Vault: She Just BUSTED Her Bestie With Her Ex-Husband!

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1:02Skills organized by grade level and simple progress tracking. It fits into even the busiest spring schedules It's also trusted nationwide. In fact, I excel is used in 96 of the top 100 school districts in the US Make an impact on your child's learning get I excel now Listeners can get an exclusive 20% off I excel membership when they sign up today at I excel.com forward slash today Visit I excel.com forward slash today to get the most effective learning program out there at the best price The first show morning amber How are you today? I'm a little angry, but that's okay Well, I'm just trying to figure out what to do Well at first opinion without here in the entire story judging, I guess is that I just don't think best friend can date the ex-husband in any circumstance at all if you guys are truly best friends One would think but then I had discovered all this stuff and it really freaked me out So I'm just trying to figure out how this all unfolded well bird talked about best friends. So how long is your best friend been your best friend?

2:04Oh, we've been best friends in high school In fact, she was in my wedding. Oh, all right. And then how long were you married to your husband? I think about six or seven years Okay, here's the deal. We were living in Phoenix and about a year ago I got you know, I was getting divorced. It was typical cliche nasty divorce as we were getting divorced I you know, I would obviously go through my best friend's house where be comforted and et cetera et cetera And she gave me her login information to get into Facebook because I never had a Facebook page And I thought it was interesting that even though he and I were still going to this nasty divorce He was still a fine on her Facebook page. Does that make sense? It was like a little weird. So I Eventually I moved to the land. I would just off them and I would still check up Using her login page on my husband. Okay. You're looking at who he's dating and friends with and pictures and vacations

3:04New ads and exactly Relationship status. Yeah, yeah, and of course it's a little with 15 and a little unhealthy That's not good. What Facebook or just being on somebody else's well just following your ex-husband's life period I mean, it's your ex-husband for a reason right right, but yeah, whatever I have these decisions always that he wasn't out, you know very truthful to me And so it's interesting to see I've caught him in like a few little lies There's even things I found on his Facebook page, but he's your ex-husband. So that's irrelevant No, but I'm talking about even things that I have to while we were married Okay So about six months ago my best friend asked me if I'm still doing it I said no, not of course not, but I still web using her Facebook page So I'm scheduled to fly out tonight to go to Phoenix to see her and I'm supposed to get in about 830 and just for fun for using her Facebook page and as I'm there checking his stuff out in

4:09I chat pops up from him I so he thinks he's chatting with your best friend at this point. Yeah, okay Okay, I'm her and it pops up. Hey, what are you doing and I could see some of the history of their messages back and forth and One of them was confirming a date for tonight. Oh And I land tonight like I'm supposed to land about 815 Which he doesn't know is I've changed my flight to land like 230 and I want to box them on their date because it said We're to meet and it had exo exo and winked and smiley faces Well, I want to say when didn't you hear and my missing something that you're going out there to visit your friend? They're going out to see her so a chat popped up confirming a date with your ex-husband before you're supposed to land Yeah, so she's gonna go with her husband before she picks her up from the airport I got it so she changed her flight to get there early so that she could be there and then bust them during their dinner Okay, all right

5:10Anything and once the line up say to her I'm like, oh Have you seen Brandon lately and you know until be like no, no, no, not at all He's such a dirt bag and I feel what he did to you so no indication at all from her that they've had any interaction Zero zero You know And when you're looking at the history of these messages together is it clear that they've been seeing each other and that this meeting tonight is really like a romantic date Crystal clear It's not like oh, this is interesting or whatever like there's an email history in her inbox But I went to her inbox. I can see how it started to me what that says is like when you first start dating someone You keep all of their messages like their voicemail messages their emails and she has everything that she did the entire history From the time right after I left here's what I'm trying to get out though I want specifics on what those instant messages and some of those emails said because You've already proven at your little psycho when it comes to your ex-husband anyway

