Why Is Everything So Gay? - Scrolling w/ Hayley (Ep. 251)

0:00This episode is brought to you by Colaguard. Do you know what's really scary, not screening for colon cancer when you turn 45? The Colaguard test is non-invasive, requires no special proper time off work, and ships right to your door. In just three simple steps, Colaguard takes the scare out of colon cancer screening. If you're 45 or older and at average risk, ask your healthcare provider about the Colaguard test. Colaguard is available by prescription only. Learn more or request a prescription today at colaguard.com slash screen. Hello, and welcome to the show. I am Haley Kareny. I hope everyone had a great weekend. I am going to do a deep dive today, a little bit of a deep dive. I did one of these last week on ozempic and hollywood, but this one is about just how gay the world has become. So we're starting with the Biden administration. You know, a Biden era grant is under fire for funding gay maps or making maps more gay. You take a trip down memory lane, reminiscing about how gay, the Biden administration was,

1:03and I mean that quite literally. But it got me thinking, why is everything so gay now? Everybody's gay. Everybody's talking about gay people, gay rights, gay pride, trans visibility. There are days, weeks and months dedicated to the LGBTQ community. Is it really just because our society is more accepting now or is there a concerted effort to push and propagandize our society through TV shows, social media, our environment? And yes, as Alex Jones famously said, the water, which is turning the frogs gay. If the frogs can turn gay, can it also turn us gay? They called Alex Jones crazy. They called him a conspiracy theorist, but it's just another one that came true. So today, I'm doing a deep dive on the feminization of society, why men and women aren't even attracted to each other anymore, and what this means for the future of civilization. No sex, no babies, no future, it really is that deep. So put your phones on Do Not Disturb, scrolling with Haley, starts right now.

2:17So we've heard they're turning the frogs gay, but have you heard that they're turning the maps gay? This is Congressman Brian Mast, he's asking about Biden-era grants, making maps gay? Watch. Can you tell me what is querying the map? So I think we were trying to make the maps more gay. Literally? Well, how do you make a map more gay? I mean, especially gay at all. You know, since the age of cartography, we've had pretty good maps, but maybe they weren't gay enough. So I know also, I took critical theory in college. I think sometimes people use queers or verb. I do understand that the maps that we were trying to make gay were, I think, of Czechia and Slovakia. So maybe those countries asked for it. I doubt it, but I don't know. We do have real things to work on in Congress, like what's going on with the imminent threat of Iran, and it is embarrassing that we have to talk about the fact that things like this were funded. I don't even know if this is possible. I don't even know if she's talking about the same thing.

3:19Because when I looked into this Biden era grant, it was from the State Department. To Brian Mast's point here, he is just gobsmacked that the State Department is focusing on making maps gay. And by her answers, you would think that they're trying to make maps from Czechoslovakia gay. I actually don't think that she had an understanding of what this grant was, and she was kind of just riffing and hoping to get to the end of her sentence, sort of like a Kamala Harris moment. But I looked into this queering the map thing, and it's just this website where people can put their gay stories on it. So I don't really know what this has to do with Czechoslovakia or like any other country for that matter. I don't really know why the State Department was funding this. But this is the website, queeringthemap.com if anyone wants to go there. But you could see, this is, you could see it's Long Island, New York, New Jersey, the

4:20whole country down to Florida here. And the map is filled with these little pin points, these black pin points. And you can click on them, and it just says, you know, here's an example of one. You're telling boy with the last name, Hollis, you're always, you're telling me your name's a curse, but here I am hoping you'll be kind enough to share with me one day. I love you very much. A gay non-binary guy from Florida. So you just click on them, and it's just gay people basically telling their story. Like this is where I live. This is where I realize my identity is non-binary, and where I got my partners. You click around this map, and gay people can just add to it, sort of like a Wikipedia where you can just pick a page and start adding to it. That's what this is. This is gay story Wikipedia. Like the internet has the opportunity to add their own story here. So yeah, I don't know what's going on over here. I fell in love with a girl online two hours away.

5:23We've been together for 10 months. I'll meet her soon. You guys get it. We don't need to, we don't need to go through all of these stories, obviously. But this just goes to show that this is a project, quote unquote, a project that the State Department was funding. And apparently $72,000 was allocated for a version of this map to be focused on Slovakia and maybe in other areas. So I don't really understand what the purpose of this is, and I definitely don't understand why the State Department needed to fund it. But this just kind of is how things work in Congress, right? And in our government, there is a budget and Democrats for the most part are pushing dumb stuff that nobody really wants, like, you know, queering the map, for example. And then they have to pull this funding from somewhere and they pull funding from agriculture,

6:27education, homeland security, like all these different departments. They just have to balance the budget somehow. So they pulled funding for this retarded project from the State Department. Now to Brian Mast's point, don't we have bigger fish to fry? Of course we do. But we're talking about the Biden administration here who was seriously committed to being gay. And let's just go through this, right? Because Biden was coming onto the scene. He was campaigning, saying we are going to put gay people first. We are going to put trans people first. They're all about visibility. They're all about acceptance. They are all about what do they say? Not visibility. They're so obsessed with representation, right? See so that gay people can see themselves in government. Like this is somehow important, right? As if gay people don't feel like they could work in the government. I mean, this is nothing new. But anyway, he had people to judge, transportation secretary, super gay, right?

