Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
EN258 episodes
healthfitnesssexuality
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what re...
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Episodes (258)
Episode 108: “Help! I’ve Been Faking Orgasms So Long I Don’t Know How To Stop!”
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Episode 107: Ask Each Other Anything: Celebrating Our Queer Community With A Q&A
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Jun 8, 202341:03pending
Episode 106: Exposing Our Biggest Relationship Frustrations With Enneagram Exper...
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Jun 1, 20231:29:38pending
Episode 105: “Is This Normal?” 2.0 — More Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out L...
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May 25, 20231:09:12pending
Episode 104: An Exclusive Sneak Peek: Chapter One Of Sex Talks
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May 18, 202355:07pending
Episode 103: What Do Women Really Think About…? (Masturbation, Butt Stuff, Penis...
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May 11, 20231:11:10pending
Episode 102: Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Inter...
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May 4, 20231:08:05pending
Episode 101: Is Gaming Hurting Your Relationship? Part 1 Of The “I Love You But...
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Apr 27, 20231:09:36pending
Episode 100: Our 100th Episode Extravaganza: The Ultimate Round of “Know Ya Boo”
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Apr 20, 20231:09:27pending
Episode 99: The Bristle Reaction: What It Is, How It Happens, And What You Can D...
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Apr 13, 20231:08:03pending
Episode 98: Dead Bedrooms: We Coach One Couple Through Resuscitating Their Sex L...
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Apr 6, 20231:12:53pending
Episode 97: Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Forepl...
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Mar 30, 20231:05:30pending
Episode 96: Things That Go Bump (Or Bang) In the Night
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Mar 23, 202351:07pending
Episode 95: Mental Load Part 2: Conversations About Perfectionism, Gender Roles,...
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Mar 16, 20231:09:48pending
Episode 94: The “Start Here” Episode - Allow Us To Reintroduce Ourselves
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Mar 9, 202358:59pending
Episode 93: Would You Rather?
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Mar 2, 202352:38pending
Episode 92: The Brutally Honest Truth About Our New York Times Best Selling Book
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Feb 23, 20231:37:22pending
Episode 91: “Is This Normal?” 15 Questions You Never Dared To Ask Out Loud
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Feb 16, 202357:13pending
Episode 90: Why Missionary Is (Secretly) Our Favorite Position
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Feb 9, 20231:03:24pending
Episode 89: How To Get The Intimacy You’ve Always Craved
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Feb 2, 202358:33pending
Episode 88: How To Decide If You Should Have Kids Or Not. And Are We Still Child...
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Jan 26, 20231:14:34pending
Episode 87: Sex Talks: Sharing All The Secrets Behind Writing Our First Book
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Jan 19, 20231:20:44pending
Episode 86: Ask Us Anything Part 4: This Time It’s Personal
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Jan 12, 20231:08:58pending
Episode 85: Make 2023 The Year You Finally Feel Sexy
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Jan 5, 20231:11:05pending
Episode 84: Top 10 Podcast Moments of 2022
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Dec 29, 202248:55pending
Episode 83: How To Fight Fair In A Relationship: Breaking Down A Listener Argume...
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Dec 22, 20221:07:28pending
Episode 82: The 15 Lessons That Keep Us Saying “I Do” After 15 Years
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Dec 15, 20221:11:03pending
Episode 81: Ho Ho Help! How To Survive Holiday Stress
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Dec 8, 20221:26:13pending
Episode 80: Be A Man And Talk About Your Feelings
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Dec 1, 20221:17:19pending
Episode 79: Sex Confessions: The Good, The Bad, And The WTF
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Nov 23, 202252:44pending
Episode 78: Initiation: What You And Your Partner Are Doing Wrong - And How To G...
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Nov 17, 20221:04:59pending
Episode 77: Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Orgasms
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Nov 10, 202259:56pending
Episode 76: How Much Do You Really Want It? The Sex Drive Episode
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Nov 3, 202254:30pending
Episode 75: Am I Being Unreasonable?
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Oct 27, 202258:43pending
Episode 74: Are We…Growing Apart?
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Oct 20, 202252:46pending
Episode 73: Do You Ever “Owe” Sex To Your Partner?
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Oct 13, 202256:04pending
Episode 72: The Lowdown On Painful Sex
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Oct 6, 202244:31pending
Episode 71: Ask Us Anything Part 3: Extra Spicy Edition
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Sep 29, 202253:28pending
Episode 70: How To Keep Stress Low And Pleasure High When You’re Trying To Conce...
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Sep 22, 202259:08pending
Episode 69: What Do Men REALLY Think About… Part Two! (Lingerie, Boobs, Money, Q...
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Sep 15, 20221:03:07pending
Episode 68: The Ultimate Butt Stuff Episode
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Sep 9, 202251:14pending
Episode 67: Hot Takes: How We REALLY Feel About Your Most Requested Topics
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Sep 1, 20221:02:31pending
Episode 66: The True Story Of How We Built A Sex Therapy Business
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Aug 25, 20221:05:20pending
Episode 65: How To Overcome Sexual Shame With Our 7-Step Process
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Aug 18, 202256:22pending
Episode 64: Are You Roommates or Romantic Partners?
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Aug 11, 202256:34pending
Episode 63: Does Your Partner Care Enough About YOUR Pleasure?
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Aug 4, 20221:02:55pending
Episode 62: The Truth About Money and Relationships
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Jul 28, 202258:14pending
Episode 61: Putting The O Back In Mom: Reigniting Your Sex Life After Kids
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Jul 21, 202245:21pending
Episode 60: Help! My Partner Hates Self-Improvement!
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Jul 14, 202255:12pending
Episode 59: Roleplaying 101: Ditch The Awkwardness And Find Your Confidence
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Jul 7, 202249:00pending