Embrace Your Authentic Self: Life Lessons from Fierce Manson Episode #2444

0:00You You know Welcome welcome welcome to the fierce female network

1:00I'm your host fierce mess and at today is Saturday Saturday Saturday Saturday Saturday Saturday Saturday play pre wasn't y'all it is strawberries and cream Saturday It's strawberries and cream. Let me tell y'all guess what I am so happy I'm so happy. I'm gonna tell you in a minute. It's strawberry and cream Saturday I know you probably said what you mean strawberries and cream wasn't y'all y'all know me I haven't said this in a while, but I'm gonna say it on today Every day is a champagne day every day is a champagne day. Listen y'all believe in champagne every day It's a champagne day. It does not mean you falling down drunk every day That is not what I'm talking about every day is a champagne means it is a special day It's a great day. It's a fabulous day and listen if you wouldn't meet you best to know it's a champagne day Baby, so listen listen. Let me get back to the real it is strawberries and cream strawberries and cream Saturday

2:00Y'all I'm happy. Listen. I'm gonna tell you I real quick while I'm having y'all I was just I had a real bad case of the flu guess I did and it wasn't playing no games with me It was whipping my tail up and down all over the place. Well, listen listen listen listen It is strawberry and cream Saturday. I'm so glad to be back and Full force y'all I know I was doing shows, but show you show was not you know full force me But listen, you got full force fierce mess and up in here today Strawberry and cream so this I got a life lesson for yes, well, I really do I got a life It feels good to be back to your normal set. You know that flu ain't no joke y'all I was throwing up a two days. I'm throwing up a two days my gosh. My gosh, so if you hear me come You know what's on the right of y'all. So listen, it's champagne is Saturday strawberries and cream is Saturday y'all It's February 7, 20, 26 it's 7 p.m. Oh, it's interesting times on the 8 p.m. Oh, and eastern set of times on

3:05Y'all know what I'm gonna say the eastern set of times on is the times on there rocks my socks up honey I always got to push it up to the ATL to my home team must give shout out to my team fierce nation international the My mother always talk about my mother. She always talk about me because I love me some africans I think I really love me some africans, so that's why y'all hear me talk about the international team Well listen, let me get on down to the life lesson You guys on the certified life coach Right trained by dr. Monique Caradine who was an on air personality at Fox 32 news He's no longer there. So listen to life lessons really easy and simple Give me one second hit come on. I guess the I want to be confident y'all ears. So listen listen life lessons real easy Who is knocking at your door? Who is knocking at your door? And what I mean is What destiny is knocking at your door life is knocking at your door?

4:08Listen, I want y'all to open the door. I want y'all to answer the call of destiny Ignore what other folks is saying because it really don't matter It don't matter what other people is talking about what they saying. It don't matter what they think and It don't matter what they think and listen. I always use myself. You know as an example Use myself as an example. I love to live in Georgia. Now just just go ahead and just go ahead Don't read so much cargo because my people, but listen, I love to live in Georgia Y'all know what know why because when I'm in Marietta if I'm whatever part of Georgia I can be the real authentic me. I be myself because that's what you know what? I'm not like most folks. You know what I mean? I love to wear my hair all different coats I love burgeoning and I have it whipped in the back having cut and I got the shit same Designs and I love it. I come up here. My folks ain't used to seeing me like that. They'd be like You know

5:08You know and I can't take all that. I can't take all that so when I come up here I got the dialed back and dialed down because they just don't understand So but they don't get used to it. They don't get used to it because I'm gonna pop out on them because I got to go to the hair So long and get my hair done and get my disaster well like cuz I can't I can't keep you know walking around looking like I'm somebody else I look like I'm hiding from Mr. Bagu. You know what I mean? I'm getting a little tired of that So so you know you know what I mean? They just gonna have to look at me all kind of crazy fun because they Not used to seeing that I got to be the real me. You know what I mean? They're not used to the loud They're not used to the funny. They're not used to all the different haircuts and got different colors in the front But it's just me baby. So so listen I'm tired of dialing it down. So listen listen They just gonna have to get used to it. When I'm at home in Marietta and you know, I can do whatever I can do me be authentic be original cuz you know what cuz I feel good You don't feel good being somebody else because that's uncomfortable. You hear what I'm talking about

