Too Much, Too Young? with Sean

Giving up alcohol in her twenties felt impossible for VIc.

Back then, drinking wasn’t just normal, it was the entire social structure. Nights out, friendships, dating, coping with stress, it all seemed to revolve around booze. So when someone decides to step away from it early, without a dramatic rock bottom or life implosion, it raises an interesting question..... Is something changing?

In this episode, Vic sits down with Sean, 28 and one year sober, who realised early on that alcohol wasn’t actually adding much to his life.

What started as very social drinking slowly crept into something else. Sean would finish a night out, grab a bag of cans on the way home, and carry on drinking alone. Before long, it was completely out of control. The pints were adding up. His mates noticed. His parents were worried. His girlfriend eventually gave him an ultimatum.

But after facing the truth about where his “normal” drinking was heading, Sean made a change.

Now, sober alongside his partner, he represents a growing shift we’re seeing in younger generations choosing clarity, mental health and self-trust over hangovers and hazy weekends.

Together they talk about what it’s really like to quit while your friends are still deep in drinking culture, whether younger people are genuinely drinking less, and what you gain when you stop before alcohol has decades to dig its claws in.

This conversation isn’t about regret or doing things “perfectly”.

It’s about curiosity, culture shifts, and the quiet bravery of opting out sooner rather than later.

Whether you’re questioning your own drinking at 23 or reflecting back at 43, this one might make you think.

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