Sasha Cobra: How S*x Was Weaponized to Control Humanity... | DSH #1752

0:00Do we, as humans, in our exploration of our sexuality, seek out to watch violence and get turned on by? Because at a certain point, you're conditioned with it, and what you are exposed to gets entangled with your body, and then you actually need it to be. And that's a whole other thing. But what I'm saying is from the beginning, let's say you're a young boy, and you just discover that there's something called, and you Google it, and you realize that you're getting an update, and you're like, wow, my body's alive, and I want to explore this. And you want to see something that is true. What is there for you to see on the internet that is even close to bringing beauty to another human? Okay, guys, we got Sasha Cobra on today. We're going to talk about how sex has been used to disempower humanity. Deep topic, huh? Yep, and a very necessary topic. Yeah, and you're one of the few I think qualified to give a good take on this, given all the work you've done over the years. So first of all, thanks for coming.

1:00Long flight for you, right? Thank you very much. It's okay, but it's a little late over. Yeah, no direct flights out there. No. But yeah, let's dive straight into it. So how sex has been used to disempower humanity? Do you explain the history of that? Yeah, so I think before we go into how sex has been weaponized to disempower humanity, we first have to understand what sexual energy is, what sex really is. And I want to start off by bringing us back to understanding that at some point, two people came together, had sex, and out of that, we were all born. So we as humans are a physical manifestation of sexual energy. So what is that? Exceptional power is exceptional creative force, and everything that is in existence comes through the sex act. So what our bodies made out of is sex.

2:04What is running through us is sex. The spirit that we have, our destiny, our alignment, everything is about the sex that moves through us because that is who we are. And in our society, it's all about disempowerment. It's a slave culture. It's a trauma-induced culture. Everything is operating on fear to control, to divide, to disempower. And there's many different ways that we're all aware of that disempowerment happens through, right? So many different ways. And we can even think about the basics, like food, right? Our food is controlled, our air is controlled, our water is controlled, our housing is controlled, electricity is controlled. Everything is controlled, and even our sex is controlled. And I think that a lot of people don't understand or don't think about sex as something really

3:05significant for our lives and what it really means. We think about something like an urge for reproduction, but we actually don't have an understanding of the spiritual power of it, and the healing modality of it. So we as humans, we all know that we carry pain, we all carry trauma, and whether that is trauma from experiencing things that we all could collectively call trauma, as we know it. That could be physical abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, but also the trauma of living in a crazy society. You don't have a yesterday. That as well, that's huge. And I want to get to that, that's really significant. But even going to just being born into a society that is backwards to nature and backwards to life, you know, being put in a school system that is unnatural to our spirit, you know, our expression of spirit, especially now where all of us understand that we're being lied to

4:08and what we're being taught in schools. So just the trauma of this very unhealthy, unnatural society and culture. So with all of us caring that, we need healing and why. We in our essence are born as divine beings. We are pure, we are innocent. We are love and body. We all know that. We know that children are beautiful blessing. We look at children as the most precious thing in the world. And what we forget as adults is that at some point we were all children ourselves. And so we as humans are beautiful. We're gorgeous. We're love embodied and then bringing back up, you know, something horrible that happened yesterday that is so present, you know, it's really wild because I come here to this podcast with you and I'm like, man, we're going to talk about sex. But how do you even start a conversation about it when something

5:09so important happens yesterday? It happens all the time. We're talking about one event. But things are happening all over the world all the time. It's just that this one really hits home for a lot of people. Yeah. And coming into this podcast, I was thinking, you know, I think a lot of people don't realize how much the work that I'm doing is also connected to what I'm seeing and witnessing from yesterday. So we witness an assassin in assassination. And what happened, how it happened, you know, call it a sia, pray, is it a sia, is it not? Whatever's going on, I'm not concerned about that. What I'm concerned about is what humans do in our society, with things that happen in society, right? There's an event, something happens. How do people react to it? And I'm in this mastermind group on what's out with hundreds and hundreds of people.

