
About this episode
In this powerful episode of Confident Sober Women, host Shelby interviews Patti Clark, author of Recovery Road Trip and a woman whose journey to sobriety and emotional healing has inspired countless others. Patti’s story takes us through her early years in a dysfunctional family, struggling with addiction, and ultimately finding the path to recovery. With honesty and wisdom, Patti reveals how she overcame trauma, addiction, and the challenges of sustaining long-term sobriety.
Highlights:
- Early Life Struggles: Patti shares the impact of growing up in an alcoholic family, which led to her own battle with addiction at a young age.
- Life-Changing Choices: From working in Alaska’s high-stakes environment to a transformative moment of clarity, Patti chose a new path.
- Connection as the Key to Recovery: Patti emphasizes the power of connection over isolation in achieving and sustaining sobriety. This episode highlights the importance of finding community and choosing the right support system, whether through 12-step groups, alternatives like She Recovers, or other modern recovery groups.
- Emotional Sobriety & Self-Love: Patti speaks about the deeper work that follows initial sobriety, addressing emotional regulation and the need for self-love—crucial for long-term success in recovery.
- Preventing Relapse: Hear insights from Patti’s research on why women relapse and the essential practices that help sustain sobriety. She shares her experience of stepping away from her program, the dangers of complacency, and the importance of maintaining a support network.
Top Takeaways:
- Embrace Connection: Sobriety thrives in community. Whether through 12-step, therapy, or other recovery groups, staying connected to others is vital for long-term recovery.
- Do the Deeper Work: Healing doesn’t stop at sobriety. Engage in practices like journaling, creative expression, and neurofeedback for trauma to deepen your recovery.
- Micro-Changes Lead to Transformation: Small, consistent actions—routine, emotional awareness, and self-care—build a fulfilling, sober life.
Tune in to this episode and be sure to share with a friend and leave a review in your platform if you are liking what you hear in the show. Whether you’re in early recovery or years along, Patti’s wisdom and insights are sure to inspire you to strengthen your own journey.
Visit Patti's website www.patticlark.org
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate & share this episode with a sober woman or someone suffering from anxiety, depression, ADHD, sleep problems and negative thought patterns who needs to hear she is not alone.
Oh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! Learn more about EMDR therapy, EMDR Intensives and Remote Neurofeedback.
And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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