
Is Being a ‘Pick Me’ Actually THAT Bad? 👀 | EP.85 | We Just Got Here Podcast
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*Disclaimer* Got Here Gang - huge apologies in advance for the audio issues. We experienced some technical difficulties this week but wanted to give you your Thursday fix (because consistent babes!). We'll make sure we're back on top form next week x
This week’s episode of We Just Got Here Podcast is chaotically self-aware 💅😂
Steph & Tia dive deep into the “Pick Me” conversation — asking the real question: is being a pick me really that bad? Or is it just loving out loud in a world that clowns you for it? 👀
From “strict babe” cosplay to the pick me traits that give us the ick, the girls get brutally honest (and hilarious) about dating dynamics and the fine line between being strict and being a red flag.
Plus, this week’s Reddit Realness is pure chaos — a woman’s marriage is on the line after her brother-in-law accidentally saw her naked 😭💀
⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
01:51 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
24:31 – Cosplaying as a Strict Babe / Being a Pick Me Is OK?
45:44 – Pick Me Traits That Give Us the Ick
51:13 – Reddit Realness: “My husband wants a divorce since my brother-in-law saw me naked.”
59:04 – Adult Finds of the Week
Adult Finds of The Week:
Steph: https://shorturl.at/OVZNy
Tia: https://shorturl.at/amwQm
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