6:10Intelligent people, wonderful people. This event goes off, hundreds of messages pour into it. You know the group. Yeah. Hundreds of messages go into it and people start fighting one another. How is this possible? What do you think? They politicized the death. They made it right first left and then people got emotional. But then you go one layer deeper. How is it possible that we as humans can be so insensitive to life? So insensitive to the essence of what we ought to be about, which is love? There's no child on this planet that would rationalize and create logic and politicize pain. Yeah.

7:11And yet people's minds come in and they start wars over things that are completely unnatural to, in my opinion, our essence and our existence as humans. And so when I look at these things, what is the solution for that? What is the solution for the wars that we see globally? What is the solutions for the violence and the pain that we see on the planet? Because for me, it is not natural to the human experience. This is something that we're programmed with. It's something that we're conditioned with. And it's a byproduct of the pain that we carry from our deepest, deepest trauma. And that trauma is the trauma of not being loved as we should and not being able to love as we should in a society that is so backwards. Wow. So you think it all stems down to that when you see all these problems? Absolutely. Wow.

8:11And not only just that, if you look at conflicts and relationships, we can start closer to our intimate experience in life. If you look at relationships, why are we so violent with one another? How could we say we love somebody and then yell at them? Where is that pain coming from? And at the end of the day, when you go layer by layer into everything that people complain about, give reason to, give logic to, at the end of the day, it's because they feel unloved. Wow. So then, if we look at all these problems in the world, and we think, what is the solution then, to come back to a place of loving? And how do we do that? If we are the essence of love, if that is essential to our nature, that is what we are when we come into existence, then that means that it's not a matter of finding that it's a matter of cleaning out and getting rid of all the shit that we collect in a lifetime.

9:15All the memories, all the conditioning, all the trauma that we collect from life, you know, it's, this is a really crazy world that we live in. Super crazy. It is just completely insane and backwards. Yeah. And so, if the solution is love, it's not fighting, it's not conflict, and it just, it saddens me so much, man, when I was reading these messages yesterday popping off, someone died, someone's family right now is having to deal with grief and loss, in a way that many of us have never had to experience. And we're making videos about it. Some people celebrating that, that is insanity. Yeah, it's madness. It's complete madness, but you know what I see? Even from those people, they're lost. They have to be. No rational person will make a dancing video to that. They're, they're lost, confused, and lacking love in themselves.

10:19Period. So, when I see that, what is that solution to bring them back to love? How do we do that? We all need healing. What are the different ways that we can heal? So, what I'm saying is that sexual energy is an incredible healer. And I'm not talking about sex, you know, when we're doing this podcast, and people are listening, there's going to be lots of people listening. They're going to think, this is crazy. Sex has never healed me. Sex has brought me pain. It's brought me problems. It's brought me, um, imbalances of all different kinds. You know, most people relate to sex, not from a place of beauty. It's either an urge, an addiction, or actually something painful. So, I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about love making. The way it was meant to be, which is really a physical act of loving. Bringing our bodies together to love each other, not to use each other,

11:22not to abuse each other, not to take, not to gratify, but to love. And when you do that, energy is generated. Because remember, your body is powerful life force. We can call it sexual energy. We can call it life force. When you bring two people together in love making, you start to cultivate a lot of energy. And that energy becomes a healer. Your orgasmic states become a healer. And they, that particular energy will clear out drama in your body, conditioning in your body, your negating beliefs. It brings you back through the body to you feeling love within you. It opens up your heart. It opens up your energy channels. It literally will change the world if people understood how to make love rightly.

