
Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
About this episode
Have you ever been rejected? Roy Kim explains how rejection and internalized racism drove him to pornography. He also opens up about what it's like to struggle with with porn as a pastor—and as a male betrayed partner. Roy offers real hope through the power of compassion and community.
Roy Kim, M.Div, CSAT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Southern California focusing on sexual addictions and betrayal trauma. He is a former pastor and enjoys partnering with pastors to educate churches about sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Roy facilitates groups for sexual addiction, and betrayed partners, and facilitates specialized groups for pastors with sexual addiction. He also hosts the SA Speakeasy Podcast, which centers around sexual addiction conversations.
Connect with Roy here...
- Website: newlegacycounseling.com
- Instagram: @thisisroykim
- Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sa-speakeasy/id1438434927
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