First Date Follow Up: He Thought His First Date Was PERFECT… Then She Called Him “Dumb”

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4:05Visit Lincoln dot com to learn more. Jackson is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Ferris. So in a few minutes, we're going to call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first Jackson, how long has it been since you heard from Farah? Oh, man, it's been like a few weeks. How have you reached out? It's hard. Oh, you have been texting her. Yeah, I've been texting her. I just. This doesn't normally happen to me. So I'm just kind of like, don't get ghosted often. Now it's one of those things almost where it's like, you know, when you can't have something you want to even more. All right. Okay, it happens for me. So I don't know why. Did you want her when you thought you could have her? Like how is the date? I kind of think it was it was pretty damn perfect. Like I don't I don't really know what else should have gone better. You know, so we were doing the whole thing, you know, apps texting blah, blah, blah. And then finally came time for a face to face and she suggested this coffee shop.

5:06You know, the safe coffee date. We'll see how it goes and it went really well. That a time in common. You know, we were talking sports. We were talking cars. I'm pretty big fan of cars. So it went well. And then, you know, with that was kind of like, all right, coffee went well. Maybe let's roll this into a happy hour and then dinner and just kept on going. Like went to some really, really cool like swanky spots. And then the date was over. We we had a. I'll say a very nice kiss. If you had a nice kiss, what did she say after it? Was she like, Oh, I can't wait to see you again? Yeah, I mean, yeah, you know, no, I'm like hyper analyzing it. Like, okay, what exactly did she say? But she was like, I was like, yeah, we should like definitely do this again. And she's like, yeah, I was kind of trying to pin her down. I was like, okay, like when, you know, hey, you for the next like Friday. And she's like, yeah, I might be.

6:06Let me know. So you know, it's like, I don't know. I don't know. But I don't think it was kind of weird, but I don't I thought it went really well. Did anything weird happen on the date like awkward? Yeah, I've been ported over it. I mean, like you only say, so I again, I like cars. I drive like this. Really is pretty sweet. This vintage alpha Romeo. And she kept on getting frustrated because she had this really nice green dress on it. He kept on getting caught. When she was getting the door and, you know, it's going someplace to play coffee going to happy. I were going to dinner and it just kept on. Like I kind of snapped at her because she kept on touching things too. So those are the only things that like I can really like not like not snapping. But you know, she was, you know, picking at this thing on the dashboard. And I just got that thing refinished and part of the money on it. So I just was like, well, you go like chill. I mean, that could do it. It depends how you snapped, you know, yeah. That sounds like it could have definitely been a turning point. Maybe, maybe, but I don't know.

7:08Come on. Jackson is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ferris. So we're about to call her. She should tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Jackson, why don't you remind everybody about your date with Ferris? Yeah, we went to a, went to this really cute coffee shop. We were talking cars. We were talking sports. We were talking jobs. You know, she's super successful. I'm super successful. Like it just everything seemed to align. And then we went into happy hour. Then we went into dinner. I was driving her in my car and this is nice vintage Alfa Romeo. And yeah, I don't know. I mean, we had a great kiss at the end of the night, but I did kind of snap at her. Kissing his tongue. Fiddling with my car, which I can't. But other than that, like it was, it was great. I thought for sure, I thought for sure this was second. There's definitely going to be a second date. I forgot to ask you this in the first part. Is that snap at her towards the end or earlier on in the date? It was kind of towards the end.

8:08Okay, towards the end. Okay. All right. Here we go. Hello. Hi, Mr. Ferra, please. This is she. Hey, Ferra, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from Radio Show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Ferra. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. Hi, have you ever listened to the show before? I have. What is this all? We're calling because we got an email about you. About me? Yes. Okay. We do a segment on a show called the first date follow up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from someone who you've been out with and now you're not talking to. Oh, no. Oh, yeah. I'm going to say like, who do you think it is? I think I remember was the name Jackson. Yes, Ferra.

9:08It is Jackson. He told us about your date and he's curious where you're ghosting him. I mean, so the date was fine, but after marinating on it and like how everything went to be quite honest, like he's a little bit dumb. Oh. Yeah. All he talks about was his car and which is fine, but then I thought maybe we could have more of an intellectual conversation, but that just didn't happen. And what really intrigued me about his dating profile and his dating app and whatnot was on his profile. He had pictures of himself with books and he looked like he was really well educated and I thought, great, we can have a conversation about our favorite authors, what reading. And it was like he couldn't even name a block. And it seemed like he had ever even read before. Yeah. Just like the way he pronounced some things on the menu, I was like, oh.

10:12And he's a nice kid. He does have a nice car, but I just feel like his quote unquote, success is just things that he's purchased. Like he hasn't worked for it or earned. Like, I am my own startup career. I'm working hard for it. And it just sort of seems like things are handed to him. And there was definitely a disconnect on that aspect. Did you feel that way the entire day? Because he did mention that you guys were in three different locations. Yeah. So we started off at the coffee shop and then we decided, okay, it's going really well. We'll do happy hour dinner and everything. And I guessed during the happy hour dinner is when I really started to think, okay, maybe this isn't going to work. Because coffee I gave the benefit of the doubt. We're just meeting face to face for the first time. It should be, you know, we're both a little bit nervous. But then when he's like got a little snippy with me in the car, I was like, oh, that's a little jarring. So I mean, yeah, it was, I don't think it's a thing.

11:17Would you like to be sure? What do you mean? Well, what I mean by that is Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Sarah. Oh. Oh. Hi. Hey, how are you going? I'm doing really well. How are you? I am dumbfounded. Bye. Everything I deterred. You heard everything? I am. I mean it. I'm sorry, that's harsh. But if you wanted to know the reason why I go to you, that's really the honest truth. Well, I mean, you know, I'm a big boy. Yeah, I get paid the big bucks for a reason. Like you can just tell me these things. You don't have to just like not text me back for two weeks. I mean, I'm busy with my company and just I'm going and everything.

12:17Oh, are you? Yeah, I work very hard. Like I showed you a picture in my house. Like that isn't safe for itself. That's like, are you sure that's not your parents house? No, that's not my parents house. Yeah, that's mine. I mean, that's the point. You base your success on your material things. Things that like you could just purchase. Yeah, well, I mean, how else do you measure it? I mean, I can put a hand on my house like what? Like what else do you even measure success by? Yeah, I mean, it goes deeper than that. Okay. So if the not houses like I look at the zeros in my bank account and I feel pretty darn good about that. I mean, it goes deeper Jackson, then material objects. Like you don't just base success off of that. Yeah, I travel though. You know, I'm like, my buddies were on the yacht and like the Mediterranean.

13:19It was amazing. I genuinely, I do not know what you're talking about. That's just it Jackson. You just mentioned the yacht in the Mediterranean. You're not getting it. All right. Like fine. I've been on a yacht in the Caribbean when snorkeling and scuba diving for like three weeks last month in, you know, in Australia. Like I don't know what else do you want? I think you need to take a yacht to the bring me to triangle and not come back. Whoa. Whoa. Well, now that you said that fair, would you like another day with Jackson? We'll pay for it. And you know what? I'm going to pass on that second date. However, I do have a friend that I feel like he would click with because they have the same type of delusions. So I feel like they would get along just great. I'll take it. Okay. Successful first day follow up. You guys can text each other and work that out. Big nicotine doesn't need to test on lab rats.

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