Stop Asking “What Should I Do?” Ask This Instead

Stuck trying to figure out what you should do next?

Maybe you're asking the wrong question.

Instead of asking “What should I do?”, try asking:

“Who do I want to be here?”

In this episode, we're talking about identity-based decision making, what pressure reveals about the patterns you've practiced, and how to become the person capable of living the life you're working so hard to create.

Because you don't become courageous after the success.

You practice courage now.

You don't become peaceful when everything works out.

You practice peace while things are uncertain.

Identity comes before evidence.

And if you're ready to make clearer decisions, trust yourself more, experience more peace around money and success, and stop allowing fear to run the show, come join us inside The Obedient Rebel Room.

Your first month is just $1: https://theobedientrebel.com/room

📘 Get a copy of The Prosperity Approach: https://allysonchavez.com/TheProsperityApproach

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Key Takeaways

00:00 – Stop Asking “What Should I Do?”
00:50 – Identity-Based Decisions
01:09 – Choose Who You Want to Be
02:01 – When You Make a Mistake
03:27 – Own It and Move Forward
06:00 – Circumstances Reveal You
07:20 – Awareness Without Judgment
07:52 – What Pressure Reveals
09:02 – Become Who Can Hold It
10:14 – Growth Before Results
10:47 – Growing Through Hard Seasons
11:59 – Practice the Identity Today
12:45 – Identity Before Evidence
13:32 – The Decision-Making Exercise
15:44 – When It Becomes Automatic
17:05 – Who Do You Want to Be?
17:27 – Choose the Next Step
17:48 – The Obedient Rebel Room
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Additional Resources

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