6:14So I'm wondering if there's anything in these emails or instant messages that might be innocent enough But you're interpreting as an affair because you just not thinking clearly because they have a day the players are who they are with they have a date tonight No, they they spent the holidays together Okay, and because there was references where he wrote it was nice meeting your family and then there's another one and said Forget exactly how it worded but can we do it exactly what we did last night again tonight? Smiley safe heart. So this is a relationship both emotional and All right, so my question is have you walked yourself through how this is all gonna go down when you get there and you bust them like What you're gonna say what you're gonna do afterwards and how you're gonna turn around and leave again Yeah, why don't you need to rebook a flight like later tonight to come back home because you don't need to be stuck in Phoenix after this disaster Happens and you're completely an emotional wreck and then you're left. What standing there staying at your best friends place?

7:21No, I agree with Jen you got to come back to Atlanta. I don't think you need to go I think you just call your friend to go. Hey look I know you have a date tonight and the year obviously busy So I'm not gonna come visit click save the ticket go to some floor to be sure But you know how like sometimes we've talked about this on there. You need to see it with your own eyes Yeah, and you know they could deny deny deny deny deny, but if you see it with your own eyes Then it's 100% but you know that you see with your own eyes. It's not gonna stop it Your best friend is pretty much gone. I mean I grew up it's it's your excess friend and your ex-husband Let these people go and cut them out of your life after whatever confrontation You want to have with them or whatever discussion or see it with your own eyes or whatever you just need the following plan You know do you give her back like a scrapbook of your friendship and be like here you go It's all yours. I don't want this anymore turn around get in the cab and go to the air like you need a plan I said plan good morning Marsha. You're part of the birch show, huh? I just want to share that after my Divorce of 14 years I

8:22Can fold my foot with my very very very very dear friend and she was very sweet and listened to all of my problems and I did not know and so much later was also consoling my ex-husband and they started dating and they kept it a secret The bottom line is it's none of your freaking business These are grown adults and they can do what they want and all I can say is that people have different relationships People work differently together and after I found out I told them bless you both if you can make this work Them bless you both. She's a bigger person to be able to forgive and let go like that. I couldn't do that I just it's really really amazing. I know it it sounds that way But I just I think people Talked themselves into thinking there that way. I think it's very difficult for a person to actually actually Probably healthy. I mean if you can do it I'm sure it's very healthy for you to go that was part of the past. I'm with cleanse I'm gonna be the bigger person but I think there are very few people that can actually do that very few

9:23I have one really good friend of mine who is so forgiving She would honestly be the only person I know that would actually be able to do that and let it go and really Truly in her heart be forgiving and truly want the best for them I don't I don't I don't admire that. I got to be really I do I do I do I do too I don't I think if it's me and I find myself in this situation I'm doing exactly what you're doing I gotta go see it with my own eyes and then when I do see it that's it I sever both relationships. They never have even though you read about it clearly and exchange between the two of me Still need to look at I have to see and I think most women would Closure I think most women would I mean it's the whole closure thing I know what her eyes to finally have closure about it. What's her name? Her name is Amber. Hey Amber Are you listening to any of this is this like computing with you? Not I just I just been still seeing red right now because I'm so angry

10:27I thought I want her to look me in the eyes This is why women need to well I agree with it windy. It's closure because you get mad enough to where you can walk away because for a lot of women It takes you going to the edge to be able to finally cut it loose But I so agree with Jen about booking an exit flight Cannot stay in Phoenix tonight and do you have any close girlfriends who are your actual friends that can Know your plan and know what you're doing arm your mom maybe or like somebody and you need a go-to person a call Somebody in your life that you can depend on or just a machine on the phone with just to emotionally lean on after that Because that's gonna be a pretty strong night right there Well, Amber. Let's talk to you either tomorrow if you're back here or on Monday and find out if you actually went or you stayed Or you saw it with your own eyes and how they all handled it. Okay. Oh Going and I'm gonna I'm gonna walk in I just I need I can't I'm shocked Yeah, so sorry Whatever reasons sometimes we have people on here, and I don't believe they're gonna actually do what they tell us they're gonna do

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