Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
EN258 episodes
healthfitnesssexuality
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what re...
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Episodes (258)
Episode 158: Maybe It’s Not Low Libido…
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Episode 157: Come on a Double Date with Us! (“Know Ya Boo” Part 2)
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May 23, 202458:04pending
Episode 156: What To Do When It’s Been A While… (The Dry Spell Episode)
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May 16, 202442:22pending
Episode 155: Am I The Asshole? In-Laws Edition
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Episode 154: How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship
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May 2, 202452:07pending
Episode 153: The Secret Foreplay Technique You Don’t Even Know About
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Apr 25, 202446:06pending
Episode 152: Breaking Down A Text Fight
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Apr 18, 202459:06pending
Episode 151: How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resis...
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Apr 11, 202453:27pending
Episode 150: Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Volum...
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Apr 4, 20241:01:07pending
Episode 149: Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do - And...
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Mar 28, 202445:12pending
Episode 148: “Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode)
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Mar 21, 20241:02:47pending
Episode 147: Your Sexual Fantasies Revealed
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Mar 14, 202452:22pending
Episode 146: Are You Nagging? Or Is Your Partner Being Childish?
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Mar 7, 20241:07:59pending
Episode 145: What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom
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Feb 29, 20241:04:57pending
Episode 144: We’re In Couples Therapy
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Feb 22, 20241:10:32pending
Episode 143: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During...
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Feb 15, 20241:11:20pending
Episode 142: Are You Lazy In Bed? Here’s What Your Partner Says…
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Feb 8, 20241:05:58pending
Episode 141: How To Get Your Partner To Be More Romantic
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Feb 1, 20241:17:37pending
Episode 140: What Your Sex Personality Type Says About You In The Bedroom
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Jan 25, 20241:02:35pending
Episode 139: Xander’s Vasectomy Part 2: Answering Your Questions About Pain, Per...
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Jan 18, 20241:03:21pending
Episode 138: Your Funniest Foreplay Fails
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Jan 11, 202450:12pending
Episode 137: Xander Got A Vasectomy!
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Jan 4, 20241:11:06pending
Episode 136: The Top 10 Pillow Talks Podcast Moments of 2023
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Dec 28, 202357:09pending
Episode 135: Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition
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Dec 21, 20231:02:22pending
Episode 134: Everything You’re Getting Wrong About Intercourse (And How To Get I...
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Dec 14, 20231:03:44pending
Episode 133: Dead Bedrooms Part 2: We Coach Another Couple Through Resuscitating...
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Dec 7, 20231:17:01pending
Episode 132: Why We Started Making Out Every Night
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Nov 30, 20231:17:48pending
Episode 131: How Honest Is Too Honest?
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Nov 22, 20231:16:07pending
Episode 130: The Bristle Reaction, Icky Initiation, And Bad Assumptions: 5 Surpr...
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Nov 16, 20231:17:35pending
Episode 129: Do You Have Silent Sex? Here’s Why That’s A Problem
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Nov 9, 202349:13pending
Episode 128: Sneaky Ways To Get Your Partner More Involved In Your Relationship
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Nov 2, 20231:03:30pending
Episode 127: Ask Us Anything: Spilling Our Business Secrets
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Oct 26, 20231:12:07pending
Episode 126: Queefing, And Farting, And Squirting, Oh My! Bodily Functions In Th...
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Oct 19, 202356:50pending
Episode 125: Am I The Asshole?
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Oct 12, 20231:02:28pending
Episode 124: Is Your Sex Life Too Boring?
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Oct 5, 202355:39pending
Episode 123: A Parent’s Guide To Making Time For Sex And Intimacy
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Sep 28, 202353:54pending
Episode 122: “Don’t Touch Me Like That”: Confronting Unwanted Touch In Your Rela...
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Sep 21, 202349:06pending
Episode 121: When She Wants It More: Navigating Mismatched Libidos When The Woma...
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Sep 14, 202359:44pending
Episode 120: “Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior
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Sep 7, 20231:03:20pending
Episode 119: Jealousy In Relationships: Why Do We Get Jealous, And What Do We Do...
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Aug 31, 20231:11:14pending
Episode 118: The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong
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Aug 24, 20231:03:57pending
Episode 117: So You Think You Know Us? Answering Your Assumptions!
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Aug 17, 202356:41pending
Episode 116: What Do I Do When My Partner Is Always On Their Phone?
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Aug 10, 20231:13:23pending
Episode 115: Grief And Sex: Loving Each Other Through A Loss
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Aug 3, 202358:56pending
Episode 114: Can We Come Back From This? Part 2: Even More Relationship Make Or...
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Jul 27, 20231:02:53pending
Episode 113: Bump And Grind: Sex During Pregnancy
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Jul 20, 202353:57pending
Episode 112: Creating A Shortcut To Intimacy With Compliments
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Jul 13, 202357:41pending
Episode 111: What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Talk About Sex
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Jul 6, 20231:01:33pending
Episode 110: Unzipped And Unfiltered: Your Funniest Sex Fails
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Jun 29, 202340:44pending
Episode 109: This ONE Thing Is Secretly Affecting Your ENTIRE Relationship
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Jun 22, 202358:09pending