7:29He is also most known for nothing that he did in office, by the way. But when I think of Mayor Pete, I think gay guy. And that really shouldn't be the first thing that I think of when I think of you, especially if you've held government positions, shouldn't you have something else under your belt that I can think of? The only other thing that I can think of, just feeding. So again, it's just I think of Mayor Pete and I think of his sexuality. And that's what the Democrats care about. They run on nothing else. They make it their entire personality. And again, he was proudly touted as the first openly gay cabinet member, even though Trump appointed Rick Grinnell as acting DNI during his first term. But because he was acting and not the actual director of national intelligence, they, you know, Democrats skirt past that. They don't care about Republican gays. They only care about the gays that want to make it their whole personality. So the first quote unquote openly gay, whatever.

8:29And same with Kareen Jean-Pierre, she was the first openly gay and, oh, who's this? Super gay. Oh, super gay. I was like, wow, you put that together real quick. Super gay. Yeah. Yeah. That's him. That's him. And then at Kareen Jean-Pierre, first openly gay and black White House press secretary can't forget that, right? She was, and a woman, right? She is like the triple threat minority victim gay, black woman, wow, you can't get higher on the totem pole in the eyes of the Democrat party than Kareen Jean-Pierre. But isn't it funny that they have to say first openly gay because there were probably gay people in the past who served in prestigious roles and they didn't care to come out or make it their whole personality. And obviously, in years past, being gay was less accepted in society. So I could see some people wouldn't want to make it their whole personality.

9:29And with it being more accepted, we've gotten more insufferable people who make it a huge deal rather than just something about them. We have to know it first and foremost. Then of course, we get into the transgender's Rachel Levine, highest ranking openly transgender government official in US history after being, this is such a jump scare. I mean, this is US assistant secretary for health, most likely pumped full of hormones and other gender affirming drugs, also might I add overweight. So secretary of health, assistant secretary of health, you know, it's not looking good for this gentleman with long hair. Then of course, we have Sam Brinton, the luggage stealer. He was the deputy assistant secretary of spent fuel and waste disposition in the office of nuclear energy, which I didn't even know that these things existed, right? But here he is and all of his glory, lady in red, red lace dress, he's got the red lipstick

10:36on. There's something about the mustache and the red lipstick getting caught in the mustache. There's just something very wrong about this. But yeah, I would bet that he stole it. This is what he's known for. He's the luggage stealer. This is the guy that he was caught going through lady's luggage in the airport. He was caught stealing it and yeah, funniest bit of that whole saga was it wasn't like, oh, he did it once and it was like, it was like just constantly doing it. He's a total klepto. So yeah. And again, if you want to be a woman and you want to be open about it, wouldn't you want to go through the experience of like buying the clothes yourself? Like wouldn't this give him some kind of not having a mustache? Right. Like wouldn't you want to go about it the right way and not have to hide it any longer? Like I feel like if you're stealing things, you're hiding something. But this guy is out and wearing dresses. So it's like you're not. I don't know. The economy was pretty tough when he was stealing it. I kind of get like not being able to afford clothes for a couple of years.

11:40I think the Biden administration gas prices were way too high. He had to steal the dresses. He couldn't afford them. And then we had the Biden administration honoring trans people and the army saying that they make us very, very proud us, I don't know who they're talking about here, but this was the Department of then the Department of Defense. The account has since changed because of the Trump administration under Pete Hexeth. Now it's his Department of War, but the account was the Department of Defense, can we put it back up here? I'm going to read this. Sorry. So they said US Army, major Rachel Jones, Rachel, I'm putting in air quotes here, found solace after coming out as a transgender female, her journey from battling depression and suicidal thoughts to embracing authenticity inspires us all, hashtag why we serve. And then they put out like a little press release article on this gentleman that thinks he's a woman now.

12:41So again, this is who the Biden administration, out of all of the heroes in our military. And again, I don't take the mental health aspect of this lightly. I think it's very sad that these people are mentally ill. And there are a lot of transgenders that are, oh, the article is not there anymore. Page not found. Or error. I imagine that. Shout out to Sec War, Hexeth. Yeah. Shout out to Trump administration for getting rid of this gay stuff. No, but I really do take this seriously. It's very sad that these people are so mentally ill and they're suicidal. And then, you know, to add on to the fact that there are men and women that are serving in our branches of the military and they are depressed. They are suffering from PTSD. They are suicidal. And that is such a huge issue and like, you couldn't honor someone, you know, anyway, it just, it makes me sick that we're lifting up and honoring these people when it's, they're mentally ill for a different reason, not related to their service.

