Start Living Like a Winner Today with These Strategies

0:00This is the Cliffy H Show, Personal Growth, Motivation, Inspiration, and Philosophies for a Great Life. Hey everybody welcome to the Cliffy H Show podcast as always you are in the right place and body a winning mindset today. Right now not in the future. I know that I've been talking a lot about creating an image of where you want to be in the future and start working towards that image and then your life is going to build towards that end and that still applies today except for our self-image. Our identity we want that winning identity right now is you work towards that image of where you want to get to in the future you're going to do that with a winning mindset starting day one today is day one it's very important because if you

1:02have an image off into the future of you as a winner having a winner mindset in the future today I'm here a loser a losing mindset but I'm working towards that winning image that I now I'm on track no you don't want that because as we you and I have been discussing that's going to put us in a negative vibration we are saying we are a negative place we're moving towards a great place but right now we are in a negative vibration we are in a losing mindset and we want to get out of it. Now our mindset we can change blink of an eye right now today you're a winner going forward from this point so start embodying a winning mindset right now today it makes a difference on the emotion that we're feeling which creates a vibration which is going to cause an attraction to things people in circumstances in the universe who are on that vibration you're

2:03going to attract that which you are thinking we are what we think about all day long and it's an exciting thing to focus on because it puts all the power with us you me and I want to share all these things with you today because I know that you are someone who wants to transform into something better more an image in the future of yourself greater than you are today that's not to say you might be in a great spot where you are right now but we have to keep growing we have to keep expanding our effectiveness you know our abilities we have to keep expanding growing and that's what we are today we have a winning mindset and I want you to make sure that you go out with that in your head I want that to be the voice that you're hearing you are a winner there's no failure there's

3:04only feedback that's how we get better at things and we have to be willing when we're willing and able to learn something new we have to have the wisdom so no I'm going to start this new thing and I'm going to suck at it oh I'm going to be shitty because I'm starting right from the beginning you can't walk in to an expertise and something you haven't done before but having this foreknowledge you're going to be willing to suck you're going to be willing to do that because I know I'm going to get better and better and I'm going to keep getting better at this and then eventually you'll look back and think wow look where I've come from in there see you might be an expert over here in this in this in this it's okay to now to add life is this and Gary Vee Gary Vaynerchuk someone who I follow he says when people ask him should I do this or should I do that and he always says life is and no you should do that and hey

4:06you're already an expert in probably several different things because you have focused your life on those things and so now you want to add other things why because we have to keep growing life is about growing for not growing we are dying that is how life works that's how it's set up now that we know the way it works how we have to do is work within it work within the laws of nature what the laws of God and you are going to be amazed at how your life is going to transform from where it is today to that image or images that you're going to be creating and if you're not creating images already start right now have a vision board and get those images in your head consciously think about them consciously marry those thoughts with the images with strong emotion and then they're going to get deposited into the subconscious mind that has to accept them they have to your subconscious subjective mind has to accept it our

5:07conscious mind as we've been talking about another episodes can reject or accept you have a choice that you can make the conscious mind can accept the reject the subconscious mind cannot it accepts whatever you put into it whatever you command it whatever thoughts that you put into it it doesn't argue with you and say wait a minute you have a lot more going for you are not a loser you're a champion no it goes by what you tell it is happening whatever you strongly imagine in your mind in your visual mind in the theater of your mind your imagination is going to be accepted by your subconscious as real I often talk about that example the guy in the prison camp our years and years every day he would play 18 rounds of golf in his head to each to the detail of every hole and he would keep score he gets out of prison five six seven years later

6:12his first round of golf is the best score that he ever had why he'd already been playing in his mind but his subconscious had no idea that that was not real your subconscious will take a strongly imagined image as being real you've probably have experienced this already you heard a noise you created an image in your head that this was something that was happening and then it turned out not to be true but your subconscious accepted it and you started experiencing in your body as if it was real maybe you had goosebumps or you you you became fearful and it turned out your imagination had created that subconscious accepted it as real and it was not real at all all right be careful the images that you create in the theater of your mind as you can see my backdrop here's a theater you see the theater seats because you're always creating an image in the theater of your mind this is important because of I'm going to

