
About this episode
Outbursts, tantrums, meltdowns… whatever you call them, they’re not fun!
But your kids are not hardwired to deal with their emotions, it’s a skill they learn over time, and it’s your job as parent to support them and encourage them to develop those skills.
It’s not easy - I can attest to that, having raised two kids myself! And that’s why in this episode I help you understand what causes emotional outbursts, how these present themselves in different ages and stages, and what you can do to support them.
So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation…
Highlights from this episode:
00:59 - Fear of judgement
02:32 - Emotional regulation is learned
07:43 - Verbal and physical escalations
10:35 - The teen years
14:08 - The biggest causes of emotional outbursts
18:23 - How to handle outbursts
23:10 - Keep them safe
27:17 - What is the skills gap?
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