13:43And it just lifting up these people again, when President Trump did his state of the Union address and honored members of the military, you know, the Democrats couldn't even stand for this stuff. So it, they only stand for members of the military if they're gay or trans or, you know, they're getting their boob jobs paid for by the taxpayers. And you know, if you remember the don't say gay bill, Democrats also made a huge stink about that, including President Biden at the time because Florida governor Ron DeSantis, he wanted to pass it. It was actually the parental rights and education bill, but the Democrats just kind of rebranded it, don't say gay. And it's not really so much that teachers couldn't talk about being gay with kids. It was that you couldn't talk about sex and sexuality with children under fourth grade, which is completely reasonable, by the way. And even I would, I would push it even further than that. But I remember doing sex ed in school and like, I think fourth or fifth grade, we started

14:43doing sex ed in school. So I can understand how, you know, learning about reproductive health and things like that is important. But, you know, talking about sexuality with, you know, third graders and below is absolutely ridiculous. So, here is President Biden on the don't say gay bill calling it cruel watch. A transgender kid is a really harder thing. What's going on in Florida is, as my mother would say, close to sinful. I mean, it's just terrible what they're doing. It's not like, you know, a kid wakes up one morning and says, you know, I decided I want to become a man or I want to become a woman or I want to change. I mean, what, what are they thinking about here? They're human beings. They love their feelings. They have inclinations that are, I mean, it's just to me is, I don't know, it's cruel. And the way we do it is we make sure we pass legislation like we passed on same sex marriage.

15:44You mess with that, you're breaking the law, and you're going to be held accountable. It's sinful and cruel to not be able to talk about sex with third graders. This was the guy sitting in the oval office. It's so wild. He's the one sniffing kids hair and no one called him a pedophile. It was crazy. Only people in the right called him a pedophile. Now he's, it's sinful to not talk to third graders and below about sex anyway. And cruel, sinful and cruel. This is coming from a devout Catholic man, by the way. And Biden also called trans kids very brave. This was after he left office. So transgender people are some of the bravest Americans I know. But no person should have to be brave just to live in safety and dignity today on transgender day of visibility. I renew my commitment to building a healthy, safe, free and just future for trans people everywhere, not just in the United States, trans people everywhere, Biden.

16:48This is your legacy, man. This is your legacy. The Biden administration made such a commitment to make identity politics its top priority. That and ushering in millions of legals. Between those two, it's a toss up. I don't know what they cared about more. But having the first gay, the first trans, the first black, the first gay and black, the first black and Jamaican woman, the first, you know, all these cabinet members, that was the claim to fame for them. Not policy, whether or not you were gay, how gay are you? And it was something that they were very proud of. It was a campaign promise to their voting base. We will make you feel seen. We will make you visible if it's the last thing we do. Hence transgender visibility week leading up to transgender day of visibility with which Biden proclaimed on Easter Sunday one year when he was in office. Again, devout Catholic. Or so he says, and they took transgender visibility very seriously when they invited

17:52this transgender to the White House who flashed his fresh boob job on the front lawn. Remember this? Watch. Welcome to the White House. Thank you. Happy Pride Month. Happy Pride year. Happy Pride Month. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You are beautiful. You are heard. You belong. You are understood. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. Hey, you belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. You belong. The Bravest and most inspiring people out of the room. Are we topless at the White House? Topless at the White House. That was, yeah, that's a real doozy. in your VBL and your fresh boob job on the White House lawn. Yeah, that's the real way to show exactly what the Biden administration stood for. And yeah, I think they eventually the Biden

18:54Harris administration had to come out. KJP said something like, oh, well, we made them leave. We found out about this. They're not invited back to the White House. This is unacceptable. This is inappropriate. I mean, they had to because of the backlash. If there was no backlash and everyone was loving it, they probably wouldn't have said anything. But this is more than a political agenda to push homosexuality on our society. It's Democrat politicians that are completely bought in on this. So yes, homosexuality is pushed on us through politics, but also our media and our environment. And if you remember, when Alex Jones said the water was turning the frogs gay, well, that was just, you know, one of those crazy right wing conspiracy theories that just happened to come true, which I will get into right after this quick break. So I want to tell you about blackout coffee. You know how important my morning coffee is. So let me tell you about the one I've been loving lately. Blackout blackout coffee is a premium American coffee brand node for bold flavor, high quality beans, and roasting fresh right here in the US. Every order ships straight to your

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20:59I'm serious crap. I'm sick of being social engineer. It's not funny. I get it. He's impassioned. He's upset. He's angry. And he was the first one to do it and say it. And everyone made fun of him. What are you talking about? You're making the frauds gay. This is just some study or no one's talking about this. You know, the medical community loves to come out and say, well, no, that's not true. That's not what we've been saying for years. Therefore, you can't believe it. And Alex Jones was completely right. He was completely vindicated on this topic, even our own HHS Secretary RFK Jr. said this very thing on Joe Rogan's podcast, talking about Atrazine in our water watch. But they took Atrazine and they put it in a tank with 40 frogs, for three years. They put it below the exposure levels that EPA considers acceptable to humans. And 30 of those frogs, they were all male frogs. And they were double Z, you know,