12:24So, when we look at all of that and we understand the power that love making creates, if we understand the healing that sexual energy brings in our connections bring, then you got to understand that the powers that be that want to keep everybody just empowered could not possibly just allow for such a magical, incredible, powerful tool of transformation to be available. Wow, yes, transformational, what sounds like? It's absolutely transformational. And not just within yourself, but think about it when you transform what happens. The quality of your relationships change. People that are happy, people that are satisfied, people that are in love, they don't want more, they don't want violence, they don't want to cause others pain, they want to love others. So, then we look at all of that and those that are in power understand that, the same way that they understand that food is our medicine, so they had to take care of the

13:28food, they understand that water is who we are as well, that is an essential part of us, so they control the water, they understand we need clean air to breathe, so they now take over the air, they've taken over every single part of everything that we need essentially as humans to have a good quality of life and love and sex is one of them. So, then you look at how did they do that? Yeah, we have religion and religion tells you your desire is dirty, your sex is bad, you need to repress yourself, your desire to want to have sex to connect is something that is sinful and shameful, you're not supposed to do it until whatever the reason is for many people is marriage exactly, so what they create is repression, now what happens when you repress anything?

14:28It grows, it grows, that's why when you look at countries and cultures that have a lot of religious taboo around sexuality, they're usually countries that have a lot of violence, a lot of sexual abuse, a lot of rape. Wow, I didn't know that, but that makes sense. It makes sense, so then if you're going to repress something, there's going to be a polar opposite, what's the polar opposite? Surprise. Well, let's say suppressed and repressed, that's the same group, that's the same hanging out, what are you doing on the other side, perversion, over sexualization, now you've got porn, now you've got kink, you've got, I mean how many people go to church, repress themselves, feel shameful about their desire and then their closet masturbators watching pornography, and a lot of times it's not even your regular sex, it's kink stuff, it's violent stuff,

15:33it's perverted stuff, it's animal stuff, I mean, just think about that, I think that we really don't take the time out to look at life from an outside perspective, because we're so used to being humans in such an insane and backward society that we somehow some way think it's normal, we might not think it's normal, but we think like that's how life is, and I'm saying, what do you think, just imagine aliens come down, and they're looking at us, and how we operate and how we think, and what we're satisfied with, and what we're entertained with, I mean, that's another thing, how are we even entertained with things that we watch, in most movies and most shows, where everything that we consume has violence, um, overshadow it, yeah, the frequency of the music, the frequency of the music, the frequency of the movies, but again, who's controlling that, yeah, because if you hijack

16:41every part that of what humans seek out, because we seek connection, we seek entertainment, we want to have joy, right, but I mean, there's days when I may be sitting around thinking, oh, it'd be so nice to watch a movie, and then I get to turning on, let's say, Netflix, and you start watching the trailers, I can't bear watching movies. Yeah, it makes you feel terrible, because everything is so violent, it's so backwards to nature, people are always in conflict, there's always fights, there's not even romantic movies out there anymore that actually build up beauty, and if you think about it, it's like the chicken and the eggs people will see like, oh, but that's just life, what you see in movies is just life, and I'm saying, is it really, or are we consuming all of that, and then regurgitating it, and saying that that's life, right, what came first, because just imagine, what if there is a Netflix, but every single movie showed beauty, every single movie showed how to resolve conflict through harmony, how to do things

17:45lovingly, how to use superpowers, your intuition, how to be accessing states of yourself that are truly divine, what if that was the programming that we were receiving, what did you think the world would look like? Be a lot better, you could say, Guy is kind of doing that right? Yeah, but Guy is a lot of educational stuff, you know, and they do put out some movies, but we're not talking about high quality productions, movies, entertainment, stories, you know, we're not talking about that, I was on the airplane actually on the way here, I watched a movie, I watched a new version of Snow White. How was it? Beautiful and yet so much propaganda and programming. I mean, it's different. I mean, the remake is beautiful, but when you look at the story in itself, it is filled with trauma, and you know, I look through the lens of trauma because I work with a lot of people, and a lot of people come to me for trauma of all different kinds, all different kinds, and even if you had a fairy tale childhood, your pants love you, everything's great,

