(Men of Godly Value) BECOMING THE HUSBAND.

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1:06How do we really become the husband? This is the worst of our postal prince Victor Matthew. I provide solutions to relationship and ministerial problems. Hear me my brother. Marriage does not begin at the altar. Marriage begins with the man God is forming before the woman arrives. Okay, so the husband you become tomorrow is being developed by the decisions you are making today. The real question is not when will I find my wife? No, the real question is what kind of husband I might be coming because you have to become husband before you want to ask the lady out and she needs to become a wife before you find her. Let us discuss this again. A husband is first a leader not because it's more valuable than his wife but because God gave him responsibility for direction leadership means knowing what God has called you to build and having the courage to pursue it.

2:10So can you make decisions without becoming controlling? Can you listing without abandoning conventions? Can you lead without remaining? Can you lead while remaining humble? Can you becoming a husband you must first become a leader. A husband is a cultivator. Genesis presented the man in the garden, walking and keeping what God entrusted to him. There is a prophetic lesson here. Men are called to cultivate. You should cultivate your character, your marriage, your wife's gift, your children's potential, your resources and your spiritual environment because what grows around you is a representation of who you are. So my question is what grows because you are around you? What grows around you because you are present?

3:11What tension? What? My brother, you must become a protector. A husband is a protector. Your wife should not constantly or constantly have to defend herself from the man she supports. The man that is supposed to protect her, she should be defending herself. Protection includes emotional safety, physical safety, spiritual dissonment and the preservation of family values. Yes, so can your strength become a shelter instead of a threat to this woman? If no matter what, we will charge. Another thing you should have at the back of your mind is that a husband is a provider. Provision begins with responsibility before it becomes money.

4:12A provider asks, what does this assignment requires from me? He develops skills, creates opportunity, manage resources and refuse to make laziness a lifestyle. So my brother, are you preparing your hands for what you are praying God? No, actually, please try. How are you? How are you like for this? Okay, hear me out. Are you preparing your hands for what you are praying God should please in them? The things you want to entrust into your hands, are you preparing your hands to take care of them? They'll be free. Please charge. Are you? The next question I'm going to ask you is, before we get to the question, let me also tell you this, that our husband is a priest. This is not about pretending to be spiritually superior. No. It's about taking responsibility for your work with God and helping you know, in creating your home, where Christ is or not.

5:14Your wife should not have to drag you towards prayer, morning devotions. No. Scriptures and obedience is key. Can your spiritual life give your household direction as a man? No, think true about the woman who may eventually become your wife. Think deeply about it. She has gifts, she has ideas, she has emotional intelligence, creativity, strength and an assignment from God. Your rule is not to erase high identity, your rule is to provide hell-de-leadership, within quiche, assignment, can function in alignment with what God have called you to become. Oh yes, that's what your rule is. This is why becoming a husband requires more than romantic preparation.

6:14It needs purpose preparation, character preparation, financial preparation, emotional preparation, spiritual preparation. Because what happens when the woman you pray for arrives but discover that the man she's supposed to help is not prepared to lead. What happens? Efficient chapter 5 or 25 gives us the standard husband, loves your wife, even as Christ loves the church and gives herself for it. Christ's like leadership is sacrificial, it gives, it saves, it protects, it cleans, it builds, it does not crush. So, ask yourself, is your leadership making it easier for someone to encounter Christ or is making it harder for them? Or is making it harder for them? A brother.

7:14Becoming the husband is becoming a man who can carry covenant responsibility. So do not choose the title before developing the capacity. Don't. Let Jesus ship your character, let the Holy Spirit tissue wisdom. Let scriptures correct your understanding of masculinity. Become the man whose purpose creates room for his suitable helper to function, flourish and sub-god alongside him. Become that kind of man. Yes. Become that kind of man. If this message speaks to you, share it with another man who is preparing for marriage or ready to carry the responsibility of a family. You share my help another man, wake up to his assignment. And if you want to support the Skendam walk, consider making a donation.

8:18We are invested in man because healthy man can help build healthy marriages, healthy families and healthy communities for the glory of Jesus. This is the truth. You must embrace in the season. I hope you've gotten value for your time. Shalom. Have a good night's sleep.

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