(Men of Godly Value) THE MAN SHE CAN TRUST

0:00You are welcome in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. I am super excited to be here to share with you the mind of God and what he is doing in our life. In this episode I will be talking to the hearts of men. And yes, I will be talking about the man she can actually trust. Okay, the man she can actually trust. You must be trustworthy as a man. You must be trustworthy as a man. I need you to know that trust is not something you demand is something you aim. My brother, let's have a conversation. This is the voice of Pastor Prince Victor Mathew. I provide solutions to relationship and ministerial problem. Before you ask God for a suitable help, please have you become the kind of man who understand what he is supposed to lead. Are you? Generation chapter 2 shows us that God gave the man an assignment before he brought the woman.

1:06This means your first responsibility is not finding a woman. Your first responsibility is becoming a man. Your first responsibility is you becoming a man who understands his purpose, his calling and his responsibility before God. That's your first responsibility. Okay, so a man, a kind of man must learn to lead. I will keep saying this till it sinks into your spirit, till it mixes with your blood. I will keep saying this. Leadership is not about controlling a woman. It's about carrying responsibility for direction. Where are you taking? Where are you taking your life? Like what direction is your life? What are you building? What values governs your decisions? What really?

2:06If you do not know, here you are going. How can the woman connect to your assignment confidently, aligning with you? How can she? How can she? How can she? You must become a cultivator. Whatever God places in your hands should become better because you were there. A cultivator develops not sure, strengthens and creates an environment where potential can become fruitful. So can the woman connect to you? Can she actually become more of who God has created that to be? Or does your present make her shrink? Does it? Tell me. A man is called to protect.

3:07Protection is not merely fighting physical battle. You must protect the atmosphere, the vision, the values, the dignity of your home. Your wife trusts your judgment when pressure comes. If you displayed, is the track record, here you've stood out. Can she bring her vulnerability to you without becoming afraid that you will use it against her? Can you? And then talk about a provision. Provision is not simply money. A provider develops the capacity to carry responsibility. He works, plans, bills, monages and prepares. So are you developing the capacity required for the assignment God has placed in your hands? Or are you expecting a woman to enter your life and carry responsibility? You have refused to confront. Is that what you are expecting? And my brother, you must become a priest too.

4:09You must, you see, your wife should not be the only person praying for the spiritual condition of your home. You must know how to seek God, how to hear God's voice, obey his instruction and cultivate fellowship with the Holy Spirit. Before you lead a woman, learn to be led by the Holy Spirit. Yes. Learn to be led by the Holy Spirit. This is where many men misunderstand the idea of a suitable helper. A helper is not a replacement for your purpose. She is not designed to carry the assignment you were given while you remain passive or become inspector. No. Genesis 2 18 reviews cause intention for a suitable helper who responds to demand. God's intention is for a suitable helper who corresponds to demand.

5:09That is God's idea. So your responsibility is to understand your assignment well enough for partnership to become clearer. You want her to help you wear. She is asking for direction wear. You would want her to help you. Can you point it out? Even the responsibility you are supposed to carry for yourself. Are you carrying it? Are you? So ask yourself honestly. If the woman God brings into your life follows your direction. Where will your direction take her? Where will your direction take her? She builds with you. What exactly are you building? She submits her strength to the vision. In your hand is the vision worthy of her sacrifices. You see, these are uncomfortable questions but a kingdom man must be willing to answer them.

6:09Oh yes. Brother. Hmm. Become trustworthy before demanding trust. Yes. Become responsible before demanding submission. Become spiritually grounded before demanding spiritual alignment. Become a cultivator before accessing someone to flourish beside you. Because the goal is not to make a woman smaller so that you can feel bigger. No. The goal is for both the men and the woman to function according to God's order and to review Christ through their assignment in each other's life. That is the goal. Christ means it takes two people with self-responsibility to function. And if you're a lady here in the Son of my voice, you should be able to develop your own capacity.

7:10Alignment with God, spiritual capacity. You should be led by the Spirit of God. See, if you are led by the Spirit of God, you are doing your own growing, your own core to waiting and how to respect a man's instruction and how to respect a man's leadership and everything. By the time God brings you up in the stuff, you will be able to appreciate His effort. You will. So I am not saying this for ladies to say, hey, you have to be the priest. No. You must daily cultivate to be a suitable helper. Now, whatever your husband places in your hand, should multiply. It should multiply. That is the goal. It should multiply. So, my brother, this is the kind of woman. It must become the kind of woman. It must become the kind of those woman contrasts. If this podcast challenged you, if it actually challenged you, share it with another man.

8:13They are men preparing for marriage who needs to hear this before they act, you know, someone to follow them. And if this ministry is helping you become a better man, husband or a kingdom leader, consider supporting the work through your donation. We are committed to raising men who understands their purpose, carry their responsibility and lead under the leadership of Jesus through the fellowship of the Holy Spirit. So, my brother, can she trust you? Can she trust you? Is there a track record? Is there a track record? Is there a track record that shows you have cultivated a habit of interest, what is it?

9:16Can she? This is not to judge you. This is not to judge your condemn you. This is to bring you to a place of accountability. This is to bring you to become the man God wants you to be. You are never too late. It's never too far. It's never too far. It's time to allow Jesus to help you. Attach to this podcast details about us, your donations, buy now our e-books, everything is right there. God bless you.