18:49do you realize that they try to get you even through their movies? Because when you watch the movies in Snow White, and it's funny, I come here to do a podcast about sex, and here we're talking about Snow White, but a little girl loses her mother, there's a grief there, her father gets killed, there's grief there, she gets an evil mother who kills her, like the whole movie is filtered through a lens of pain, but these movies are supposed to be for kids. So kids are being traumatized and directly, even if they have a great childhood just through watching and consumption of that. Yeah. Which is complete insanity. Yeah, cartoons have changed over the years. I feel like, because I used to watch them growing up, they were way more innocent. Yeah, but I understand, I feel like everything's going up and not, but like, think about Tom and Jerry back in the days, all that, everything has always had,

19:51everything that has been created and funded by those in power, because they do control the media, they control everything that is significant to our consumption as humans is controlled by very small group of people. Wow. And if they are the ones in control, they are controlling the experience of your reality while you are living in this society, in this culture, in this world, basically, because of this point, we don't, anywhere you go in the world, wow, I was going to say any rake on the world, it's not really true, but the air is toxic in most places. They're being spread. Especially cities. And especially cities. So in most places, of course, not everywhere, but in most places and places where people are most concentrated is where we're poisoned the most to all different means. So I want to go back to the conversation of how we consume these things and the point, right? Why does porn look the way it does? Do we as humans in our exploration

20:55of our sexuality seek out to watch violence and get turned on by it? Seek out? No, we don't. Well, these days it seems like people, that's another, that's another topic and I'll get to it because at a certain point, you're conditioned with it and what you are exposed to gets entangled with your arousal and then you actually need it to be aroused. And that's a whole other thing. But what I'm saying is from the beginning, let's say you're a young boy and you just discover that there's something called sex and you Google it and you realize that you're getting an erection and you're like, wow, my body's alive and I want to explore this and you want to see something that is sexual. What is there for you to see on the internet that is even close to bringing beauty to another human? Porn. But what I'm saying is in porn, is it showing you how to bring beauty

21:58to another human? No, it's just physical. It's just physical and I mean it's, I'm so touched by having this conversation, have you answered because in a way, you're answering so innocently. While I'm picturing my first time watching it, it was literally in high school and exactly what you just described. Yeah, but the reason why I'm saying it like that is because you're thinking of regular porn, but do you know how much other types of porn and categories and kinks there are? Oh, I know. Yeah, stop watching porn. I hear about it. So, so what I'm saying is that there's there's a lot to consume, but even if we just stick to two people having sex in the porn video, they're not really loving each other. No, definitely. And when you go to nowadays where we look at free porn sites, did you ever see the documentary called Pornocracy? Was that the one against porn hub or no? And you porn? I think so. Yes, it wasn't so much against it. It was like a journal, a journalist investigating into who owns the porn industry. Yeah, that was Layla, right? Layla,

23:05Michael White. She's coming out. I don't remember the name. I think it was her thing. And at this point, I mean, the documentary is quite outdated, but I found it to be fascinating at the time, because I had been speaking about the fact that humans are giving their life force energy while masturbating to point. You're literally giving power, life force, while watching and participating in something. What is it? And who is providing for you that ritual? And what you learn in pornography, for example, is a very small group of people that are controlling the whole narrative of what you're getting conditioned with with your arousal. And here's the deep thing. If you start watching porn of a certain type, your body responds, right? Your body is going to

24:06respond because it responds to stimuli. It's seeing, it's seeing things. It's getting activated, right? And in that activation, if you have certain images that you don't want to see, because like I said, humans don't want to see violence when they're, unless they're already got some issues, but they don't want to see violence. I just want to see sex. But if that violence is infused, for example, if you're watching porn and what you're hearing is demeaning words being said, the conversation, even the titles to the porn, why are all the titles to the porn have a flavor of pedophilia? Yeah, stepbrother or something. Why? Why is it insistent pedophilia? Yeah. Who came up with the idea? And you got to remember who's controlling all of this, right? So who came up with the idea to infiltrate your arousal with insistent pedophilia ideas? So then you're watching adult women in schoolgirl outfits. You're watching women with completely

