Your Ex Lover and Your Next Lover

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1:01will provide solutions to relationship and ministerial problems. There is a battle between your next lover and your ex lover. See if you do not forgive yourself and forgive your ex lover you will bleed on your next lover. Your next lover is going to suffer it. Once you will come to understand individual differences will never strive in a place of relationship. Because a man from the particular national team hotsheet doesn't mean that all men in that country you must come to understand that whatever your ex lover team is only limited to what he knew how to do best

2:01and sometimes you hear your ex lover that your thing is an oppressor is actually a victim of his own ignorance and victim of wrong thoughts and advices. So here I am advocating for you and advocating for your ex lover because if you really look into the mountain he's not as bad or she's not as bad as you think they are. Am I saying wrong back to ex lover that is toxic that's not what I'm saying what I'm trying to let you to understand is just that you are as much as a victim as he or she is our battles are different our struggles are different all because you are stronger in the area your ex lover was weak doesn't mean you are better than him because he's also strong in areas you are weak so because a relationship filled based on the area of his weakness

3:05are not the area of your weakness does not mean that you are better than your ex we need to understand this because this issue of how this somebody is better than you I don't get it doesn't make any sense many people end up dating someone they don't keep on love just because they want to prove the point to their ex that they can't do without him or her it doesn't make any sense you've got to forgive your ex lover because they are humans whatever they did let a victim of their ignorance a victim of wrong consult a victim of an attitude that refused or not or got a walker haven't said that you must forgive yourself you must forgive your ex lover someone asked me how would I know for giving my ex lover I said it is when you are taught

4:07or the name comes to your mind and you're not bitter anymore when their thoughts come to your mind and it doesn't change your mood if I leave you cannot successfully pray for your ex lover for God to help him or her to become all God more than to do than you are not a disciple of Jesus but I will say this is it pray for those who despite for the person the true test that you a disciple of Jesus if you can't pray for those that hurt you yes you can't pray for those that hurt you that's why Jesus showed some example on the cross but I forgive them for the love that they do and the ability of praying and for keeping those that hurt you you're not doing them if you want to do yourself a favor because we thought that you

5:09are not doing a problem and become the problem and now I want you to be because the result is the constant in life is the bitterness of the unforgiveness in your heart more like drunk in a poison and expecting someone else to cry so having established the fact that your ex lover is a victim as you are in the situation then that brings you to a place to understand that not to judge and compare your next lover reaching ex lover yes your next lover is not your ex lover he's a total different person or she's a total different person don't use what Mr Alex did to George Mr. Philippe and don't use what Sharon did to joy to to judge Beatrice don't do that all men are not the same they may be the same in gender but they are not

6:14the same in terms of destiny and opposite of life and the moment we begin to respect individual differences it becomes easy for us to navigate a healthy relationship remember we are still talking about the battle between ex lover and your next lover so you were useful to your ex lover financially and it took advantage of you now you are in a new relationship and you don't want a dime of your money to enter his hand you are a good mentor to the lady that you did that so keep on granted now you you're with a lady now you don't want to invest into her intellectual aspiration now that's that because the same thing that your ex lover took for granted might be the same team your next lover will need to gain breakthrough don't be told yourself from being useful

7:18in your next relationship because of what happened in your previous relationship don't do that the battle between ex lover and your next lover is you've been able to play the role of what wants you to play in your next lover's life in respect of what your ex lover did to him there's a decision of me at a long time ago that nobody can change me or change my good heart in respect of what they do to me i believe that a greatest insult is allowing what someone else did to go allowing somebody's attitude and words and decisions to change my good confession my good heart no i cannot insult my destiny that way neither should you people say man's mix man to be wicked but that is not true you are wicked because you're just oh yes you're not ready for destiny yet if you use other people's attitude or words to

8:27your honest views while you are so good pompous proud defensive toxic oh yes you're still you're not ready for your destiny yet so the battle between your next lover and ex lover is that you have to hear your next lover should make up to watch your ex lover broke no don't put the demand for your next lover to fulfill what your ex lover refused to fulfill don't do that it's not healthy it's not good for you it's not the will of God it's not how it's supposed to function and here is it even do that and even do that are currently in a relationship your partner your partner is struggling seriously because what you're expecting from them they don't have to offer you can you patiently access yourself does in a relationship can you patiently

9:29access yourself that aside me wanting this man or this lady to make up to what my ex lover what do my lover process that I need what is a tragedy has to how can I enjoy the vision to not let the pain blind you the pain of the past to blind you from the miracle that is in front of you and be it in mind that this lady also the journey relationship with all this man the journey relationship with all that you will be in relationship with also his coming he or she is coming from another relationship with pain so you're not the only one that is being messed up so you need to have some empathy and compassion here matter eleven to these Jesus come on to know you that the vulnerability will now give you

10:34rest yeah that's what the world says so don't allow humans to try to fix what Jesus and don't fix don't don't try that last night we have got that's not what we have got so let go don't be too hard yourself from being useful don't do what you did now simply because of how you ex lover to do something for granted don't you know this man and all this lady from her he is innocent he wasn't there he did that why is he ex lover to do so why should he she so far from it it shouldn't be

11:36this is the best I want to share with you in this episode how come today again in the next episode and remember you can trust again you can love again you can dream again in this possible of purpose and love remember if you fear or if you succeed is error your fault or your choice please