22:04male frogs, so they were super males. And 30 of those frogs were chemically castrated. Four of them turned into females and produced fertile eggs. So they took male frogs, gave them Atrazine, 10% of them turned into female and produced fertile eggs. And we're subjecting our children to exposure to that every day. What is Atrazine? It's in the water. It's a pesticide. Yep. So pesticides that are all over our food, all over the grass, it is in our ground water, it is everywhere. And we are absolutely surrounded by poisons, not just pesticides, but poisons everywhere that are disrupting our hormones. And it is making people gay. And that frog study wasn't just turning the frogs gay, it was turning them female, completely female. It was transitioning these frogs. Like I know why we say on the

23:06show, being transgender is a farce. You can't actually become the opposite sex. This drug, this pesticide that we are exposed to, humans are exposed to is actually transitioning frogs. Male frogs genuinely becoming female and producing fertile eggs, that is what these liberals think can happen to transgender people. And again, humans and animals different, I get that, frogs, humans different species, I get that, also different levels. If we are exposing frogs to something versus the human being, it's going to look different. But our hormones are truly being disrupted by everything. And Dutch scientists actually just did a study on, I'm not going to use like earphones, earphones that you put in your ear, even over your ear. And they tested 81 pairs of these headphones. And these are on the market in Europe. And Eastern Europe, and they tested

24:12them for hazardous substances and toxins. And it turns out that they have a harmful range of chemicals in almost all of them. There were hazardous substances detected in every product they tested. So that was 81 different pairs of headphones and earphones. And what they have is this substance called BPA. And 98 percent of the substance, I'm sorry, 98 percent of the samples had this substance in it. And what happens is BPA and BPS, it mimics estrogen in organisms. So basically it can impact the feminization of males. It can produce the early onset of puberty in girls. And it can also cause cancer. So aside from just turning people gay or making them more feminine

25:13or what have you, it's causing cancer too. I mean these these chemicals are horrible for us. And they are in our ears as we're sweating. They are in our ears all the time, right? People work with ear pods in their air in their ears all the time, air pods, ear pods, whatever. And when you are sweating, the chemicals from these air pods can go into your body and be absorbed through your skin even. So it is obvious that our environment can impact hormones, certain hormone disrupting chemicals, can feminize men. And this study went viral a few weeks ago. And the mainstream media went crazy. They went in full gear slamming the MAGA influencers that shared the study. I think Ian Miles Chung, if you guys follow him, he posted this. And then there was like media might just touch and like all the liberal outlets were coming out saying MAGA influencers says air pods

26:16turn you gay blah blah blah. And they were desperately trying to debunk it. And they were even saying that Ian Miles Chung was misrepresenting the findings and he was misunderstanding it. But the findings say that these chemicals can feminize men. So right, he wasn't far off. He was saying exactly what the study was saying. And the medical community denies for whatever reason will sort of that disrupting hormones can impact sexuality. So I googled can hormone disruptors make you gay? That's what I put into Google. So if you all want to do this at home later on, you can search the same thing. This is what Google is going to spit back out at you. It says this scientific evidence does not support the claim that hormone disruptors endocrine disrupting chemicals can make a person gay. So they off the bat, Google says no, not true. While some studies suggest prenatal exposure to certain chemicals or extreme hormonal imbalances might

27:19influence sexual orientation. Okay, so first sentence they say totally not possible. You guys are crazy. And then well, I guess it could happen sometimes like literally the first sentence of the second sentence. It's a complete shift. Causal link between hormone disruption and changes in sexual orientation. They're saying that there's no direct link. No, it's not happening. It's kind of happening. There's no link. And this is from the NIH, by the way. So this is our government saying kind of sort of yes, it's happening. No, it isn't. You're crazy. Then it goes on because this is like Google Gemini is their AI and just like spits out some more information. So it says there's no causal link reviews indicate that hormonal changes including those from medical treatments or disorders do not alter a person's sexual orientation. Then it went into that prenatal study exposure saying but it's not definitive the effect is small. So

28:21basically it's not happening, but if it does happen and when it does happen, it's really not that bad. Like people aren't turning that gay. It's not happening all that often. This is the same mentality that they have with the transgenders. Well, why won't you let this transgender play on the women's sports team? It's not that many. But again, even though it's not that many to start off with, then one happens, then it's another, then it's five, then it's 10, now it's hundreds. So this study or this the AI is saying, well, this isn't really happening all that time, all that often. But again, we have to take that into consideration. It might not be happening all the time, but it could. We just don't know. Then they're talking about animal research, which is going to bring me back to the Alex Jones, Frogs or Gay sort of thing. So it says this, well endocrine disrupting chemicals can affect behavior and sexual development in wildlife. Human sexual orientation is far more complex and not directly comparable to animal studies. They call it misinformation,

29:26saying that endocrine disruptors like being on the pill, on birth control, can change sexual orientation. That is based on flawed studies, flawed scientists. That is not widely accepted. They just go in full defense mode, like even though there are studies that say this now don't believe them. So they're saying that while environmental toxins can affect overall reproductive health, no evidence that they can alter sexual orientation. My question is why? Why wouldn't disrupting hormones cause you to be gay? Or why couldn't it? I'm not saying it happens every time, but why couldn't it? And it gets me thinking about the whole birth control study. There's a study that says women who are on birth control are attracted to different kinds of men than they come off of birth control and their tastes change. And again, the medical community will say this is bonkers and you're crazy