25:12shaven vaginas that look like vaginas of a 12-year-old girl versus a grown woman. And whether you like it or not, you even being an innocent 15-year-old that just wants to explore his body is being programmed with how your arousal is going to now, over time, be linked to certain images and ideas. And even, I mean, the topic of pedophilia for me is very, very close to my heart because I work, as I mentioned to you, I work with a lot of people that come to me for charm and allow that charm as sexual abuse and allow that sexual abuse. Shout out to today's sponsor Quince. As the weather cools, I'm swapping in the pieces that actually gets the job done, that are warm, durable, and built to last. Quince delivers every time with wardrobe staples that'll carry you through the season. They have false staples that you'll actually want to wear, like the 100% Mongolian cashmere for just $60. They also got classic fit denim and real leather

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27:18common it is and also how common it is for men because a lot of times when we think about sexual abuse, we just think it's it's more of a female thing because most men never share about their abuse experience and even less if it's sexual abuse. And so when we're looking at these images and pornography and masturbating to them and getting aroused by them, it's something simple. I mean it's people may think like wow she's over exaggerating but understand that when you when you understand the functions of the body and you understand that we are bio computers and you understand that we are programs subconsciously all the time through our consumption of what we consume. If your penis is responding to women wearing schoolgirl outfits and having shaven vaginas and then all of a sudden you actually see a schoolgirl with a shaven

28:18vagina your body is going to be programmed to respond. Your intelligent adult mind hopefully will say this is crazy and disconnect from the feeling but something will happen. And I don't think that we as a society are aware of how much programming we are getting for pedophilia through movies. And the way that children are being sexualized in movies through different angles through different conversations through how they speak. I mean it's been going on for years. And so again we look at how sexuality and sex has been weaponized because if you repress you pervert. So now that repression and that shame and that taboo and the sin and all the dirtiness creates even more intensity for I want to explore sexuality. And the way that you do it while

29:21hiding in your closet you know metaphorically speaking or not is by then being exposed to what they tell you it is. And with that programming yourself all the time to have very unnatural ways and distorted ways of loving, of loving physically. And then you also have to understand that in order for us to utilize our sexual connections for healing it's an energetic connection we have to being in the body we have to feel the reason why women are known to have to struggle with being orgasmic or having orgasms is because women are very much energetically oriented when it comes to sex they need to feel energy to have an orgasm men can get away with some rubbing and something will happen but even then it's a tiny fraction of the capacity of pleasure that they

30:21can experience but at least they haven't experienced but for women they need that energetic connection they were they came here to love they came here to be loved a woman has to experience her beauty from the inside out this is this topic is so huge like just look at women in this world to start what are they obsessing over what do you think women obsess over what do you think what do you think takes over their mental space culturally well the feminism movement is big right now so maybe equality i was not expecting that answer but that's one of it's definitely present what else just look at the industry what is one of the biggest industries on the planet beauty yes yes on so many levels why are women obsessed with that when they are them

31:24body meant beauty i'm with you and i love all natural beauty i hate makeup and all that women are the embodiment of beauty and they got tricked and they got tricked because they were never taught to experience the sensuality and the beauty of the energy that moves through them they don't enjoy their bodies they're disconnected from their bodies and by default it makes them be disconnected from their power and from their love women ought to be love embodied that is their thing wow that is their powerhouse this is their positive pull this is their place of power this should be the center ground for what women represents and why is it that we encounter manipulation from the feminine pain trickery like culturally when we look at what's going on you know when i watch social media clips so i'm just scrolling on instagram a lot of the interviews like the conversations that we're having as humans nowadays are complete insanity and all

32:28chords to anything that is bringing beauty to our world and women are starving to be seen to be admired to be loved and you know what the remedy is making love to her because in love making she gets to know herself that she cannot know herself otherwise to be physically loved in a female body is to be filled up with love look at the mechanics when a man puts his loving penis loving penis with energy his love pouring out of him like a fountain inside of her he fills her up with love that energy moves up to her heart it expands her it opens her it's a rarity nowadays but if you ever get to see a woman

