Xander Marin

New York Times bestselling author and husband of Vanessa Marin

About Xander

Xander is a New York Times bestselling author and the husband of Vanessa Marin. He has co-authored several books with his wife and is known for his open and honest approach to relationships and intimacy.

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No One Told Us

Guest

Pillow Talks

Host

Key Topics

kids family parenting society culture health fitness sexuality

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Recent Appearances

E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire

Pillow Talks•Apr 30, 2026•1:04:33•host

E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming

Pillow Talks•Apr 24, 2026•1:03:36•host

Xander Marin

About Xander

Associated Podcasts

No One Told Us

Pillow Talks

Key Topics

Recent Appearances

E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire

E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming

E256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

E255: The Sexiest Thing You're Not Doing in Bed…Mutual Masturbation

E254: Couples Coaching: Why Resentment Is Killing Your Sex Life

E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex

E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)

E251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and Your Partner Really Want

E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas)

E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?

E248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)

E247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more)

E246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s Burning

E245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone Journey

E244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take)

E243: Your Biggest Marriage Regrets (And How To Prevent Them)

E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It)

E241: Sex Fails: Car Hookups, Clap Lights, and Cowgirl Concussions

E240: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex

E239: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt. 3)