
About this episode
Have you ever ignored a red flag because everything else felt so right? In today’s honest and eye-opening episode, Kevin and Alan unpack why we tend to overlook warning signs—especially when the “green flags” are shining bright. From painting red flags green to mistaking excitement for alignment, they share personal stories, tough lessons, and the power of knowing your core values. Whether you’re navigating love, friendships, or business, this conversation will help you stop settling and start choosing better.
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Show notes:
(2:04) Settling due to loneliness
(3:07) Belief and self-worth issues
(4:15) Painting red flags green
(5:21) Compatibility Vs. Chemistry
(11:00) Trauma bonding and identity
(14:04) Finding your “absolutely people”
(16:59) At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/
(18:19) Rock bottom as a wake-up call
(25:30) Hoping someone will save you
(28:37) Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work
(30:06) Drinking to force compatibility
(31:32) Outro
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