33:29that has been well loved she is radiating she's glowing she is glowing you can tell honestly and men too but it's a different type of glow now i could tell when i meet a woman that's got a good love life you could tell pretty quick yes and and for a man to love is to be king to love is to be king because a man really will not know his power until he gets to witness the beauty that is reflected through the woman from what he brings to her in love with king love love so i got a big male audience you got to teach these guys how can they infuse their penis with some some love and some good energy i just got goosebumps so let me start by saying this i've been doing this work for 18 years almost 19 the first eight years that i did my work i worked exclusively with men so we're talking about thousands of men thousands of male bodies thousands of intimate conversations

34:33they've never had with anyone else about topics that they've never shared with anyone else and all of them make themselves small inside what do you mean by that i mean that most men are scared of their power well they don't operate from a place of power they operate from a place of i want to be a good guy i don't want to be historically what i've seen the patriarchy be i don't want to be the hashtag me too guy i don't want to be the rapey guy i want to be a good guy what does that mean they're holding back they're holding back and where they hold back the most is in their genitals most men are completely disconnected from their genitals energetically and you know a really simple exercise for the people watching or listening if i tell you to feel your hand without moving it you know just now feel your hand

35:36can you feel it well yeah can you feel your penis i would say yes but at the least do you see how you hesitated i feel the hand more yeah you feel the hand more so most men will feel their hand will feel their arm will feel their foot and when it comes to feeling their genitals energetically they can't find it wow there's no connection to that part of the body and there's no connection to it why because if the man wants to be a good guy he's scared of his desire he's scared of his sex and by default when you as a man disconnect from your sex you disconnect from your power you disconnect from your confidence you disconnect from the part of your body that you love and be loved through i mean think about it you love from that part of the body what a man sees a woman but he loves he goes oh i just love her so much i just want to be

36:40inside of her it's natural it's beautiful he wants to love her through that part of the body how does he feel loved how does a man feel loved he always gravitates everything toward his positive for his genitals hmm i mean think about it and i know it's kind of simplified what i'm sharing but when a man has given a really good blowjob he walks away going i think i love her sucks yeah it's when he feels the most loved and i'm not talking about again some pornographic friction oriented blowjob i'm not talking about that i'm talking about devotion i'm talking about adoration i'm talking about admiration i'm talking about love i'm talking about a woman not not just rubbing his penis to the point of ejaculation but making love to him with her mouths that's when he feels wow his heart opens up he feels love so we're talking about a part of

37:48his body that is there for loving and for being loved if you disconnect from that we're again talking about violence in the world right yeah again talking about frustration if people were all making love beautifully on this planet there would be no wars wow that's deep there would be no violence there would be no conflict because we would be in love with our own selves we would feel our beauty we would feel our worth we would have confidence we would feel powerful we wouldn't need to hurt we wouldn't need to dominate we wouldn't need to conquer you think there's been a time in history where it was like that in the past you know it's hard to say for me and i only say that because what do we know about history like a hundred years ago a lot of it's BS yeah we're just finding out so we don't know what life was like

38:50really five hundred years ago a thousand years ago i mean we don't even know what happened a hundred years ago because there's a whole tertiary and empire that is not spoken of but that existed i've had to unlearn so much history recently so it's hard for me to say i would i would say this i can't imagine that it never was like this hmm i can't imagine that because for me it is how it should be but i also understand that there have been forces on this planet that have created a lot of backwardsness and how long that's been i don't know like you said you've had thousands of people you've consulted with over the years you've talked them some of the most traumatized people do you see a pattern with with the trauma and the love making of course of course and and a big trauma and let me double back before i get to that because there's one more thing i want to add for the conversation with them

39:53to really understand how to make love to a woman as a man you have to be connected to your penis and so when we also speak about pornography is i'm not talking about some moral thing it's bad or wrong you should do this you should not do that i'm talking about what quality of man do you want to be who do you want to be for the people in your life who do you want to be for yourself how do you want to walk in the world do you want to be powerful or do you want to be somebody who's small disempowered just trying to make ends meet looking for validation and so if you want to be a powerful man and if you want to bring beauty to the woman in your life or a woman in your life you've got to be connected to your genitals so if you want to be a great lover you've got to connect to your genitals energetically and what does porn do i'm not talking about morals i'm not even talking about now what your consumption is i'm not talking about what you're

