Chairs in Paris

What if the key to reclaiming your attention — and your life — was hidden in a simple moment, like noticing chairs in Paris?

In this thought-provoking episode, I’m joined by Ruby Ryba, former high school math teacher turned screen time strategist and author of How to Stop Scrolling. Ruby brings a refreshing blend of insight, warmth, and wit as we explore our complex relationship with technology and the subtle ways it shapes how we live, think, and connect.

Drawing from her background in education, her deep interest in psychology, and her own lived experience, Ruby invites us to look beyond how much we’re on our phones and ask the more important question: why. Through relatable stories, research-backed strategies, and plenty of “aha” moments, she helps listeners understand attention as a skill that can be reclaimed — not a moral failing.

The metaphor of the chairs in Paris becomes a powerful lens for slowing down, becoming more present, and rediscovering what we miss when we’re constantly scrolling. Ruby’s approach is empathetic, practical, and refreshingly realistic — offering adjustments that actually fit real lives, not rigid rules.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why screen time is about more than habits — it’s about meaning and needs
• The psychology behind scrolling and digital distraction
• How awareness can lead to freedom, not guilt
• Practical, compassionate strategies to reclaim your time and attention
• The story behind the chairs in Paris — and why it matters

This is an essential and deeply relevant conversation for anyone feeling stretched thin, distracted, or disconnected in a tech-heavy world. A podcast not to be missed.

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My website is www.andrewjobling.com.au