
31. Being ‘Nice’ Is Costing You Your Confidence
About this episode
This one’s for every woman who’s ever felt like being "nice" was the only way to be loved. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the Nice Girl Identity — the one where you're agreeable, accommodating, and always available… even when it costs you your time, your truth, and your energy.
In this episode I talk about:
Why the “Nice Girl” is a survival strategy, not a personality trait, and i’s keeping you stuck, resentful and disconnected from your power.
The hidden cost of self-abandonment in your relationships, your work, and your self-worth.
How to start breaking free, reclaim your voice, and set loving, embodied boundaries.
You’ll walk away with deeper compassion for yourself and tangible ways to step into a version of you that doesn’t hustle for worthiness.
And if you’re ready to go deeper, join me in Boundary Queen — doors are now open.
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