
Why Survivors Leave & Return: Understanding Abusive Relationships - Betty
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In this powerful and important episode of Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn & Friends, I'm joined by Betty, a specialist domestic assault support worker, to answer the questions so many people are afraid to ask.
We discuss what actually happens after a sexual assault, why reporting rates are so low, the barriers survivors face, and what support is available.
Betty also shares practical advice on consent, trauma responses, supporting a loved one, and the myths that continue to surround sexual violence.
This episode contains discussions of sexual assault, rape, consent, coercion and trauma. Please take care while listening.
Whether you're looking to educate yourself, support someone you care about, or better understand the realities of sexual violence, this conversation is honest, informative and incredibly important.
🎙️ In this episode we cover:
• What happens after reporting a sexual assault
• Why so many survivors don't report
• Consent and common misconceptions
• Trauma responses explained
• How to support someone after an assault
• The criminal justice process
• Available support services
• Prevention, education and changing the conversation
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