30:28for believing it, but this seems to be happening, right? Women are attracted to more feminized men. And when you're on a hormonal birth control, your hormones are completely synthetic. It's not your natural hormones. This drug is telling your hormones what to do. It's not your natural cycle. And hormones can certainly impact pheromones and things like that. So why wouldn't that be true? Again, I'm not saying it's all the time. I have a bunch of friends who were on birth control, got married, got off birth control, had kids with their husband, wildly attracted to their husband still. I'm not saying this is foolproof and this is 100%, but why not look into the cases that are showing this? I think it's worth looking into. Instead of worth, you know, if you ask the medical community, they just wanted to bunk it right away. And if your hormones control your reproductive system, if your hormones control your sex driver, lack thereof, how could this not be involved?

31:31And these are the same medical professionals that will tell you that trans people are whatever they say they are. And not for nothing, they pump these people up with certain hormones and chemicals and they do have an impact on the way they look and feel. It doesn't turn them into the complete opposite sex like it did the frogs, but it certainly has an impact on their sex hormones and their reproductive organs. The same way that steroids can have effects on reproductive organs. So if that is true and widely accepted, then why are medical professionals saying, oh, there's absolutely no way our environment is feminizing men or having impacts on sexual orientation? I think they're afraid of that being the truth. And the Democrats and liberals and our society as a whole has essentially said that being gay is such a good thing. They're never going to come out and say that this is a bad thing. And it's not necessarily like good or bad, but it's happening and we should definitely talk about it. It's the truth. So our society is much gayer than it's ever been.

32:33And last year, this is a new study that came out that said that more women are identifying as gay even now than men. So that's crazy. There's a rapid rise in LGBTQ identity. And they found that most of this uptick in the last decade is happening among women. Less than a decade, the percentage of women who identified as LGBTQ has more than tripled. This is wild. Way more women gay than men, which this kind of shocked me. I would think that there's maybe more gay men. You don't really hear about as many lesbians I feel like, but I would also say that when it comes to the trans community, not just lesbian and gay, but when it comes to the trans community, there are more trans women than there are trans men. So more men are transitioning to women than there are women transitioning to men. And that metric is about a three to one ratio. So there's way more men becoming women

33:38than women want to be men. So I think more women are becoming lesbians and then more men are attempting to become women. So especially in the LGBTQ community, our society is feminizing. And again, it's not just environmental factors. It is also media propaganda campaigns as well. And it is the widespread acceptance and movement that now has an entire month dedicated to it in June. And I think social media is another explanation why. And they detailed that in this study, they said that for the most part, women have experienced the most dramatic growth in the LGBTQ community because of what they see on social media and what they're being influenced by. Young women are on social media way more than men. They're more active. And they are more exposed to accounts that feature LGBTQ topics. So I would say not even being on social media makes you gay in

34:41itself or makes you a lesbian, but I think seeing something over and over makes it normalized to you. So even if you're not gay yourself, you might become way more accepting of it, right? And this is what our society wants. So what does this say? LGBTQ more among liberals. Well, that makes sense too, right? Liberals more so going to be gay because the Democrat Party pumps, you know, just pumps us full of gay propaganda all the time. Like it is just gay this gay that will protect the gay's gay rights. You're oppressed will protect you. So of course, if you're gay, you are, and again, this is not everyone, but for the most part, a lot of gay people are going to be attracted to the Democrat Party because they're saying, you know, we are for you. The other guys aren't. Of course, there are conservative gays that have their heads on straight, but it's not the majority. So I think it is social media is a very compelling explanation because

35:44there was a dramatic uptick in LGBTQ people, especially among women during the pandemic. And after the pandemic restricted people socializing in person, people spent way more time on social media, people are way more addicted to their phones. Now I know I am personally. I'm not gay, but I'm on my phone. A hell of a lot more than I used to be. And I can see this. I can absolutely see this. The more you're on social media, the more you're exposed to these social contagions, the more you think that it's happening, the more you become accepting of it, the more you're willing to actually become that thing that you see online. And then when it comes to TV shows, I don't know. I'm sure no one in this chat has watched it. Maybe you have. But there's this new show on Netflix called Heated Rivalry. And I really know nothing about it other than the fact that it's hockey related. And there are two hockey players that are gay. That is like the

36:44premises of the show, the premise of the show, rather. And the women are eating this show up. Women online, I scroll on social media. And women are saying that they love this show. They love watching the gay scenes. They love watching gay people. And like I don't necessarily feel that way. So when I heard that this show is all about gay guys, like I wasn't like, oh, that's for me. But a lot of women feel that way. I would like to see how many of these women are on birth control, hormonal birth control. I don't know. Maybe that is something to do with it. But these actors, these gay actors who play these gay hockey players in the show were asked, why do you think women like Heated Rivalry so much? And this is what they had to say. Watch. Why would straight women like this? I was talking to Hannah, our costume designer. And she was like, well, I think that there's something about this type of story and this type of love and this type of sex that has a lot to do with this almost like prolonged foreplay and yearning. And she's like, I think that's what the female audiences are really drawn to. I think it's more so geared towards

