The Moment You Become Unbreakable (Motivational Speech)

0:00Welcome to Real Talk with Reggie of the day. I'm your host, Reggie of the day. On today's episode, I'm going to talk about becoming unbreakable. Let's get real, fam. Life is tough. Life is challenging. Life has the way of making you weak or making you stronger. It just depends on how you react to situations in life. It can either break you or you can become unbreakable through it. In order for you to become unbreakable, especially emotionally, there are a few things I want to throw at you. I need you to know that becoming unbreakable doesn't mean you will never feel pain. It just means that you won't allow things you're going through to destroy you. There's something I need you to know when becoming unbreakable. First realize that you're human. You're going to cry sometimes. You're going to get frustrated sometimes. And that's okay. So you can't deal with reality if you don't understand

1:03your reality. Become an unbreakable means you have blocked the world's permission to tell you how to feel. If you're satisfaction in life comes from someone else's approval about you. If you're satisfaction comes from certain people liking you, do you just make yourself a hostage in your own life? I need you to understand when becoming unbreakable I need you to realize that your real strength comes from internally. So you can't control everything that happens to you. But you definitely had a power to control what happens within you. Don't you know that unbreakable people don't waste energy fighting their reality? They accept their reality no matter how bad and they do something about it. The reason you have been broken down so many times is because you keep letting reality beat you down and you're doing nothing about it. Just because you feel it doesn't mean you need to

2:03feed it. Yes, you're going to feel sad. Angry and fearful at times. That's the part of your emotions. Those things will show up in your life from time to time. You just can't let them drive the car. That's the point when you got to take over and quit dwelling on those things. When becoming unbreakable, you need to focus on your efforts and your character. You need to give your all to everything you set out to do. Finish what you started. If you dream of having your own business, finish it. If you dream of going to college, go forward and finish it. Don't let nobody finish what you started. This is your dream. This is your desire. The power is more than you will have in life is when you know that you gave it your all. When you know that you gave it your all, then other people's opinions doesn't even matter anymore, right? That's how you become unbreakable. When you become

3:09unbreakable, you shift mentally from thinking that you are damaged goods to knowing that you are a battle tester. I need you to do this. Look back over your life and everything you've been through. You keep bouncing back. You're shown that you can have a weight that will question normal and average person. There are days where your heart is heavy, but you show up in a way. There are days where you don't feel like nothing, but you show up in a way. So that kind of consistency and determination made you into that unbreakable person that can't be moved. Life provided your cage has shaped your foundation, but it can't break you when you know what's in you. That is the power within you that God has given you that will allow you to overcome anything. Being unbreakable means that you are made of something that nothing in the world can crack. Let's talk about this. And you're probably not going to like this. When becoming unbreakable, you have to quit spending time

4:13praying for a lighter load in life. You got to realize the heavier the load, the stronger your back is going to be. Becoming unbreakable means that when life knocks you down, you don't stay down. You flex under pressure. You'll strengthen this bound when you refuse to let life's challenges change who you really are or who you want to become. You know, I seen a lot of people in life that always look for an out or a rescue. They never want to face what is going on in their lives and they keep losing over and over again. When you stop looking for someone to rescue you, that's when you will find your power. You have to take ownership of your life. If you'll sit in the round waiting on life to be fair, you have already lost your life. Your greatness comes from the things that try to destroy you. I need you to remember that. It was tough, but you stayed in the game. That's why you're

5:15unbreakable. You can't break a person that refuses to give up and quit. See, all those times you thought you were scarred, but in our reality, you were being reinforced. You just got to stay disciplined. Discipline is something that your emotions cannot penetrate. Now, let me share a couple of things about becoming emotionally unbreakable. In order for you to let your emotions become unbreakable, you have to start reacting immediately. Think things through before you react. That's how you make good decisions and the right decisions. Learn to stay calm doing chaos. Also, never let your anger make decisions for you. Choose peace over conflict. Sometimes you got to detach yourself from people. Just make sure you do it gracefully. And here's the big one. Instead, what you cannot control, man, don't waste your

6:19energy or emotions on something you have no control of. I need you to know that every choice you made is either a deposit or withdrawal in your life. The only thing that's standard in the way of you and your end goal is your F. See, life is not driven by love. It's driven by structure and discipline. Like I told you once before, you can either have excuses or you can have results, but you can't have both. Once you realize that nothing etching can destroy your internal power, that's when you become the most dangerous person in the room. That's when you become unbreakable. That's just a real talk of Richard D. If you enjoyed this, a real talk of Richard D. Please rate and review on Apple Podcast. See you next time.