6:11So let me tell you something Who that's why I'm talking about who is knocking on your heart who's knocking at your heart? When Destiny is knocking on your heart You got to ask for the door. You don't you get tired of folks trying to tell you who and what you can be and what you can't be You don't want so listen. I'm gonna say there's something that got to move on to the music. Let me tell you something I was ordained and licensed as a minister so many years. I'm 62 But I act like I'm 42. That's why I need a man that's 32 that's going on 42 You hear what I'm saying they can y'all catch that. So listen, let me tell you something You I cannot stand when somebody got attitudes about who I am and what God called me to do with me I've got an issue with that. Let me tell y'all something. I would get papers. I get certification ordination all kind of papers because I've been You know called by the one upstairs to do what I do and you don't want somebody else got a problem with that That doesn't really ruse me the wrong way cuz guess what you know what I'm saying

7:11You know since when the God move not I'm giving a life lesson, right? I'm giving a life lesson so y'all understand Since when do God have to share his seat with somebody else? That's what gets me Listen if you are born to be an artist and paint pictures and you're gifted and talented that and somebody comes along and say Well, that picture looks wrong. You you can't do that You need to go somewhere and be a mathematician. Well God didn't call you to be a mathematician He called you and you know to be an artist cuz that's your gift that's your talent I'm trying to figure out since when is God sharing his seat with somebody else That's when I'm trying to figure out God don't need no help being God He thought what he don't want when he put gifts and towels and folks. That's what he wants you to do So listen God to say I'm gonna schooled over and you sit on the upside of this thing cuz I need some help directing the traffic up here Since when do God need help directing traffic in heaven he ain't directing angels and then he say okay You come on help me direct these aim that that ain't where they go. So listen

8:16You be you right you be your authentic self You be who you are it doesn't matter what other folks think and don't matter what they say and and this is the thing y'all This thing I'm gonna play the music. I'm gonna play the music You know it feels good to be back, you know without really covering up my lungs and throwing up So I'm really happy. I'm really happy You know that's some rough stuff when you've been throwing up for two days gave no food for a whole week That's some rough stuff. So listen, let me tell you something Be you y'all I get so tired of people judging other folks That's really the life lesson stop judging people I can't stand people that's judging other folks just because they look different You got that y'all they don't look right. What kind of outfit that's what people do? What kind of outfit is that what they got on their hand what they got on their feet? Well, did you buy their clothes? Did you buy these shoes people got their own self expression now? I'm the kind of person. I enjoy tattoos. I love tattoos. I love to talk about tattoos

9:21You know what I mean? I got them and love them. You know what I'm talking about So listen don't look at me like I'm a monster from a whole different planet just because I got tattoos and up and down my arm And I can't wait to go get my tattoo on my back So listen listen and don't mean you go in the hell Because you got a tattoo people really need to read the word of God from the front to the back understand what it's talking about Just because you have a tattoo that does not mean that you're going to hell that is not what that script There's a scripture in the Bible in the Old Testament and people get that scripture all twisted up Thinking that it means you're not supposed to have markings on the body And God didn't say nowhere that he's going to put you in flames of hell because you got a tattoo Lord it just really it just really gets me so oh my goodness. I got to clap my hands on that one So listen listen I got some great music on today. I got some great music Woo did y'all get the life lesson just in case y'all missed it The life lesson is this who is knocking on your door answer the call of destiny

10:26Answer the call of who you are supposed to be don't be afraid of who you are called to be God made you he made you an original right he made you only one copy nobody else can be that's just why This is why love say bye. Let me say this. That's why love say bye when we were coming up with my tagline for fierce Manson And he had he does the song y'all hear him everything I do show every time I do a show He's the one that's singing say mine works all over the place. He works with talented artists He works with people that celebs. He just got another deal um Working with I think BET. Oh, what's the girl and he's doing something with BET He's just signing another contract. He does it all time. Don't surprise me. You know, it's it doesn't surprise me So listen listen listen say mine He sings the opening to their show And he came up with the tagline. He says there's only one fierce and he says over and over and over and over again I'm sorry not on this show. He did the tagline for uh the show when we did

