
About this episode
Jessa Zimmerman is a licensed couples’ counselor and nationally certified sex therapist. She works in private practice in Seattle, WA. Over the course of her therapy career, she has focused almost exclusively on helping couples with their emotional and sexual intimacy.
In her years of clinical experience, Zimmerman has treated hundreds of couples who have struggled to feel sexual desire and fulfillment. Her clients describe having a good relationship in other ways, but their sex life has become difficult to the point that they start to avoid sex. These are people who love each other but are struggling to have a sex life they both enjoy.
She specializes in helping these couples who find that sex has become stressful, negative, disappointing, or pressured. She educates, coaches, and supports people as they go through her 4 pillar experiential process that allows them real world practice in changing their relationship and their sex life, guiding them to become easily intimate.
How do you become “easily intimate”?
How Hollywood messes us up.
You have a video “no libido, no problem” tell us more
Talk about how “low libido” is just desire discrepancy
How can women be more engaged in sex?
Top three mistakes of the lower desire person – believing you are broken, wanting partner to stop initiating, thinking that it is all or nothing
How to create a sex life that has zero stress.
“it’s neuroscience people, it’s okay” – Dr. C
“Obligation is not sustainable” – Jessa Zimmerman
Sex is a playground, not a football field
Link to “Sex Without Stress: A couples guide to overcoming disappointment, avoidance and pressure”
https://amzn.to/3vNPZda
Instagram: www.instagram.com/intimacywithease
Better Sex Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-sex/id1329973865
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