37:51a feminine gaze, which is super interesting. Women are so into stories that involve gay men is because they are so exhausted by the idea of straight men. This is the only way that they get to see a form of masculinity that feels accessible and interesting to them, which I think is a cool point. Because it does turn the normal idea of masculinity on its head in a lot of different ways. This is weird to me. Is there something about real masculine men that women don't like anymore? And that if that's the case, why is that? Why are women turning to a more feminized masculinity than the masculinity that we all know? I just don't understand that. And then there was this other TikTok video that I want to go through the comments. But this is a woman who says that he did rivalry reminded me that I am in fact attracted to men. This woman says

38:52she was watching the show and she is reminded why she's attracted to men. Meaning that normal straight men being depicted in TV shows doesn't do it for her anymore. But she is more so attracted to the gay men on the show. That's strange. And then I was going through the comments and they were just all in agreement. The first top comment is, but am I attracted to men? Or am I attracted to men kissing? Question mark. And that comment has over 18,000 likes. Why would a woman be more turned down by two men kissing than a man and a woman kissing? That's strange to me. If you are a straight woman, why would you be more attracted to watching gay men? And then someone else said it made me realize how much I'd thrive in a lavender marriage honestly,

39:52which we'll get into later in the show. But lavender marriages are straight women dating gay men and they're doing it on purpose. And people said that's because they're fictional men written by women. So women are more so attracted to not real life men, but the men that women want men to be, if that makes sense. Like there are female writers on the show, they've written these men in a way that they've written these characters in a way that will attract women. That doesn't mean that this is how men are in real life. So it's really not based in reality. Maybe it's reality for gay men, but not for women, but straight women now are buying into this, which I think is really weird. And then someone said the worst part of this show is reminding me that I'm straight. What? Like you're watching a show about gay men and then you're upset because you'd rather have gay men than straight men. It's just like weird that we've gotten to this place. And this is such a popular show.

40:58But again, this is, this is how a popular show about gay men is affecting adult women. But this woman brought up a really good point on TikTok that this is even happening in kids shows. Watch. I ain't gotten none against gay people, but it's so sad that I can't find not one show damn near. Well, I probably, it's probably a couple, but I could barely find any shows to for my kids to watch because it's gay shit all up in here. I don't want my son looking at a man on a TV screen and he has on makeup. I promise, like, it's not, it's not nothing against y'all, but I just don't like it. Even my daughters, I don't want them seeing that shit either. That's confusing. Kids should just be kids. Let them grow up and figure out what they want to do. Like, why I put that shit in a face like that? I feel like that's just really weird. I don't know. That is just weird to me. It is weird. It's weird. It comes off as predatory because again, and we talked about this with the don't say gay bill or so the Democrats call it. There's no reason to have these conversations with young children. You don't need to talk to young kids about sexuality. They're

42:05they're going to figure it out on their own. It's quite literally biological, right? You, I remember having a crush on boys in like preschool. And that was young, but I still knew that I was attracted to boys. I didn't have to have a conversation with an adult that told me what that is. It is what it is. I didn't need to be told anything. It just happened. You don't even need to learn it. You just, it happens naturally. So even if a kid is gay, and I do think that there's a social aspect to this where you can kind of be groomed into being gay, but I do believe that people can naturally be attracted to the same sex and let it happen naturally. Why would an adult need to have a conversation about this? It just is what it is. All the gay people in all of history have figured it out so far. You don't need to have this conversation with kids that are underage. It's just disgusting. It's disgusting. It's predatory. It's grooming. So it with these children's shows

43:12also showing this gay stuff. It just means that we are now, this social contagion is going to start so much younger. We are going to have to undo this at some point. Because now they're almost forcing these conversations to be had when they don't need to be had. Because now kids are going to be watching a show. There's going to be a gay person on the show. They're going to ask their parents, what is this? There's going to be men kissing. What is this? There's going to be a trans or a non-binary character. Now they're going to go to their parents and ask questions that normally they would never have to ask. So we're having conversations now so much earlier. And I think that's partly why the Democrats wanted teachers to be able to have these conversations because the parents are out of the room. And they get to affirm all of the things that the media is telling them. So if you have a society that is being exposed to this homosexuality and gender fluidity nonsense, very young, this is going to have an impact when these men and women grow up

44:18to be teenagers, start dating, now they're adults. What does this mean? And we're getting to a point now in our society where the marriage rate is lower, the birth rate is lower. And we have what the internet has coined the male loneliness epidemic that men don't want to date women anymore and women don't want to date them right back. And this woman brought up a really good point. She was on Wilkins' show and she has a book out. And I would actually love to have her on as a guest to kind of do a deep dive into this. But here's what she had to say about why she thinks DEI is making men less desirable to women. Watch. So in researching this book, I was trying to understand why is it that we as a society are having less sex than ever before. The statistic I've since kept coming across is that one in five men or sorry one in three men and one in five women have not had sex in the past year. I think more men, especially young men, are turning down