11:31Uh channel 62 channel 62 when it was uh we did fight for the family that was all over the place in Chicago Illinois and Dallas and a lot of different other states and he did the tagline for Fight for the family and at the end and at the beginning He says there's only one fear says only one fear says only one fierce and that's true There's only one fierce and there's only one you the point of making this there's only one you nobody can do what you do Nobody can paint like you paint Nobody can give a public speech like you can nobody can be Tony Robbins, but Tony Robbins, right? Nobody can be offered but open You know if somebody come long trying to do what Oprah do is some really wrong with them Nobody can be gay okay. Nobody can do what other folks do and show them nobody can be judge to the I'm just trying to tell you there's only one of each person that's on the planet Can't nobody copy you can nobody walk like you listen And I'm not trying to do it and blow my own horn You know people always say I got a certain wall. I got a certain wall. I'm going to church and get them going to the bar

12:34I never forget this Then I'm gonna play the music We want to turn me my auntie my aunt. We went to church. I had to go to bathroom The church was full of folks. I don't know about maybe 300 folks of pictures about 300 people. I said I got to go to the bathroom. We'll get up I get up. I go to the bathroom and I come back and after church is old. She said agent She said girl when you got up and went to the bathroom all eyes was on your hips. I said She said maybe you got a twist in them hips. I just want to quit I said get on out of here. Get on out of here And I say go on, go on, go on. We just walk it on. It's just I'm serious. I just I'm telling you to go ahead and truth Everybody eyes will just stay with their show here Now I ain't got no big movie none of that But it's just the way that my hips swirl when I'm walking so listen. I'm not making that up really not now The song that's coming up. It's called miss you miss you now. Let me tell you something about this song This song is called miss you. It's made by independent artist sharp S-H-A-R S-H-A-R sharp and it's featuring an African young man his name is do me

13:38D-U-M-E D-U-M I'm sorry let me say it again. D-U-M-I Do me. D-U-M-I really nice song. It's called miss you y'all check this out. This is miss you You had a fight. You had a knee. I told you there was no one I was dumb, I'm cold, I'm sober, I'm sober Now I'm alone, I'm alone, I'm alone Trying to not touch my bum, trying to not touch the screen show I'm alone, I'm really alone I keep thinking about you baby, you know it's making me crazy, baby, you know Don't want you back, but I miss you

14:40You got my mind body and soul, baby, you know When it comes to my toes, I can be near it, don't want you back, but I miss you You, you, you, you You had a fight, the other night, you told me it was over I was no grown over, it's over You broke my heart, I said it on fire, you're the only one that I desire You're the only one that I get tired, I'm over you, but I keep thinking about you baby, you know it's making me crazy, baby, I don't want you back, but I miss you You, you got my mind body and soul, baby, right, once you're my toes, baby, I don't want you back, but I miss you

16:09You know it's been kinda hard, play, play, play Because you're the one that's acting all crazy, crazy, but I keep thinking about you baby, you know it's making me crazy, baby, I don't want you back, but I miss you I'll miss you You'll come back my body and soul Baby, baby Brought me back to my toes, baby Baby, baby I don't want you back But I miss you Miss you You got my mind and soul Baby, baby I'm not too tall, baby Baby, I don't want you back But I miss you

17:09I miss you Baby, baby I'm not too tall, baby I'm not too tall, baby Oh, I liked it, I liked that song That is miss you Now, just in case y'all didn't catch it What they're saying is I miss you I don't want you back, but I miss you You know you have been in a relationship where you know it was my up and down You know and you break up. You don't want that person back, but you still miss them You know what I mean? I was thinking trying to think of a I'm trying I don't know if I've ever dated somebody where I broke up with them. I miss them and I Don't want them back, but I still miss I can't really think of nobody off hand And usually I can think of one individual gentleman that fits pretty much every song that I Ain't here, but I can't think of one for this one where I broke up with somebody

