
About this episode
In this episode, we explore the relationship red and green flags we once held, how our perspectives have evolved, and what signs we’ve learned to trust—or let go of—over time.
Chapter flags
00:00 Intro
01:45 Red flags others saw in us
07:12 Red and green flags that we’ve seen
10:55 Accountability red flag
12:00 Vulnerability green flag
15:33 Chicken-eating red flag
19:18 Religious red flag
23:02 Step-parent green flag
26:38 Availability red flag
29:31 Man being the only protector red flag
33:08 Red flag or orange? Do they evolve?
35:14 Episode 7 Mea Culpa
41:37 Black History Month
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