45:21this route because they're having difficulties dating. And I think also things like DEI, so diversity, equity, inclusion initiatives are making it harder for men to be successful. So it's more difficult for them to attract the mate. And so instead, men who have been shut out on the mating market are saying, well, I'm going to turn to these alternatives instead, like pornography, like AI girlfriends, like sex dolls and sex robots eventually when they become affordable enough and use that in place of having a real-life partner. This is fascinating. And I do think that there's truth to this that DEI has made men less desirable because if men aren't making as much money and women are making more money, well, then what purpose do men have anymore? Right? Men don't even feel like they are bringing home the bacon. They don't feel useful. They don't feel needed because women have done without them. Women are making enough money now or, you know, and I'm including myself in this. I make enough money where I can live by myself. I don't need to rely on anyone else. So I don't need a man in the form of financial assistance. And I think in like a bigger

46:29city, you see people moving in more together because of financial purposes, like when I was living in New York City, people who were just dating would move in together because they couldn't afford rent. And I think it would like speed up the relationship process because in New York City, when life is really expensive, you really do need that other person, male or female to get through life together and to be able to afford it. And I think with the affordability crisis happening in our country right now, this is happening now all over the country where women do need to work. There is no world in which a woman can stay home. And I'm not saying that it's an impossibility. But I have one friend who's a stay-at-home mom. All the rest of my friends who are moms or are pregnant are the breadwinners. So they are forced to do the mom thing and bring home the bacon. And they need their husband's salary too. I'm not saying that he's like a total deadbeat, but it's so crazy how this whole thing has flipped. And I don't know if men are making less money

47:34because of DEI practices. I think I'm sure some companies have DEI rules or quotas where certain amount of leadership roles need to be women. But I don't think that men in certain, if a man and a woman are in the same role that men are making less money than women, I don't think that that's really happening. So I don't really know why men are making less money. I think that it's just harder to provide in the economy today. And I know men in my life and my personal life who would love to have my friend, their wife, you know, stay home, but they just can't afford it. And that's not a knock on men. That's a knock on the affordability crisis that we're living in right now. So you can't buy a house, you need your wife to work. It's just like it is what it is, right? So people have these strong held traditional beliefs that kind of have to go by the wayside because they genuinely can't make that reality happen anymore. It's become more of this traditional lifestyle of, you know, man, wife, picket, fans, two and a half kids,

48:39has become more of a pipe dream than the American dream, which is really sad. And again, that's, it's not to say that women want that less or men want that less. It's just not a reality anymore. So people have to shift their expectations. And men, I think, are still wanting these things, but now badass girl boss feminist women are making so much money than they look down on men. And then it becomes this whole cycle where men don't want to date liberal women, liberal women don't want to date men. And now people aren't dating anymore. People are just like, it's better to be alone. I'll stand by couch. I can afford life by myself. I'll just do it alone. And it seems like there is this discourse online where there are so many men that hate women and so many women that hate men. So I wanted to bring you two examples. I didn't bring Andrew Tate and I didn't bring Nick Fontes to the table because we already know that they hate women. I actually think that these men are gay. They hate women so much of their gay. But this is a man. I don't think he's gay,

49:39but he doesn't like women. Watch this. One of the biggest problems when it comes to like dating and relationships is I don't think women realize how annoying they are. Like I don't think they realize how selfish they are. Like how hard it is to deal with them. Like I know they can say the same thing and be said about men. That's valid and it's entirely true. But the problem is men notice even the problem is women don't realize how annoying they are. They don't realize how emotional they are. They don't realize how a lot of the shit that they be wanting us to do annoys us. But we do it out of love. You feel me? So he still stays with women. He does the thing that the things that women ask of him out of love. But he's annoyed with women. See there's there's an annoyance now where it's like listen my biology is making me attracted to you but I don't like you and you're annoying. And I think a lot of men find women annoying. I'm a woman

50:40and I find a lot of women annoying. And there are people in my DMs that tell me every day that I'm annoying. I get it, right? Like women are annoying. Everyone hates women. Okay, I get it. But I think that real men still like women and real women still like men. Like this is a reality that is still true. There are always going to be women and men that like each other and are attracted to each other. And I do think that it's more so going to be conservative men and women finding each other. And then I don't know what's happening on the liberal side because I'm not privy to that information. I don't know what's going on inside their brains. I can try to make fun of it. But I don't know. But I do think that people will start dating along party lines even more so than they already are because and my friends, their little brother, they just told me that their little brother, he won't go up to girls in bars anymore because he doesn't want to it's not that he doesn't want to approach. It doesn't it's not that he doesn't want to date women anymore. But he's afraid of striking up a conversation with a liberal woman because he doesn't

51:43want to waste time dating liberal women. So people this end up going on dating apps and what have you. But now women also don't want to date men. Here's an example of that. Watch. Am I the only one that feels like we are kind of at war with men right now or like I'm feeling very against men right now. Like I go spaces where there's majority men and I feel I feel there's something there. I feel like I am resentful like when I go to the gym and there's guys there when I go golfing and it's all men. I'm just like I think all of you hate me. I think all of you hate me and wish that I like I don't know it's just the way that men have been treating women for so many generations and today we're like wait what the fuck why is locker room talk a thing like why like it's just maybe I just don't respect them or something more than ever but I don't know does anyone else feel this when they're around men specifically. So it's a lack of respect men, men find women annoying and then women don't respect men. So this is a recipe for disaster

