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E269: Tie-Breakers: We Referee Your Realest Relationship Standoffs
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Every couple has that one thing they’ll argue about until the end of time. TV in the bedroom. How to load the dishwasher. Can men and women just be friends? 👀
We asked our community to send us the disagreements they just can’t seem to settle with their partner, and today we’re weighing in as your official referees.
💛 In this episode, you'll hear:
💋 Is oral foreplay or the main event?
🐾 If the pet falls asleep on your lap, are you officially off chore duty?
👀 Can men and women really be just friends? Our take.
✂️ Who gets the final say when it comes to grooming and body hair?
🕯️ Want more fun, flirting, and connection with your partner every single month?
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Simple ways to reconnect, even on your busiest weeks
Something you can actually look forward to doing together without having to plan a thing
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