Why We Left New York for a Romanian Homecoming

Join me on a truly special episode of Wereabout Tales as he chats with Anthony and Sam, an inspiring American couple who made the unconventional leap to move to Romania. Anthony, who was adopted from Romania as an infant, and his wife Sam, to explore their incredible journey.

From the outset, their story challenges perceptions. They delve into the stark cultural differences between the US and Romania, discussing the decline of community in America post-9/11 and the profound sense of belonging they discovered in their new home (0:57). Anthony shares the deeply personal and emotional tale of tracing his biological roots, a journey initiated by Sam's curiosity, and the surreal experience of reuniting with his birth family through the 'Never Forgotten Romanian Children' network (16:43). The conversation poignantly addresses the 'trolley problem' of his adoption, revealing the heartbreaking circumstances of extreme poverty his Roma family faced in post-communist Romania (35:53), offering a rare and empathetic perspective on a complex issue.

Their decision to leave the overwhelming grind of New York life for Romania wasn't instantaneous but solidified after Sam's unexpected panic attack post-holiday (47:58). They candidly discuss the challenges—from navigating Romanian bureaucracy, including Anthony's complex citizenship process (50:54), to the surprisingly difficult task of apartment hunting with two cats (1:05:02). Yet, they’ve found unexpected joys, like discovering a passion for making music (1:07:30) and embracing local delicacies like *slanina* and *pufuleti* (1:31:04).

Anthony and Sam's journey is a powerful testament to open-mindedness and embracing the unknown. They encourage listeners, especially prospective expats, to 'leave your preconceived notions about Romania at the door' (1:23:10) and discover its rich, diverse regions and warm hospitality. Living in Sibiu, they continue to immerse themselves in Romanian life, with exciting plans including recording their second album and potentially buying a home. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about life abroad, cultural exchange, or the profound power of self-discovery.