40:55watching talking about the fact that when you're awareness and your attention is on a screen it's not in your body so we're also talking about young generations now of young guys that are have access to the internet in ways that i did not when i was growing up and so they condition their bodies to get aroused through mental stimulation not their feeling and then they wonder or at least i will save and i wondered at the beginning because when i was doing this work i had men come to me for erectile dysfunction when they were older let's say over 60 yeah then it was over 50 and it was over 40 and it was over 30 and now you've got guys in their late and their early 20s saying i can't get an erection is that really a biological problem no no it's a feeling problem it's mental right yes i mean you can call it mental but i'm saying it's

41:58a disconnect from feeling because if you're all the time programming yours you're tricking your body to feel something through mental stimulation and then you get in a room with a real woman and now you got to feel how do you do that if all you've been doing is training yourself to get aroused and have your body respond to mental images yeah and then on top of that when people watch porn they're not you know sitting back for an hour watching some long video they're usually fast-forwarding it to different images because the mind always needs novelty how do you do that with a real human okay you can't so then how is your body gonna have enough novelty mental stimulation for it to get aroused by to respond to yeah all valid points so if a man wants to be a great lover he's got to connect to his penis to have energy there so cut off porn and what else should they do give them so essential massage without the mental stimulation sensual massage yeah so i'm calling it that because i don't want to call it masturbation because

43:03masturbation how most guys masturbate is actually very violent on their body they're jerking yeah they're rubbing they're being hard on it they're not listening to their body a lot of times you know when i'm working with people even in workshops because we we work on the genital area of the body everybody's got clothes on energetically you can even do it with no touch but when we do that the things that come up for a lot of men as they start crying while and they start crying because of the abuse that they've endured in that part of the body and i'm not talking about abuse from outside you know sexual abuse i'm talking about the abuse of masturbating too rough sometimes do a full ton today having sex too rough and it's not even some i don't care how often somebody's doing it how are you doing it what is the quality of touch that you're bringing to your body yeah and so if you want to cultivate power and strength for one you've got to stop losing your seat all the time you've got to spilling it everywhere we're talking about life force

44:06but most importantly you have to cultivate intense power in that part of the body which means that you do engage with that part of the body and i'm calling it sensual massage because i want people to understand that it's different from masturbation but for people that masturbate sensually i would say do what you do with masturbation but get all the mental pictures out right and not just porn mental pictures in your mind too really of course because it's about feeling it's about sensation see we've over sexualized everything it is so strange to me that somebody could see boobs and get an erection that's strange to you of course really and i mean think about it if you go into places where there's tribes you think that in tribes where they're naked all the time they're running around with erections when women are just walking around topless this is cultural think about that in in tribes where people are naked or almost naked how do they get turned on there's gotta be something different you don't think they got turned on from seeing a naked girl

45:08but if everybody's naked all the time yeah they probably get used to it of course you get used to it so then you there has to be something else and why do we get so turned on i mean think about it like you won't get turned on if you see my elbow no no but in some cultures where people are covered up all of the time a little bit of arm came create an erection in the man right right so again we're talking about conditioning we're talking about cultural stuff we're talking about again repression perversion repression over sexualization yeah because now on Instagram you scroll as a naked girl with her butt and guys get turned on but isn't that a little bit weird never thought a bit that way i just assumed men are naturally just attracted to to beauty like that but is it beauty that we're looking at the body isn't the body beautiful but the body is exceptionally beautiful but is what turns them on beautiful because look i'm not here to shame

46:15people on their decisions but since when did plastic sex inside a body turn on a man plastic stuff i'm saying it like that like a condom you mean no i'm talking about breast implants i'm saying it like that because if we're talking about the body being beautiful and the body's magical it's miraculous it's it's incredible the liveliness that comes the beauty of the breasts the breasts are exceptionally beautiful yeah but at what point because someone will do this they will actually want their girl to get breast implants that's crazy to me it is crazy and what i'm saying is that at what point did that become something where beauty is putting plastic sex in your body yeah no that's a really good question it's concerning that woman feel like they have to do that to their bodies these days honestly and now it's with their butts right and it's always

