The Undeniable Submitted Marriage | ReWire 1880

 I've been married 4 times, and divorced 3. 

 

Each time, I never thought I would find love again. 

 

The kind of love that is easy, peaceful, and supportive. 

 

As I was entering into my relationship with Amy, I had already created an 8-page document detailing exactly who she is. 

 

I know it sounds crazy, and a bit woo-woo, but I got tired of being in failed relationships.  

 

Most of them were because I was involved. 

 

All jokes aside, when Amy and I got married, we agreed to enter into a submitted marriage. 

 

No, it's not being a cuck.......it's more about finding the right flow and lanes we can each exist in. 

 

What is a submitted marriage? 

 

It's where two people decide where they are going to solve any disagreements by going to the default of finding resolution. 

 

In my marriage, if we have any disagreements around kids, Amy always has the last word. 

 

At work, I'm the bread winner, but she has to default to what I want as it pertains to work. 

 

It's that simple. 

 

Find your lanes. Establish them. 

 

Take the arguments out of making your way through disagreements that blow up most marriages. 

 

 

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