
About this episode
This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and being in a queer relationship with Mother Gaia. Ashley gets hit on by a man. Jen ruins a straight girl.
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