E485 Ask Nick - Emotionally Unavailable Or A Jerk?

Welcome back to another juicy and exciting episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! On this show, we're here again to help you navigate through the crazy world of dating, relationships, and situationships, by taking your calls and answering your questions! We bring on our first caller who wonders if she should confess the feelings she's developed for her brother's best friend after flirting with him. Now that this guy says he no longer has a girlfriend, our caller wonders if it's best to be direct, asking him out to get an answer to the question of if he's actually interested in something more than a flirt. Our next caller joins and asks for advice about what to do after her best friend seems to have ghosted her. Struggling with what seems to be the death of a friendship, our caller wonders if she should reach out or just try to move on, finding a healthy new chapter in her life. Our last caller feels that she isn't getting the emotional support she needs from her consistent monogamous friends with benefits she's been seeing for over a year, with this guy giving very unsupportive and disengaged responses when our caller reveals that her mom is in the late stages of cancer. Feeling the desire to focus on her family and move on, she wonders if all jerks are replaceable. 

"He 'customer serviced' you!" 

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