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20:24Hey Yeah, I'm not from your block Now I've got it all on lock Yeah, like rust one night Hey, shimmy, shimmy, quarter turn. Hello, good bye. Sorry to the guy. They lucky if they get a reclap I need a senior reader who says oh like a fajita or a leader who ain't universal pictures like look at us They love my demeanor premium proper. There's no one came us to eager for it. All I want the ball like receivers It's up for the taking my face and phone these thoughts in the making please put on close caps I want you to see what I'm saying like I made a cameo. This is the single life and if you trying to come for me You better think it twice. You know the ones that came before you had to be the night They wasn't trying to pay the price of nights on the rise. Well, I guess it don't matter cuz y'all ain't qualified They were looking for greatness. I'm a personified. Welcome to the take-off. I'll be your tour guide And if you still doubt me, we're like the world of fire Chacha with me when you slide See I hate a point of mouth pressure applied Slice them up or let it go let them decide. I'm about that action. You know where I reside

21:25Chacha with me when you slide see I hate a point of mouth pressure applied Slice them up or let it go let them decide. I'm about that action. You know where I reside Papa right you trying to spot me everywhere like downmations. Don't need publications. I'm known on first name basis Go ahead and pull out hiatus. This conquer gon be outrageous if you're trying to stick around You'll be remembered courageous. I'm begging you to amaze us give us something we haven't seen or something We haven't heard or something out the routine. Just keeping it up in y'all ain't got what it ain't pretty faces with K Please get a rap in a brave before I'm on that gutted stud light little C I may be suburban, but I still know how to clear scenes. I'm gonna have to intervene is pick and roll need a screen Oh, I'm skipping through the lane one on one twin twin finish with the right That's my strong side what you mean, and of course you five in the end one with a screen doing this for my team We deserve the best y'all can offer. I'm just telling our story and we got got us the author Chacha with me when you slide. See a hit a point of mouth pressure up. Yeah, slide them up or let it go. Let them decide I'm about that action. You know where I reside

22:26Chacha with me when you slide see a hit a point of mouth pressure up. Yeah, slide them up or let it go. Let them decide I'm about that action. You know where I reside like a goalie. I'm a keeper. Don't know me what nights to meet you It won't be too long until you're asking for a feature procedure for non-believer successes that greatest teacher I'm the class speaker. They get my lessons from the bleachers. Of course it's been amazing chipping at y'all foundations They were already right. Yeah, I added steps to make it crazy. Not the same for them But I'ma show you trell blazing this tap that I'm on. It's only lit because I paced it Hit the scene like skinny jeans popping out. No way your girl's throwing demand is duplicates for the way They got my songs on replay like there's something new that I say when really I'm cooking up and it's gonna be Bobby play Rachel race off baby in the off day to day the rest of people their demands is just a pinch of my face comfortable In any case any space or to say they don't bother me cuz I ain't sure I'm here to come play Chacha with me when you slide see a hit a point of mouth pressure up live Slide them up or let it go let them decide. I'm about that action. You know where I reside

23:27Chacha with me when you slide see a hit a point of mouth pressure up live Slide them up or let it go let them decide. I'm about that action. You know where I reside All right. All right. All right. It's like a hook two three four come on. Give me some old hook two three four Come on. Shut the door. Hurt two one two three four. Come on. Sit down. Come on. Sit down. Come on now. Listen. Listen. I feel like Spoken worker. I'm like a hook two one two three four Whose destiny are you waiting for come on listen y'all listen you better wake up somebody listen Not get your own though baby. It's like one two three four. You got to come for your own destiny Can't nobody stepping your destiny, but you come on come on come on You got to have a speech shine on your forehead one two three four You guys to get down. Well who you are cuz can nobody do you but you come on come on You got to step into your death. It is time. It is time time time time. Let's look at it. Get it up out of here. It's been a stone

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