The Mature Way to End a Relationship (Most People Never Do This)

0:00The mature way to end a relationship and I guarantee you most people never do this Hey, everyone welcome back to words of wisdom Let's talk about divorces break-ups separations, okay? a few days ago a friend of mine called me and she wanted to meet up, so we did She unloaded on me about her marriage ending and I was more than happy to just listen Sometimes that's exactly what people need as safe space to share without judgment She told me it felt like World War III I stayed quiet letting her tell the whole story When she finished I asked if she wanted my feedback or just an ear She said she wanted my thoughts So here I am sharing my thoughts of what I told her with you I said you both fell in love once you said yes to his proposal

1:02Love was real so why not communicate honestly when things aren't working If you're unhappy sit down calmly with your partner Take their hand look them in the eyes and say I love you babe. I always will you know this But this isn't working for me. I need out Start with honesty and with respect Calm communication is everything Everyone has heard communication is key Absolutely, I agree with that 50% the other 50% is all about the delivery Hence the calm communication is everything When both people can speak and listen without yelling blaming or attacking Endings don't have to feel like battles Men women whoever it doesn't matter When you're honest and clear you give the other person a chance to understand not react and anger

2:06You model integrity and emotional intelligence You show that even when love changes respect doesn't have to Now if both of you want to work on the relationship fantastic But if you're deeply unhappy dragging it out only creates resentment People think a breakup has to be ugly, but it doesn't It only becomes messy when fear pride and lack of communication take over A calm conversation grounded in respect sets the tone for the future even if the relationship ends Okay Now I know people who divorced but remain supportive of each other and their children They lead by example showing that even after love changes trust and respect can remain Their kids see leadership maturity and love Not hate and conflict

3:08That's the legacy calm communication creates Divorces and breakups they don't have to destroy families You can still care for each other be friends and honor your shared life Especially if kids are involved Fighting spending money on lawyers or trying to get back at each other only hurts everyone including the children Calm honest communication prevents that Do you want to pay a lawyer and help put their children through university or would you rather get along and save that money for your children to get to university Life is too short to hold on to hate Ending a relationship doesn't have to be a battlefield If a relationship isn't working it's kinder for everyone to separate respectfully Talk to each other Listen be honest

4:09acknowledge the love that existed Apologize for the hurt express hope for each other's future end with love not resentment Okay If you're going through a breakup, I'm sending you so much love courage and strength Don't stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy Don't fight don't spread hate and don't let bitterness dictate your life Calm communication can transform endings from chaos into clarity It models respect for your children your family and yourself Life is too short Choose love respect and positivity even in endings Okay Okay, guys, I have to get back to work if this message resonated don't keep it to yourself Like this podcast to support spreading healthy mature ways to handle relationships

5:12Share it with someone who needs to hear that love and respect cancer five even a breakup And subscribe towards a wisdom so you never miss lessons that help us all live with more love less hate and more heart I love you all so very much. God bless You

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