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S13 E1: The Return of the Cackle Queens (with Jess Winder)
About this episode
Guess what? The Cackle Queens are back!
My unofficial co-host and forever hype woman Jess Winder joined me to kick off this season, and we did something new.
We hit record and just let the convo happen with no notes, because who needs prep when you’ve been doing this job for way too long?
We're diving into where HR has been, where it's headed, and why "defund HR" isn't as controversial a take as you'd think if you've worked in old-school HR.
We also get into three totally different futures HR could have, and what to tell yourself when you're so burnt out you can't imagine one more evolution of this job.
It’s a little bit unhinged, but what else would you expect?!
00:00:00 - Intro
00: 05:17 - The Biggest Shift in HR Since 2020
00:08:48 - Old HR Morals vs. New HR Morals
00:24:12 - Would You Outsource HR to a $50/Month "HR in a Box" Service?
00:26:49 - Jess's Wildest HR Era: Touring Actual Crime Scenes
00:30:44 - Hebba's 3 Possible Futures for HR: Performance, Full-Cycle, or Architect
00:40:15 - What to Do When Your Company Just Wants "Yes People"
00:42:53 - Advice for HR Folks Who Are Burnt Out and Ready to Quit
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