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A lot of us start this journey terrified of what mom, dad, friends, or coworkers will think. And yeah that fear is real.
But here’s what I’ve seen after years in this lifestyle and talking to hundreds of you in my DMs and at events:
Sometimes the biggest wall isn’t the vanilla world.
Sometimes the biggest wall is the age play community itself.
You finally find the courage to put on that diaper, to regress, to let that little side breathe… and then you step into the online groups, the Discord servers, the munches, the cons… and suddenly there’s a whole new set of rules.
“You’re not little enough.”
“You're not the right body type
“You’re too old/too young/too femme/too masc.”
“Your dynamic isn’t ‘real’ age play.”
“You’re not submissive enough… or you’re too submissive.
“You’re a mommy? But you’re not my type of mommy.”
And the worst part? These voices start living in your head louder than your own. You start second-guessing your own happiness. You start performing for othera instead of living for you.
You forget that you have dreams or that you don' need permission to be the true you. However you learn over time that you get to live your truth, and you deserve long term mental health in the ABDL community.
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