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Vanessa & Xander Marin
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what re...
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Episodes (258)
Episode 58: The Sex Act You Should Be Doing - But Probably Aren’t
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Episode 57: Is This Your Shit Or Mine?
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Episode 56: What Do Men REALLY Think About… ? (Vulvas, Emotional Intimacy, And M...
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Episode 55: The 69 Episode
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Episode 54: Ask Us Anything Part 2: MORE Of Your Burning Questions, Answered
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Episode 53: How To Spice It Up In the Bedroom: Exploring Kink For Beginners
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Episode 52: How To Get Your Man To Take Control In The Bedroom
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Episode 51: The Art of Flirting (In a Long Term Relationship)
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Episode 50: I Don’t Know How To Say This, But...
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Episode 49: The Truth About Squirting (And Why Men Are Obsessed With It)
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Episode 48: How To Get Out Of (And Prevent) Dry Spells
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Episode 47: What Penis Performance Problems REALLY Mean
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Episode 46: The Hygiene Episode: What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t Taking Care Of...
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Episode 45: Busting – And Confirming! – The Wildest Sex Myths
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Episode 44: How To Get Your Partner To Open Up
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Episode 43: How To STOP Getting Distracted During Sex!
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Episode 42: Are You Sexually Compatible?
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Episode 41: The Ask Us Anything Episode: All Your Burning Questions, Answered!
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Episode 40: When Your Partner Wants Sex But You Don’t
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Episode 39: If You Had To Ask, Does It Even Count?
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Episode 38: You Want Connection, Your Partner Wants Sex. Who Comes First?
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Episode 37: The Truth About Why We’re Child-Free
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Episode 36: Can We Come Back From This?
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Episode 35: Fine, I’ll Just Do It Myself: The Danger of Weaponized Incompetence
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Episode 34: I Want You To Want Me
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Episode 33: The Episode We Almost Didn’t Release
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Episode 32: 5 Ways To Make 2022 Your Most Intimate AND Nasty Year Ever
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Episode 31: Should We Open Our Relationship?
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Episode 30: Sex With Other People...Around
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Episode 29: Anxious? Avoidant? What Your Attachment Style Says About You (And Yo...
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Episode 28: So Your Partner Told You Their Fantasy... And You're Not Into It
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Episode 27: Your In-Law Holiday Survival Guide
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Episode 26: Are You Good In Bed?
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Episode 25: Are You Too Needy?
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Episode 23: Butt Stuff!
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Episode 22: How To Not Pass Sexual Shame On To Your Kids
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Episode 21: Cowgirls And Doggies And [Redacted], Oh My! Your Guide To Trying New...
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Episode 20: Should We Break Up?
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Episode 19: How To Have Amazing Sex With A Brand New Partner
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Episode 18: How To Get That New Relationship Energy Back
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Episode 17: How To Allow Yourself To Receive In The Bedroom
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Episode 16: No, Your Partner Didn't Make You Feel That Way - Your Feelings Are Y...
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Episode 15: The Secret To Feeling More Pleasure In The Bedroom
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Episode 14: How To Navigate Different Political, Social, And Religious Beliefs I...
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Episode 13: How To Handle Rejection When Your Partner Says No To Sex
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Episode 12: How To Let Your Partner Love Your Body - Even If You Don't
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Episode 11: How Vanessa Turned Her Orgasm Struggles Into A Sex Therapy Business!
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Episode 10: Communication Breakdowns: We Coach Real Couples Through Their Worst...
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Episode 9: How Often Is Everyone REALLY Having Sex? And What's Healthy For Your...
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Episode 8: Has Purity Culture Harmed Your Sex Life? How To Overcome Religious Sh...
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