
Stop Faking Orgasms: Self-Love, Authentic Pleasure & Sexual Empowerment ft. Heloise Haupt
About this episode
An estimated 67% of women have faked an orgasm — and for self-love and intimacy coach Heloise Haupt, that number was 15 years of her own life. In this episode, Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer, DNP, sits down with Heloise to explore what drives women to fake pleasure, what it costs them, and how to finally stop. This conversation goes far deeper than technique — it is about self-worth, shame, vulnerability, and the transformative journey of learning to know, own, and ask for what you actually want. Topics covered: why women fake orgasms and the psychological toll it takes over time, the connection between self-worth and sexual pleasure and why you cannot separate them, shame around sexuality and how it blocks authentic intimacy, self-exploration and body knowledge as the foundation of genuine sexual satisfaction, the transition from performing pleasure to experiencing it authentically, vulnerability and open communication as the keys to deeper intimacy with a partner, how self-pleasure practices change your relationship with your body and your partner, personal growth and self-acceptance as essential components of a fulfilling sex life, and what working with a self-love and intimacy coach actually looks like.
Find Heloise at heloisehaupt.com and on Instagram at @heloise.haupt.
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