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S6 E6: Your Leadership Era Starts Now with Jessica Winder
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Hot take: Nobody is inherently a good leader. Being a leader is a learned skill.
What does it really take to be a good leader?
It’s not about being perfect, having all the answers, or walking in like a natural-born boss! Leadership is messy, vulnerable, and learned.
In this episode, my unofficial co-host (and leadership guru) Jessica Winder is back to break it all down.
We talk about why vulnerability is a must (not an option), how to lead when you have zero authority, and why leadership isn’t a natural-born trait—it’s a skill you grow over time.
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00:01:35 - Jessica’s Background
00:03:45 - One Thing That HR People Should Rethink
00:06:30 - What Does it Mean to be a Leader?
00:11:57 - How Jessica’s Leadership Style Evolved Over the Years
00:16:13 - When Jessica Realized Leadership as Her Zone of Genius
00:19:20 - Common Myths About Leadership, Debunked
00:23:38 - What Qualities Differentiate a Good Leader From a Great Leader?
00:30:40 - Balancing Empathy and Decision-making as a Leader
00:36:48 - Advice for People Stepping Into Their First Leadership Role
00:38:27 - What Leadership Could Look Like in 5-10 Years
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