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Have we really solved the problem of social media and teenagers, or have we simply changed the rules around it?
In this episode of Sarah’s Thoughts, Sarah Grynberg reflects on Australia’s social media ban for young people and asks a difficult but important question. Is it actually working? While policies can create boundaries, they cannot remove the deeper human needs driving the behaviour in the first place.
Sarah explores how many teenagers are still finding ways around the ban and why this reveals something bigger than a technology issue. Social media is not just about apps or screens. It is about belonging, identity, validation and the powerful fear of being left out.
You’ll learn:
- Why banning platforms does not remove the deeper emotional drivers behind social media use
- How comparison, validation and belonging shape both teenage and adult behaviour online
- Why the real work of helping young people navigate social media still begins at home
This episode is a reminder that while legislation can start a conversation, it cannot replace the role of families, modelling and honest dialogue. Because the challenge is not just about teenagers or technology. It is about how all of us learn to build self worth, connection and resilience in a world that constantly asks us to compare ourselves to others.
And in the end, greatness is not created through control of the outside world. It is built through strength on the inside.
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Download the Deepop app and list your first item today. I don't think the social media ban in Australia is working. It's a controversial statement I know, but if we're being honest, it's not. At least not for the kids who are already on it. Most of them are still using it. They're figured out ways around it, different birth dates, backup accounts, VPNs, older siblings, logins, friends, phones. If there's one thing teenagers have brilliant out, it's working the system. But here's the part no one really wants to say out loud. A lot of parents aren't enforcing it either. That really is the truth. I know their exceptions, and I know some families are doing it beautifully, but this is broadly speaking. The ban hasn't removed social media from kids' lives. It's just made it quieter, a bit more hidden. And I think that's important to acknowledge, especially for people overseas who think Australia has solved something miraculous. We haven't. We've changed the rule, but we haven't changed the
desire because this isn't just about apps. It's about belonging. It's about identity. It's about not wanting to be the only one who isn't in the group chat or doesn't know the trend. You say you can ban a platform, but you can't ban the fear of missing out. Now here's where I think it could actually work. For the kids who have never been on it. If you've never had the dopamine hit, you don't crave it in the same way. If you've never lived in comparison mode, then you don't feel the same withdrawal. So yes, maybe the next cohort benefits. Please, God, fingers crossed, they do. But here's what makes me slightly uncomfortable. We're acting like policy will fix what is actually a cultural issue. We can't outsource parenting to legislation. We can't regulate self-worth into teenagers and we can't ban insecurity and we definitely can't ban comparison. That work still happens at home in conversations, in modeling and whether we put our own phones down
because here's the part that hurts. If adults can't stay of social media, if we're scrolling when we're anxious, if we're checking it before we even say good morning to our kids, what exactly are we teaching? It's very easy to say that they shouldn't have it. It's harder to look at our own relationship with it. And I'm not anti the ban no way at all. I just don't think it's the miracle people think it is. I think it's a starting point and maybe if we're brave, it's an invitation, an invitation to actually talk about belonging, about pressure, about why we all crave validation because this isn't just a teenage problem. It's a human one and greatness, real greatness isn't about controlling the outside world. It's about building strength on the inside and that's the part that no government can legislate. Let's continue this journey together via my weekly newsletter, head over to substalk and search
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