
Stop Trying to Change Your Polyvagal State. Do This Instead for True Self Regulation...
About this episode
Discover why trying to force a change in your polyvagal state might be holding you back from true self-regulation. In this episode, therapist and coach Justin Sunseri challenges the common advice around prescriptive breathing techniques and invites you to connect with your body’s natural rhythms instead. Through insights from a live Q&A, learn how mindful awareness and listening to your body can lead to genuine calm, balance, and lasting change—without counting breaths or forcing a state shift.
Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction to Inner Balance
0:39 – The Power of Natural Breathing
2:02 – Critique of Prescriptive Breathing
3:53 – Connecting with Your Body’s Needs
5:03 – The Body’s Natural Self-Regulation
11:05 – Creating Optimal Conditions for Self-Regulation
15:02 – Final Thoughts and Invitation
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This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy. Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship. Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms. Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.
Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).
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