7:19quote Ralph Waldo Emerson Ralph Waldo Emerson said who you are speak so loudly I can hardly hear you talking so who you are speaks so loudly I can hardly hear you talking you're you receive right he's saying I hear you I hear I'm receiving I'm noise I'm receiving I'm hearing who you are I'm hearing the words doesn't matter I can hardly hear you talking but I hear who you are but I can hardly hear you talking because you're speaking with your body language your facial expressions and your thoughts you're on a frequency of vibration that other people receive that's who they accept is who you are the vibration the frequency you're on natural words not so much words play a part obviously we have neuro associations with certain words we feel like we have

8:25an obligation to a certain neurological response to words because we've anchored those responses with words and movements and so we tend to say certain words and it puts us in a state of physical state but who you are speak so loudly I can hardly hear you talking that's a message and you know how that's true we've talked about frequency and vibration how someone comes into a room and if they're out of negative frequency and negative vibration you are repelled by them right you don't want to be around them you don't want to be you want to get away from them right because they're not in the same frequency or vibration that you are and it it repels you well people can feel the same from you right if that's what your thoughts are that's what your self-image is that's going to put you on a vibration this not in the positive side it's going to be on the negative side you're going to be more attracting and attractive to people who are on that frequency who are on that vibration so

9:31I want you to adopt now a winning mindset embody that physically emotionally neurologically you are a winner I don't care what the results were yesterday even today doesn't matter those are feedback that you're that you're taking into consideration as you move forward you're a winner today today you're a winner you do things in a winning way you you have great things happen to you and for you you anticipate the greatness that is coming your way and at the same time you have taken into account what could happen on a negative side so that when life happens you're not surprised or shaken by it you've already pre-rehearsed that this could happen it's a possibility and if it does this is what's next that's the next powerful question what's next we've been talking about that and body that question what's next it's going to change your focus instead of focusing on

10:35why why did this happen well why does my like no what's next focusing right now I'm thinking of shackled in that guy who he went on that expedition in the South Pole that it was meant to you know be a couple months it turned out to be two years they were trapped on an ice flow right and his initial his initial goal was to get an exposition to the South Pole someone beat him to it immediately he just changed his focus to what's next and so instead of that's already been done okay now I'm gonna cross from one side of the Antarctica and the South Pole to the other side you know I'm gonna have an expedition ship here and we're gonna start here and then we're gonna have another one we're gonna meet at a certain location but the idea is he went to what's next he didn't wallow and somebody's already done what I had planned to do no he said what's next that's a powerful question no matter what happens to you in life and life is going to

11:38happen to you and that's the way we want it that's why I have this here the fader of your mind you as I always talk about and that's is not for me I learned of this make sure that you're casting yourself as the hero in your journey you're the hero in the movie of your life don't cast yourself as an extra people do that they never see themselves in the game in the movie as the main player as the hero you want to be on that hero's journey and you always are and that's what makes life exciting we're on a hero's journey what happens on the hero's journey in a movie if you saw a movie where the hero is doing great in halfway through they're doing great and at the end when the credits roll they're doing great that's a boring damn movie you would never watch but the hero is living a good life and then they get knocked down oh oh they didn't see that coming oh they got knocked down oh they're starting to get back up

12:39hey that's oh they're getting back up on their feet after getting knocked that they're knocked down again I never saw that wow oh they're never gonna they're starting to get back up oh again knock down that's okay that's only act one and two act three they overcome they're victorious they win happily ever after and it's a great movie your life is a great movie cast yourself as the hero because you are the hero and one way you can do that starting today is to make sure you're embodying a winning mindset the self-image is so important because self-image really dictates our behavior what we do is created by the self-image that we have this has been studied by so many people it's so obvious it's scientific there's no reason why we don't embody this and know it we should know this consciously that our self-image is so important it drives our

13:45behavior Maxwell Maltz was a plastic surgeon and he repaired people's scars on their faces right he made their faces beautiful again and then he began to notice that some people some people who repaired their their face they were beautiful and they went out there and took on the world and they did great things and then he saw that other people their face was now beautiful again and they still walked around as if they had the scar on their face that's how they presented themselves to the world to other people that's how they acted that was their self-image that scar they had a mental scar that was not repaired the facial scar physically was repaired they were walking around with a mental scar that was not repaired and so that's the way they carried themselves that was their self-image and that's why Maxwell Maltz wrote the book Psycho Cybernetics he found that the mind is an automatic success mechanism when you pick a

