
359: Holy Betrayal: When Men Betray Patriarchal Privilege
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In this episode Valerie is the guest on the podcast Black & White & Gold hosted by Carly and Rob Allred where they engage in a compelling conversation on gender and faith.
Valerie is becoming the prominent voice for the LDS Church advocating for educating men around the harms of patriarchal indoctrination on male development. This work is yielding good results as more and more LDS men are becoming feminists in their own right and are declining traditional attitudes and roles of male privilege while speaking up for the equality needed to create a truly healthy community.
Tune in to hear a narrative that merges deep love for tradition with a call for transformative change.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to Self-Trust and Patriarchal Systems
00:42 Exploring Patriarchy in Season Three
01:29 Defining Patriarchy and Its Impact
03:08 Introducing Valerie Hamaker
03:35 Valerie Hamaker's Background and Work
06:34 Challenges and Resignation from the LDS Church
09:06 The Aftermath and Community Support
12:21 Understanding Patriarchal and Dominator Models
23:37 The Harmful Effects of Patriarchy on Men
24:13 Personal Experiences with Patriarchy
25:33 The Impact of Patriarchy on Men
28:52 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energies
32:04 Patriarchy and Gender Norms
34:57 The Fragility of Patriarchal Structures
40:55 Hope for Egalitarianism in Church Structures
46:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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