52:48because then no one was to date each other and I think that that video specifically is an example of this liberal victim mentality complex. Well men have been treating us like this for years and locker room talk and all these things and it's like yeah men and women are different so you have to embrace those differences or then you go down the liberal you know rabbit hole of you could be whatever you want but the biological realities that men and women are different and we used to be attracted to each other even though we were different that was like kind of the point but this woman Rosalia is a singer and she was just interviewed recently about what she wants in a man and this is what she said. What is the quality you like most in a man? That he's gay. That he's gay. When we sit in the interviewer said well that makes two of us. So this is a singer she's famous. What do

53:48you look for in a man that he's gay? So there are and maybe she's just joking I guess but I don't think that she is I think that this is real. Weird joke. Yeah it's a weird joke to make and why would a straight woman want a gay man? Again maybe she's on hormonal birth control maybe the environment has made all of these women gay and all these men gay right and if women are gay and men are gay then no one's going to be having kids it explains the birth rate declining it explains the marriage rate declining because everyone's going to be looking for different things and if women are only dating women and or gay men and men are only dating men I mean what happens to our society it completely collapses. So what is happening now is that there are gay men who are marrying women or vice versa and I really don't think that I've ever seen it go the opposite way where a

54:52straight man has married a lesbian. So this is really a phenomenon where women are marrying gay men and it's called lavender marriages and one of the most famous most viral lavender marriages on TikTok is a gay man married to a straight woman and they claim that they are just each other's soulmates, sweet hearts, everything and they're just not sexually attracted to each other and for them that's fine. I think that they are just asexual and their friends and they're just like living together and in that case just be roommates and be friends I don't understand why you have to get married but this is the video watch. I'm gay and I married a woman and we want to talk about the problem with lavender marriages. So first of all we are not a lavender marriage. We refer to ourselves as mixed orientation and the difference is a lavender marriage suggests that the queer person is still hiding their identity from the world and using the nonqueer person as a sort of beard or shield so that people still think they're a hetero. And it's kind of a trendy thing right now and I

55:56think they just have not found the better term to describe what people are actually doing. I think this day and age lavender marriage is more of a marriage of convenience where two people either are like let's get married because we haven't found our person or because it conveniently will be better to not spend life alone. Yeah but we are soulmates we are not married because of convenience we are married because we love each other and want to be together and there's no other option for us. And also I'm out and proud I don't hide this from the world and I believe that it is so much better for the queer person to be able to still hold on to this identity and say it to the world so they can speak their truth. Well I mean this is just wild this is even a thing I again I don't really know what a gay man brings to the table that a straight man doesn't for a straight

56:57woman that means that straight women are really no longer straight. So really I think that everyone and the left always says that the sexuality is this like gender fluid it's fluid it's a spectrum it's not black or white and I do think that with all of these hormone disruptors in our food and our water and all around us and then the social contagion aspect of it and propaganda aspect of it I mean there are more people in the middle than there are on either side which I think is very scary and I was scrolling on TikTok this morning and a video came up just on the topic of lavender marriages it was this man who I think looked pretty straight in my opinion but you could tell he was putting on kind of like the gay act like the mannerisms and the voice and he was saying I was married for however many years and I knew that I was gay the entire time but my wife didn't know and I think that that is so evil to do to someone if you are gay and you don't want to admit it

58:02to the rest of society that's your problem and you don't need to make that someone else's problem I mean imagine being the wife who finds out oh the man that I married the man that I thought was the love of my life didn't even like me wasn't even attracted to me the entire time but he's just using me as a beard as a cover-up to make himself look a different way to society I mean I couldn't imagine feeling more used and discarded that is one of the most evil things that you can do to someone and again if you are feeling these feelings you get them fixed you don't affirm them and then use you know this person this woman as a shield like from the rest of society like if you're too afraid to come out as gay you're just going to use this woman and waste all of her time I think that's crazy and I think that that's really what we're seeing is a lot of men are gay they don't want to come out as gay and then a lot of women for whatever reason they are more attracted to

59:04gay men and we're going to be seeing more of this so again I think the birth rate is declining it is a huge problem I think men and women are not attracted to each other anymore that is a huge problem I think affordability is a huge problem and I'd be interested in diving into this more because not only with that guest who says she was diving into the DEI aspect of it all but also Rachel Wilson has a book out and she was recently on the Joe Rogan experience and she talked about how Marxism and feminism has actually rewired the brains of women and turned them into these liberal protesters that we see essentially so I think that you know the feminization of society is so dangerous because these women are not even feminine in the way that women used to be women they're kind of more like male and they're being brainwashed essentially so we certainly don't want to live in a matriarchy and I think that's something we need to keep our eyes on so I'm interested in this deep dive I hope that you guys liked it and hopefully we'll do some other episodes diving into some more

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