47:18something else and then the lips and then it's at what point did we stop celebrating beauty and life because now what we're focusing on is just parts yeah i think over sexualized parts oh yeah and i'm saying it like that because look you need for you to feel something in love making you got to feel energy 100% how are you going to feel a fully alive body that has been chopped up caught open traumatized in so many different ways completely disembodied how how is that a turn on and i and i want to save this from the depth of my heart for the women that have done through this because look we live in a sick culture we receive so much like it literally brings tears to my eyes because i got nothing but love for these women and my journey with these women is that

48:20no matter what they've done to their bodies they've got to at some point start loving they've got to start loving their bodies and whatever place they're at however it is and stop over sexualizing on themselves because they're hurting themselves immensely i think a lot of them feel pressure because of social media they're constantly comparing themselves and turn that shit off easier to have been done is it i mean you're off-grid in Mexico living in America in a major city good luck with that but look i'm not off-grid you know no i'm not off-grid and i'm very much involved with people because i work with people well you know how to control your emotions and your your um you have good self-awareness i don't think most people have those skills i'm human we're all human but at some point we have to make really strong decisions i i i'm not perfect now i was never perfect i've had a life of all kinds of experiences in my life but at some point you have to choose you i'm big on that i'm not and i'm not saying that it's easy

49:26but i'm saying that when things happen in our life that brings shock even something like what happened yesterday something has to move in you to say which side of life am i going to be on the one that uplifts or the one that reaffirms insanity the one that continues to cause pain or the one that brings healing you have to make that choice otherwise you're going to keep feeding the monster when it's really not even your fault because it was handed to you it was programmed into you and it's a virus that you're running in your bio computer and you got to understand that you do have the power to uninstall it's not who you are we are not bad people we are not evil we are divine loving beings that picked up some bad software programs and we have the capacity to

50:29unplug and unplugging is not about you know running away from life and plugging is saying i choose me and i choose love and i choose truth and i choose life really well said you have such a powerful message i felt a really strong connection with us like i can't believe it's been 50 minutes this flew by i could talk to you for hours we're enough to film a part too yeah i dodges flew by yeah i'm like really fast and that's not even touching the surface there's so much to it because the thing is it's you know i yes i'm a sex teacher and yes i'm a spiritual teacher but it's not about sex it's about life and sex is a big part of it it's such an essential part of who we are but it impacts every aspect of our existence of our life and even events like yesterday yeah well you have your own events too right where can

51:30people keep in touch with you so i i do in-person workshops i actually have one in october in November i don't know when this will be aired we'll link it in the video yeah great and i and i created recently so as you know i i mentioned to you that i used to do a lot of private sessions yeah a lot i stopped offering private sessions to the general public and i still continue to work with high profile individuals and in place of those private sessions i created an online membership where we explore what most people don't and love truth and errors and it is i highly highly recommend it because we we do energy work this is another topic we didn't even touch on this yeah we'll buy you orgasms i wish i could experience that one though without touch that's crazy and then imagine doing it online with people from all over the world know what all at the same time because you're not limited by time and space and then on top of

52:36that there's so look the online community that i have there's so many resources there's so many tools and i know the people are there because they love the work but what i love are the people because when you are living in a city and you look at the world and you say like gosh this world is fucked and then you come into a community that is really truly about love and truth and it nourishes you and it feeds you and people meet each other and it's like this is what life should be it's beautiful we'll include that link to the community as well Sasha thanks for your time yeah we're gonna have to do this again because i still have so many questions for you yeah but thanks are common thank you so much for having me it's been a pleasure checker out guys check out the community check out her events i'll see you next time i hope you guys are enjoying the show please don't forget to like and subscribe it helps the show a lot with the algorithm thank you