Attraction is not Love || Hope Expression Podcast

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1:05Sure, you can post your job to some job board. But then all you can do is hope the right person comes along. Which is why you should try Zippercrooter for free. At zippercrooter.com slash zip. Zippercrooter doesn't depend on candidates finding you. It finds them for you. This powerful technology identifies people with the right experience and actively invites them to apply to your job. You get qualified candidates fast. So while other companies might deliver a lot of, hey, Zippercrooter finds you what you're looking for. The needle in the haystack. See why four out of five employers who post a job on Zippercrooter get a quality candidate within the first day. Zippercrooter, the smartest way to hire. And right now, you can try Zippercrooter for free. That's right. At zippercrooter.com slash zip. That zippercrooter.com slash zip zippercrooter.com slash zip. Attraction is not love. I repeat, attraction is not love.

2:10The fact that you're attracted to somebody doesn't mean that you're in love with the person. No, it doesn't mean you're in love with the person. This is the voice of a post of Prince Victor Margey, and this is a committee from Open Dispression Hub. And in this episode, I want you to understand that attraction is not love. You may have previous episode I told you that you can be attracted to who you don't need. What is attraction? Attraction is a natural influence. Happens between you and someone that appeals to your interest in life. Okay. So you are attracted to the person because the person is appealing to you, at a physically, at an intellectual, at a emotional, or sexually. Right? These are the factors that makes you to be attracted to someone. They are believed to be attracted to someone. You may be attracted to you in something that is wired on the inside of you.

3:17The dog will always be attracted to the dog. Go to always be attracted to these. Monkey will always be attracted to banana. Now, the factor of what you are attracted to is the functionality of who you are. The greatest problem of people, when you consider attraction, is love of self-disproving. Because the worst thing that can happen to you is to be attracted to someone, yet you don't will buy your attraction to the person. And when you live in a generation that you have liked, it arouse that true love. It's when you love someone. You thought even when you listen to love, then when you are attracted to someone, you cannot explain. That is not true love. That is confusion. That is an act of... Immaturity. The closest issue to three of us once is there is time for everything and the purpose for every activity under the surface of the earth.

4:22A reason for every activity under the surface of the earth. If you constate the reason for anything that is happening between you and someone, feels that you are confused or you are infatuated. I mean, that is infatuation. Infatuation does not give you an understanding. Who told you that? You don't need to understand why you love somebody. I just love somebody. Who told you that? Who told you that? Attraction is real. Attraction can help you or can frustrate you. Yes. Attraction can frustrate you or can help you. It only helps you when you are being able to pay attention to the understanding and the knowledge of who you are. Because you would always be attracted to your interest in life. And your interest in life is formed by who you are.

5:25Why do you like the things you like? Why do you dislike the things you dislike? You've got to know. Anyone that is attracted to you is drawn to who you are and what you carry. Anyone you are attracted to, you are drawn to who they are and what they carry. But there is a mutual ground that makes them to be attracted to you. And that is because they are in agreement. They are appealing to your area of interest in life. And we have what to call your physical interest in life. We have what to call the intellectual interest in life. And we have what to call the emotional interest in life. Right? Your physical interest, other things that gives you the ability to function physically. Intellectual interest, other things that appeals to you and describes how you function intellectually. Emotional interest has to do with how you function emotionally. Okay. So, when you are attracted to someone,

6:27the first thing to pay attention to is yourself and ask yourself, what is it about me that dispersing is having something also that is drawing my attention. Attraction is not enough. Attraction is just a sign that dispersing is appealing to your interest. Because attraction can be negative or positive. It can be godly or godly. So, when you are attracted to someone, the first thing is you need to ask yourself, do I need dispersing? But how will you be able to know if you need dispersing? Why you don't even know if you are away or going to your life? Are your dreams or your pupils or your colleagues? Someone appealing to you is not the ultimate. Do you need dispersing?

7:27Do your journey left need dispersing? Your pursuit of destiny and pupils needs dispersing? Do you need dispersing to grow? Do you need dispersing to evolve? Do you need dispersing to understand? Do you need dispersing to become a better version of yourself? Can dispersing be useful to you? Can you be useful to dispersing? Can you both identify each other? That's a question you should ask yourself. So, when you are attracted to someone, you can either kill the attraction or you feed the attraction. Oh yes. You can either kill the attraction or you feed the attraction. You kill the attraction when you don't need dispersing by not paying attention to dispersing. You feed the attraction by paying attention to dispersing and engaging in conversations based on the common ground that is creating the attraction between you and dispersing.

8:32So, attraction is not a helpless feeling. It's a reality you can decide what happens and what doesn't happen. So, the next time you are attracted to someone, just know that it's not an invitation to love. It's just an invitation, identification of you, becoming aware that there is something appealing to you about dispersing. It might be what you need. It might be what you don't need. It might be what you want. It might be what you need. What you want that type of thing. What you need. Aficionistic. But if you don't know you, how can you never come? Because you always were attracted to your kind, best of the same kind of flux together. Well, there's an audience that says so. Right? And the scripture says, I am shakun and I am. So, if as a lady,

9:33not the men that are coming to you, they are attracted to you for sex, something is wrong, which you, not them, something is wrong with you. There is something you are not doing. Or there is something you are doing that is calling them to you. Because the same man that comes to you, acts in for sex. The same man is going to someone else and another lady and they are having a quality conversation. You would attract your kind, responsible for those attracted to you. Because there is something you are putting up that is during the attention, because attraction is an influence that draws your attention to what appears to your interest. Or that draws people's attention to what you have to appear to their interest. So, you are the major factor of attraction. So, don't say, what is wrong with people? What are people? No people.

10:33Leave them alone. It's you. You need to know what you are doing wrong. I fix it. It could be your dressing. Ladies are all around me. They are always looking for my money. My brother, you are doing something wrong. Why can't they look for something else? Why money? There is something you are not doing right. Is that they are living a flamboyant life or you are careless with your spending or something? So, don't blame the people that are attracted to you. Brother, blame yourself for what you are doing consciously and consciously. That is drawing their attention to you. So, that is what attraction really is. Is that the ability of you having the capacity to draw people's attention based on their interest in what you have? All right. When you put a sugar down, you don't need an announcement for the hands to good.

11:33So, get it right. Get your priority right. Do not trace talk. And give people the impression of who you are not, so that you don't attract people. Remember, you can kill their attraction or you can feed it. But one makes you feed their attraction is if it's healthy for you is for the sustainability, your growth. And you become a different person of yourself. I am. Every attraction does not necessarily mean what they call a dating relationship. Sometimes you can be attracted to people who will do projects with you. People in business who are attracted to you can be attracted to someone and they are supposed to just be a business partner. You can be attracted to somebody and they just mean to be a painter. You can be attracted to someone and they are just

12:33means to you know, their friends are not actually lovers. So, attraction is not a door, it's not a one-way street that leads to dating and marriage. No. You can be attracted to someone you are supposed to maintain or you can be attracted to someone that is supposed to maintain. So, there are different varieties of life that attraction can lead to. You can be attracted to who will kill your destiny in our first literature. You can be attracted to someone who will help you and lift you up. So, you must ever await the reason behind attraction and access of do I need this? Will it be useful to me? Will it help me in my pursuit of purpose and destiny and love? I hope you've got your value for your time. I'm going to stop you in this episode. In the next episode, I'm going to share something

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