
REPLAY: The Tragedy of Disorganized Attachment
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***Possible Trigger Warning***
Learning about disorganized attachment might feel overwhelming and bring up uncomfortable feelings. Listen in a place and at a time you can take breaks and seek regulation. Titrate yourself! Maybe read the article on the blog instead of listening to the podcast. www.RobynGobbel.com/disorganizedattachment
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Another episode in the June series on attachment!
Today is all about disorganized attachment. If you haven't caught the previous four episodes in this series on attachment, be sure to check them out.
In this episode, we look at
- What happens when a baby's attachment system has them fleeing toward their caregiver when they are afraid, but the caregiver is who is causing the fright
- Why disorganized is disorganized- it's the only attachment 'style' that isn't organized
- The kinds of experiences an infant can experience as disorganizing
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