
094 - My Three-Year-Old Can't Read: Is This Normal or Should I Be Worried? with Teacher Tasha Mendoza
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In this episode, Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco and Teacher Tasha Mendoza tackle a common concern for parents: What if my child isn’t reading by age three? (Or age four or five?)
They discuss the undue pressure placed on parents, why early reading isn’t always developmentally appropriate, and how to focus on holistic growth instead.
Key takeaways:
- Reading milestones typically develop around ages 5–7.
- Language, play and social-emotional development in early childhood are more critical than academic skills.
- Forcing reading too early can lead to frustration and aversion to learning.
- Advocate for developmentally appropriate practices in schools.
Resources Mentioned:
- Learning by Heart: Teach Your Child to Read Stress-Free by Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco and Teacher Tasha Mendoza
- Toddler Talking: Boost Your Child's Language and Brain Development in Three Easy Steps by Dr. Victoria Ang-Nolasco
- CDC Milestone Tracker App
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