14:48destination just like an a sailboat heading for a port you will start to head in that direction you will constantly be adjusting because you're going to be off course but you will adjust until you get to where you're wanting to go but you have to set the destination in your mind your subconscious mind and your automatic success mechanism will be in place automatically steering you to that image in the future but the self-image going forward has to be okay today and that's what we're talking about read that book Psycho Cybernetics because it all has to do with self-image he started to just study the self-image because he realized that was the driver of everybody's behavior self-image and if we embody a winning mindset today and that's our self-image that's our identity we're a winner today that doesn't mean bad shit's not going to happen because believe me it is going to happen challenges and troubles are going to happen the

15:52biggest problem that people have today is they think they shouldn't have any as you develop your empire of success and you gain wealth and you gain great relationships and you are going to be gaining extra problems extra challenges the problem is not going to go away they're going to get bigger but what's going to change is your ability to handle problems you're going to be able to handle bigger and bigger problems to the point you're going to ask the universe your universe bring me some more bring expand my reach O Lord God expand my reach because I want to expand my ability to handle more I want to be able to take on more because that's fulfilling when making progress towards a worthy goal overcoming a worthy challenge that is where the meat of life is and I'm glad you're here because I wanted to talk also about living this philosophy you got

16:53to live it not talk about it now I'm talking about it because you are interested in transformation you're interested in getting to that next level you're interested in getting better every day in every way and so am I and that's why I'm talking to you about it keep this in mind not everybody is you would get excited about your new way of thinking your new philosophies of life your new winning attitude that you're going to about it from the state forward be careful not to give other people advice on these philosophies ideas and way of thinking because they might not be receptive to it people generally do not want or like unsolicited advice but I'm going to tell you if you live it instead of talk about it live your philosophy make the transformation make the changes just like today boom winning attitude embodying right now people are going to feel that as you walk into the room that's going to be the frequency and the vibration that you're going to be on they're going to sense it they may even

17:56inquire about there's something different about you what's going on with you I mean you seem really happy you seem like you're joyful I thought you were going through this thing oh I am but hey that's not going to define who I am I'm a winner go how are you doing that so they may inquire now people are going to ask advice or they want to what are you doing differently I want to know I see a damn change in you this happened to me 35 years ago when I went to my first Tony Robbins seminar and I had made the changes before the seminar of course but I was still on the path in the journey and my cousin she says I want to know I want to know what you're doing I see it and I told her well I went to Tony Robbins Tony Robbins who's that and then she went to Tony Robbins she became one of those people who took out her pack of cigarettes this is 25 years ago through her cigarettes away right there and never smoked again in a day in her life and she went on to own two gyms two curves and so she changed herself now I

19:02guess I had a positive impact on her life I was a positive influence why living by example and so that's how you're gonna have the biggest impact on other people by living by example which is what I do now in the podcast I talk about it I talk about it because I like podcasting I like filming it I like editing it I like putting it on the podcast platforms I like connecting with people I like going live on my YouTube channel where people will connect to me they will leave me messages we will talk back and forth and yes I like it when I have a positive impact on somebody else and they let me know about it yeah I get a dopamine hit with that it really fulfills me to know that I've had a positive impact on another person really there's no greater joy and I ask you try it yourself but do it with examples live by example live the philosophy the new thoughts you're thinking the new way you're doing things just live it and do

20:04it all the great if you ever studied stoic philosophy like Marcus Aurelius and Meditations right they didn't talk stoicism they lived it and as a matter of fact some of the great teachers they taught by living it right live it by example and then people are going to be naturally attracted to you well they're not naturally attracted they're attracted because you're on that frequency and vibration that they want to be on or maybe they're already on it and now they are in sync with you because they're on the same frequency that's what you want to be on baby that higher frequency the higher vibrations of life and you're going to attract the same to you but one thing we have to do right away starting day one and the one thing you can do right away on day one is embody a winning mindset so that's the call to action today everybody in this

21:05episode I'm glad you stopped by here and checked in with me you have greatness within you as as the great as it less Robbins would say yeah less Robbins you have greatness within you and you do have greatness within you and recognize it and go forward that winning mindset because it's gonna create it's gonna create a vibration in you that other people are going to feel sense and they're gonna like it and they may inquire what are you doing what are you thinking that's different than before because I sense it live the example everybody you're going to be naturally attracted to those people who want to be like you or that are already on your frequency call to action today is embody the winning mindset now you have the power all right everybody I'll see you in the next episode you know I love you