
About this episode
We all want to feel wanted.
That's why we're talking about something that can totally change your relationship for the better, and it's something you've already done..."dating" your partner!
We've heard from our community (and this is something we as a couple have gone through as well) that when you've been together for years, even decades, you can go through phases where you feel more like roommates than romantic partners. Maybe you have kids and you know you're on the same team, but romance has taken a back seat to parenting and just life in general. Whatever the case may be, we're excited to talk about the role desire can play in your relationship and how - yes - you can reignite that spark from the 'old days'.
Links & Resources:
The Sex Challenge
Mental Load: What it is and how to stop it from destroying your relationship
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