Hanna & Luke: He Loved the Date… So Why Did He Ghost Her After the Check Arrived? 🍣💸

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3:00So did you feel like you were going to hear from him? Was the date good? No, no, it's so weird. Because he was texting me right after the date. Like, I was fine. We should do it again. And now, poof, absolutely nothing. Why don't you tell us about the date? Oh, okay. So here's the deal. We went out for sushi, which I love. I thought it was a super solid star. He even let me pick out the restaurant, which is cool. I didn't think that a guy who doesn't like raw fish would suggest sushi, but cool. We ended up ordering way too much food. It was time to invest. We were both just like cracking jokes about it. Especially when he nearly fell in a piece, especially me across the table. I'm trying to use the chopsticks. Yeah. It was cute. So afterwards, we went through a walk, which was really sweet. This chill, low-key, and it just felt like you were on the same wavelength, you know? Yeah, flinging sushi and, you know, sweet conversation.

4:04So why do you think you're doing ghosts with them? Oh, man. Honestly, I don't know. Because I thought it wouldn't really, really great. There was just like something about him. He was so funny, but maybe I messed up when I caged for dinner behind his back. But though it was just way more than we expected, and I had ordered a really fancy sake and a wagyu appetizer. We thought he was digging about it, and I felt bad. So when he got up to use the bathroom, I just went ahead and paid for the whole thing. So when he came back, I told him I wasn't a big deal. Nah, I'd marry you. That's sweet. That sounds like a reason to ghost you at all. Right. I mean, I can afford it. But he seemed like trying to irritate him. He kept saying, you know, I could have paid for that. And I tried to explain that it didn't mean anything. I just felt guilty for ordering the expensive stuff, unconsciously.

5:04But maybe he thought that I was implying that he couldn't afford it or something. But I didn't really need it like that. I was just trying to do something nice, but now I'm wondering if it came off totally wrong. Well, did he say thank you? Aside from the fact that he was like, I could pay for it too. Was he appreciative of it? No, he did. It just shifted the vibe a little bit. But not enough to, but we still were planning on hanging out again. We both had talked about how it was fun. So I don't know. Maybe it's one of those weird old school type of things, you know, where he feels like a guy's got to pay or something. Or maybe he didn't even have the option because you did it behind his back too. For whatever reason. Again, like Jules said, I would marry you. Right. I mean, a girl who can take care of herself. What's there not to like? Right. You need to date a new school dude who will use you for everything you're worth. You won't. Hannah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Luke. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

6:06and maybe get her another date. But first, Hannah, why don't you refresh our memory on your date? Okay. We went out for the super fun sushi day. But I ended up paying it again because I thought I'd order two expensive things. So I'm worried if that's why he disappeared. Okay. I mean, I don't know. I could see some guy being like, I don't want to go out with you again because he wouldn't let me pay. I could actually see that happening. Because he's probably like, if he's thinking like, okay, well, what do I have to bring to the table or like somehow feeling bad about it? I don't know. We'll see. Ready for us to call him. Oh, here we go. Okay. Here we go. Hello. Hi, man. Speak to Luke. Please. Hey, Luke, how are you? This is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. What's up? How are you? I'm sorry. It's like, it's like a prank or something. No, it's not actually. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

7:06I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No, it's not actually. We're calling you for a different reason. Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I just said an expectant to you to call me. Okay. Well, we're calling you today because you're ghosting somebody. And we do a second on the show called the first day follow-up you know where, if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would have emailed us about you? I am guessing this is about Hannah, right? Yes. We got to correct. Congratulations, Eve, one nothing so far. Are you ghosting her? I'm not like ghosting her intentionally. I don't know. The date was super fun. She's super cool. But it was, it was honestly, it was just something that happened after.

8:07Okay, so you are ghosting her intentionally. She said she texted you and you didn't call her back, so. Um, yeah, so here. Okay. Okay, but why? Yeah. Uh, so, uh, the deal is, uh, so, uh, you know, after a day, it was, it was really good. And, uh, my buddy Andrew, so I was telling him about it. And, uh, you know, staying, so she peaked for the meal and I, you know, behind my back and I don't know. I just sort of was kind of weird, so I'm telling him about it. And, uh, he actually see a picture of her and I showed him a picture. And he just started cracking up and, uh, it, uh, turns out that he went out with Hannah too. Okay. You don't want to call us because of that? No, no, no, no, no. It's not, it's not only that. And that she did like the same exact thing with him. Uh, big one to like a steakhouse and got all like this expensive stuff.

9:11And like behind his back, she paid without telling him. And, and then he was saying that like happened a bunch of times. And he said his words that by the end, he felt like she was treating him like some sort of boy toy that she could like, you know, control with her money. Oh, okay. And you don't want to be a boy toy. Is that what she's doing though? Or is that just, I mean, I don't know. I think it's like nice that she wants to treat you. Maybe not every single time. But do you think that she was making you feel like a boy toy at all? Luke, when you were out with her? I mean, I'm not going to like jump to that conclusion, but it just like it felt weird, you know? Like it's probably weird. Wow. Wow. So because I'm too generous, I'm getting ghosted. Okay, so we got a little bit. That's Hannah. Hannah's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, Hannah.

10:11Hey, how are you doing? Oh, hi, Luke. I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was making you feel like my personal sugar baby. Seriously, look. No, obviously I had no idea that Andrew was your friend. Also, Andrew seems like super okay with the fact that I was paying for a lot of things. I have a nice job. He seems grateful. This is, this is me. I mean, yeah. That's Andrew. Of course, you're buying something, but it just like sounded like a pattern. And I don't know. I didn't want to get wrapped up in this hole. You're paying for everything. And I'm just along for the ride thing. I mean, that sounded at all. I'm just trying to not seem like a money-grubbing woman myself. I have a nice job. So I wanted to get what I wanted to get without feeling guilty.

11:12So what? Isn't that a nice thing that I could take care of myself? Yeah, but I mean, like, you know, I could take care of myself too. And it just feels weird that you're just paying for everything. I don't know what just, but it feels really weird. And I don't, I don't know. It just like you do it behind my back. Cool game. Well, that's fine. I'll find somebody who's hot and proud to be with the woman who can also take care of them. But wait, Hannah, what is it about paying for your men every time you go out with them? That's like so important to you. Like, what is it about paying behind their back and like doing it every time that you like? I'm not doing it every time. I just don't want to feel like I'm beholden to a man because I want really nice things. And I'm not expecting anybody to pay for that when they don't really know me yet, you know? But you know, everything is so weird that you're just thinking I'm going to be beholden. I don't want. Honestly, you're just missing out. You didn't even get to the part where I'd buy you clothes yet, you know?

12:16I want like a man. I want a man who adores me and it's secure enough to, you know, be okay with that. I mean, I could buy my own clothes. This is easy to buy my own clothes. Thank you. Thank you so much. I can't do this. Well, I mean, you can really, really use a stylist and clothes because, man, that outfit was not really impressive to me. I'm trying to impress someone who gets scared off by a little generosity. Well, Luke, would you like another date with Hannah? We'll pay for it. I didn't even need it. That's true. We shouldn't pay for it. I don't think I could, you know, I guess, survive a whole wardrobe overhaul to, you know, to afford a pretty woman mate. So I don't think so. All right. Well, no hard feelings, though. Good luck finding someone who won't spoil you too much. Okay, baby boy. Oh, man.

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