Does that make sense for you as far as like why divorce is inherently more risky for men? I just feel like you're saying because women tend to be The person who initiates a divorce correct. That's why it's riskier for men But why do women tend to end divorces and at with successful men that have money They do all these things that women don't want to So yeah, yeah, so I could have been in love with the person at the moment But if that person is no longer treating me well just because we're married I have to say that's the point because he can't be a good husband So as a man if I marry you and you just say you know what he's not a guy thought he was anymore. I'm leaving You see how far stuff and maybe so you is there no So you married me right no, so once again, this is why you wanted to marry me You thought you loved me enough that it would be worth it to you to marry me

2:06And I stopped the show just basically admitted it with your own words why guys don't get married They found on the institution because it's damaged them so And it's because they married a class of women Who 80% of them 85% of them filed for divorce They destroyed their families, they destroyed their homes because it's become all about them And now these men who have been injured by these women are telling their sons don't do it As they say again, the juice isn't worth the squeeze Because at the end of the day, he's going to take everything you have And turn your children against you and the government is going to assist her in doing it This is the culture that you're in now is different from the one that my father was in Where you know those men stayed married 50 years

3:10I've heard the side there was the culture of the tombstone when the one tombstone being together with the wife's name And the husband's name already being engraved on them Who died first you put the, you already got the birth dates on them And then the first one dies you put the death date and the other one's name is right there beside it And then we die, they're going to be there together They know it When one dies, the other one just waits for them It stays gone And it's happening now not because so much of men, this has been because of women They're going, well, men, men doing this, this is the first generation of men that acted the fool You know, it's not It is the first generation of women that would not forgive men for acting the fool The first generation of women that wouldn't give for a parent to a man who acted the damn fool And who could leave, who would leave And say I don't care anything about what happens to the children and how they're treated or you know

4:11How they come out there, I don't care And so men are seeing what has happened these young boys have seen what's happened to their fathers And they've seen the women that their fathers were married to And they're seeing how their fathers were treated by these women And they're going up to their fathers and say hey dad, should I get married to dad, I said no, I didn't know I was going to be not to Only don't marry that girl It's going to mess up your life And if you do, you need to get a free nuptial agreement You can't trust her This is what's leading to this epidemic Men observing, men watching And so then you'll have these women who say well I want to get married, I want to get married and they don't, they say for what? Why?

5:13Most of you left your first husband and your second How did we turn this around? We have to get, it started when we allowed these levels to take over the public educational system and the arts But mostly public education And they started teaching our daughters to act like men and not act like wives I mean very, I don't know if they even have dolls If they sell dolls in these stores in a long room When I grew up, little girls had easy-bake ovens and they had dolls and wanted to be mothers And nobody got superhero toys I don't know if they got the little dolls that sucked the bottles and the little mama burper them and change their diaper like my sister's hand Every girl wants to be a mother, every woman wants to be a cowboy Or police officer We grew up dead in bottles of BB guns, we shooting at each other It's shooting stuff

6:15We had little cowboy hats and all kind of, we were just being boys And our daughters, our sisters were learning to be wives, we say all are But most of the young girls now know how to learn to be wives They learn to be men And two often kids stand and think house together And then if an alpha woman wears a beta male, she disrespects them And then you have a problem Now, when the last relationship you were submissive See, if women are submissive, you can't rewrite femininity to get your definition So a feminine woman can't be alpha? No No That your opinion? No, femininity is not alpha, it's soft And there is no such thing as an alpha woman, that's another thing you women It's just you trying to say Amazonian, that's another thing you, you might need to put your d**k up Not an alpha, the only reason you can do this is because mankind is civilized in the world in general You are a female

7:16That I am And if more you start acting in line with your nature, they're happier you would be To alpha female as well, I really need to learn to f**k me What is alpha female means? I'm working on just trying to soften up and be more fit What is alpha, what is alpha female mean though to you? I would love to feel secure, I would love to, for once in my life, to be able to just feel like I've never had a relationship where anyone made me feel that I didn't have to take some type of control That if things fell apart, that they would be successful Well because, because the masculine men do that won't tolerate your controlling ways I'm not controlling it, that's the thing Well, if this, whatever you call alpha, the men who are secure in attachment style, won't tolerate that There's an opportunity now for us to look at this problem and we have to ask one question And mothers have to start asking me the question

8:16Do I want my daughter to be married with a husband that will offer and take care of her and from her and protect her, for that part Or do I want her to be out here and I won't know I'm happy like most of you guys are now I mean women were, according to research, women were happier doing slavery than they are now Black women were happier doing Jim Crow area Come on now, doll Come on, man Let's back